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65 min read · 12,911 words- 0:00 – 0:01
Intro
- DJDwayne Johnson
[upbeat music]
- 0:01 – 5:53
Why Hard Conversations Have Become So Difficult
- DJDwayne Johnson
I learned so much from my dad. Work ethic-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah
- DJDwayne Johnson
... discipline. But at the same time, I also know what it's like not to be hugged.
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Now I turn to my daughters, and it's, "Oh, you wanna paint my face?"
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
"Get the paint. How, what, how many colors do you wanna put on? Do you want this? You wanna do that? You wanna hit me in the balls? Okay, great."
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
"I'm gonna close my eyes. I know it's coming." He grabbed a shovel, a big shovel, my dad did, and drew a line in the dirt and said, "If you cross that line, I'm gonna kill you." The drunk asshole crossed the line, he knocked him out. Cold as a block of ice.
- TNTrevor Noah
Wow. 43 or 46% of the country would love the idea of Dwayne Johnson running for president. I mean, it either means you are the paragon of what people would hope a leader would be, or it means things have gotten so bad-
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
... that they, like, "We need somebody who's gonna come in here and lay the smackdown on everybody."
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs] Yes.
- TNTrevor Noah
Do you know what I mean?
- DJDwayne Johnson
I do.
- TNTrevor Noah
If there's one thing I've always loved, it's having a spirited conversation. I've always loved how the words coming out of another person's mouth can change how the mush in your brain processes or sees the world that it's seen a certain way for such a long time. It feels like these days, though, we might be losing that ability, or it's become a little bit harder. You know, a few days ago, I was, I was at an event, and people were having really interesting and dynamic conversations, conversations about really difficult topics, men, women, young and old alike. And every few minutes, somebody would start their opinion with the phrase, "Now, I would never say this in public, but..." or, "I would never say this if I was being recorded, but..." And I found that fascinating. So many of us have opinions and ideas about the world that we live in, that we are either unable, unwilling, or too scared to share. And I thought to myself, if we cannot have conversations about difficult things, if the conversations themselves are now the difficult things, then what hope do we have of fixing the difficult things, you know? I, I almost think of it like a, like a minefield. One of the most dangerous places you can ever walk into is a minefield because you do not know where they are. You do not know when your l- last step may be. All you know is, at any moment, something could blow up. But the danger comes when you step into the minefield. Imagine if discussing how to navigate the minefield was as dangerous as the minefield itself. That's what I feel like we're living in now. And so in this podcast, on this episode, and with every single episode that follows, I hope to get into those conversations. Let's chat about the things that make us uncomfortable. Let's chat to the people who make us uncomfortable. Let's come to consensus. Let's walk away still fighting, but understanding each other a little bit more. But most importantly, let's have the conversation. [upbeat music] This is What Now? With Trevor Noah. When, when talking about conversations, I, I can't help but think of all the people I have conversations with, you know? The team I'm working with on this podcast, the team I worked with at The Daily Show, you know, Christiane when we're there. I remember, and I still have this with most of my friends, I remember a world where friends did not agree. I remember a world where married couples did not vote the same. Like now, it feels like people aren't allowed to be friends with somebody, or won't allow themselves to be friends with somebody who doesn't agree on even one topic. Just one topic. Literally one thing that you might disagree on, and that's the end now. It's like, "Nope, we cannot be friends." Whereas before, you would say, "We are friends, but ah, God, I hope they don't bring up that thing because they know we're gonna punch each other." Or be like, "I trust you and I love you, but your opinions on football, trash. Absolute trash. You know nothing about the game. Don't speak. I, I'm gonna fight with you." And we'd laugh about this, you know? Let me ask you this, and I mean, I know this because I argue with you, and you are my friend. But in your just completely private, non-professional connected life, do you have friends that you don't agree with?
- SPSpeaker
Oh, none of my friends agree with me.
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- SPSpeaker
My husband doesn't even agree with me. But I'm, I'm, because I'm an extremist, so.
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- SPSpeaker
But that's, like, the position I like to occupy. But the people in my circle, I know at their core they're good. And I think the issue that we have now is that people think a bad politic or a politic that is different from your own means that the other person is a bad person, which I don't think is true.
- TNTrevor Noah
Say, say more about that. What do you, what do you mean by that if you dig deeper?
- SPSpeaker
Because I, I know people in, who on paper have, like, great politics or what's considered acceptable progressive politics right now. But in practice, in real life, they're, like, shitty people.
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm.
- SPSpeaker
Like, I speak all the time, I used to go to, like, these dinner parties in Brooklyn, and all of these, like, progressive men, right, vote in the right way and are very feminist. And there'd be women in the kitchen doing all the cooking.
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- SPSpeaker
Bring- these are white men, by the way.
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- SPSpeaker
Bring out the wine. Then when the cheese was done, women bring out the cheese. The women would cook. And then when it was all done, it'd be women who would, like, clear up. And these men are like, "We're feminist."
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- 5:53 – 10:13
Disagreeing with Friends and Online Hate
- TNTrevor Noah
One of my favorite interactions I, I ever had was when, when I first started on The Daily Show, um, I got I mean, thousands and thousands of, like, hate tweets. I mean, every single day. That's all Twitter was in my life, was just, "You're trash, you're trash, you're trash. You, you, you shouldn't be on the show." And there was one guy in particular, like, he, he was... It w- it was interesting. He was like, he was mean, but he was funny, and I, I, I always appreciate funny. I don't care how mean you are.
- SPSpeaker
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
If you can be funny, I, I will separate the two and I go, "You know what? That was funny. I, I can, I can appreciate that." And this guy said something, and I DM'd him, and I said, "Hey, I'm really intrigued about why you hate me so much. You don't know me. You don't seem to have ever watched anything I've created. Why do you hate me this much?" And I will never forget, his next tweet to me was, "Oh, hey, man, oh..." It, like, literally, and he had exclamations every- he wr- he wrote, "Oh, dude, I don't even really hate you like that. I just thought it was funny to, to pile on and..." And then he s- and then he said something along the lines of, he said, "Look, and to be honest, I don't think you're gonna make it. I, I think you're gonna crash the show. But, uh, good luck to you, man. I wish you the best."
- SPSpeaker
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
"And I actually think you're pretty funny." And then I responded to him and I said, "Wait, wait, wait. Wait, so you think I'm gonna crash and burn?" And he said, "Yes." And I said, "Okay, let's make a deal." I said, "If I last six months, promise me you'll watch the show for as long as I'm there." And he was like, "Oh, yeah, you're gonna lose this deal, but it's a deal." And I promise you now, from that day, like, every few months w- we would tweet each other, and it would be, like, a random DM and we'd say what's up. We'd talk to each other. And I was fascinated by how different this person was when I had an actual direct connection with them versus when it was this theoretical throwing of a stone at, like, a moving vehicle, as opposed to the... You know, it, that's what I always think of is, is, like, I go, um, th- a lot of the time I think the reason we are the way we are in traffic is because we aren't, like, with each other. It's a lot harder to do that and to be that level of asshole when it's, like, your body. You know? There's, there's this, there's this cage that separates you from the other person and you're like, "I will kill you. I will destroy you and your entire family." And I don't know if you've ever done this, like, like, you'll pull up and somebody pulls up next to you, and they're ready to kill you for everything you've done to them on the freeway. They're ready to murder you and your entire lineage, and you look them in the eye and you say, "Sorry," and their whole face... And they're like, "It does- it doesn't matter." You see them go, "Hey, I, you s-" And you s- And I, I wonder if, I wonder if that's what stops us from having these conversations, is that we're not actually having them with each other. We're having them with, like, a, like, a, it's like a swarm of locusts, where I'm sure each individual grasshopper isn't that bad. But when it's a swarm, it's pretty difficult to, to get, to get a word in, you know? Which brings me to my first guest, The Rock, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson. Here you have a human being who has, across the globe, been widely regarded as the friendliest, finest, you know, most loving people. He's, he's always trying to make fans smile. He's always trying to... You know, you've seen those videos of him. He'll pull up to, like, a Hollywood bus that's driving around the, the stars' homes, and he'll, he'll take selfies with everyone, and he'll... You know, he's, he's that guy. He's that guy. And yet even he put out a video recently talking about how negative the world has become in certain spaces. And I thought, "Man, if this is getting to The Rock's world, if even he's experiencing this, then surely there's something we need to figure out about what we're doing or, or how to have these conversations. Surely there's something we need to fix in a way." You know? And I, and I couldn't think of a better person to have that conversation with than an all-around nice guy who has only tried to make us smile. [upbeat music] He's walking in now, people. The man, the myth, the legend. Christiana, I will, uh, catch up with you after this.
- SPSpeaker
All right. Have fun.
- TNTrevor Noah
But, uh, say what's up to The Rock.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Hey, guys. Christiana.
- TNTrevor Noah
What's going on, sir?
- DJDwayne Johnson
How are you, my brother?
- TNTrevor Noah
Thank you for being here.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Good to see you.
- TNTrevor Noah
Appreciate it.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Thank you for having me.
- TNTrevor Noah
Please, please take a seat. Take a seat. All right. Welcome.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Here we are.
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs] Um-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Congratulations, man, on your first show.
- TNTrevor Noah
Thank-
- DJDwayne Johnson
This is a big deal.
- TNTrevor Noah
No.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Thank you.
- TNTrevor Noah
Congratulations on getting The Rock. That's what you should congratulate me for.
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
This is-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Congratulations on getting The Rock
- 10:13 – 17:05
Welcome, Work Ethic, and the Taualuga for His Mom
- TNTrevor Noah
... this is... You are... Everyone says to people, "Oh, you're the hardest working. You're the hard- You do so mu- " I will put money on it. You are the hardest working person that I know in the industry right now. You are doing everything. You are everywhere. You are... Like, where did you come from right now?
- DJDwayne Johnson
The gym.
- TNTrevor Noah
Y- you see.
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
What time do you start? 5:00 AM? Are you one of those?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Us- I, am I one of those? [laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah. [laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
I, I like to get up early.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
I like to get up early, and that way hopefully I can get up before the babies get up.
- TNTrevor Noah
Okay.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And then I can get the workout part out of the way.
- TNTrevor Noah
I sa- I feel like I saw a video of you celebrating your mom's birthday.
- DJDwayne Johnson
75th.
- TNTrevor Noah
Congratulations to your mom.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Thank you very much.
- TNTrevor Noah
I feel like your mom has always been, uh, you know, like, your, your hero in many ways. You know, I've read many of the things you've, you've, you've, you've talked about her, and many of the things you've said about her. It's, it's, it's so beautiful to see how you celebrate her.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm-hmm.
- TNTrevor Noah
And, and watching that video, there were two things I was, I was particularly intrigued by. Number one, was there money flying from the sky?
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
What was happening there?
- DJDwayne Johnson
We were making it rain.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah, what was happening?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Okay, so in our culture, um, I'm half Black and half Samoan.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And on the Samoan side, in Polynesian culture, on the Samoan side in particular, there's a, there's a, there's a dance that we do at the end of events.
- TNTrevor Noah
Okay.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And it's called the Taualuga. And a woman will dance, and during this dance people will come up and they will throw money, and they'll start to celebrate and dance around her. And the throwing of the money is a, uh, a, a sign of reve- of reverence and respect. Um, and that's what that was. So when I go up there to dance, I have a lot of money. I just throw it up in the air. I m- I mean, maybe it was, like, 25 ones. [laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
That is so... You- I always talk to my friends. I, I'm, you know, I'm from South Africa.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes.
- 17:05 – 20:30
Eviction and the Drive Toward Wrestling
- TNTrevor Noah
So let- let's, let's talk a little bit about-
- DJDwayne Johnson
[clears throat]
- TNTrevor Noah
... the formative years of The Rock, before The Rock, Dwayne Johnson. You talk about being in this world of pro wrestling. It seems like it was far from pro back then.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Right.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right? Your dad didn't want you to get into the sport. You, you, you, you had this, this yearning to become a part of this world. What do you think that was?
- DJDwayne Johnson
The yearning part of it?
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah. Why did you wanna be part of wrestling? What was it about wrestling in particular?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Well, a few things. I think because I grew up in it.
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And not only did I grow up in it, but man, I loved it. I loved wrestling. I loved the antics of it. I loved the characters of it. And especially at that time, you know, when you, you grew up in the '80s, wrestling back then, late '70s, '80s, was a whole different, I think, unique experience-
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm
- DJDwayne Johnson
... in that a lot of people bought into it-
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm
- DJDwayne Johnson
... and they felt like it was real, and they'd have these local stars every week, and they'd be on their television sets, just their local TVs, and they would talk down the lens about what they're gonna do to their opponent-
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
... this Saturday night at whatever little arena they're wrestling in. I loved all that. And I had a front row seat watching my dad and my grandfather and everybody in my family, um- Live their passions, and it's what they, I believe, we're all born to do.
- TNTrevor Noah
Wow.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And so I, I think the yearning of it, it started to happen for me when, to be honest, when we were evicted out of Hawaii. So we were living in a little apartment. We were evicted when I was 13 or 14 years old, and I remember in that moment, I never wanted to feel that again. I was with my mom, and we came-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah
- DJDwayne Johnson
... home, and there was a padlock, or there was a notice, say you have a week to get out.
- TNTrevor Noah
And that was it.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And that was it. And I remember just her and I, and she was standing there. She was crying. She didn't know what to do, and, um, my dad was wrestling, uh, in Tennessee at that time. And I remember then thinking, "I never wanna experience this again, and what can I do to change it? What can I do? Like, what can I do with my own two hands?" Now I'm 14, um, so I can't do shit. [laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
Right. That's a tough place to be in as a 14-year-old.
- DJDwayne Johnson
As a 14-year-old, right.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
So, um, I, I remember at that time thinking, "Well, all the heroes in my life are these guys. They're these guys who are, they're big, they're strong, they're pro wrestlers. Um, I, I should- if I bet you if I built my body and if I went to the gym, then I could change this scenario."
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
So from that moment, I think, that defining moment, now years later, I fell in love with the game of football.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- DJDwayne Johnson
I loved playing football. My goals shifted to, "Well, maybe I got a shot to go to the NFL."
- 20:30 – 28:51
Backlash Over the People's Fund of Maui
- TNTrevor Noah
One of the things I find fascinating about you as a person is how you engage, how you choose to engage with internal doubts and external doubts-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Sure
- TNTrevor Noah
... which I think w- as humans, we, we face. I saw a video of yours on, on Instagram. You're in the gym, and you were answering a question.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm-hmm.
- TNTrevor Noah
And, and the, it was a great question, you know? Someone saying to you, "How do you deal with the criticism," you know, "and, and how do you filter the criticism that you receive in your life?"
- DJDwayne Johnson
That's right.
- TNTrevor Noah
What, what, what I was intrigued by was who the criticism came to, and I'll, I'll tell you why.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm.
- TNTrevor Noah
I'll tell you why. You are somebody who has, for a very long time, created content that aims to entertain, uplift, you know, in some way inspire. You, you've done that. We've seen you, whether it's your music, whether it's-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah. [laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
... um, you know, it's like you, you like making people feel good. You like bringing that light into the world.
- DJDwayne Johnson
I really do.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
And I, over the past few weeks, have been thinking to myself, "Man, we're living in a world where it, it's become harder and harder for anyone to exist or to do anything, even with a good intention, and not find some sort of criticism at the end of that." And I feel like you're the paragon of that. You, here you have Dwayne Johnson, and it's funny, I was, I was chatting to Oprah about this a few days ago.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm.
- TNTrevor Noah
You know, the fires in Maui.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm-hmm.
- TNTrevor Noah
Fires happen, some of the most devastating fires in American history. Immediately, Dwayne Johnson, The Rock, and Oprah come together and say, "Hey, we're gonna, we're gonna help. We're gonna put our money into a fund, and we're asking everyone to join us. Just do what we're doing in any way you can, and let's make a change."
- DJDwayne Johnson
The greatest sense of empowerment is being able to have some control when everything seems so out of control, and we're calling it The People's Fund of Maui because every dollar that you send is going to go into an account that goes directly to the people.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Oprah and The Rock are giving $10 million to get the fund started, and they're calling for others to make donations.
- TNTrevor Noah
And I mean, you saw what happened. Overnight-
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
... I, I thought I'd missed something.
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs] Yeah, sure.
- TNTrevor Noah
I, I'm, I'm, I don't know if this, I don't know, what was it like from, from your perspective? 'Cause I thought I'd missed something. I saw the initial call, and I went, "Wow, okay, cool. We're all doing something. We're trying to do something." And then, you know when you feel like you've missed a news cycle?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
Like, oh, The Rock and Oprah and the fires. Like, but for what?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah. [laughs] Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
And people were like, "Oh, you're the problem" and, "How dare you?" and, "Why would you?" And I was like, man, our whole lives people have asked people to join into a worthy cause.
- 28:51 – 33:43
The Presidential Poll and Staying Out of Politics
- TNTrevor Noah
And so w- I, I, I look at your life, and here's, here's, here's a thing that, that, that, that always struck me was you live in a country that is so divided. You live in a country where people fight about everything. And then this poll came out and it said 43 or 46% of the country would love the idea of Dwayne Johnson running for president. And I remember seeing that and I was like, damn. I mean, it either means you are the paragon of what people would hope a leader would be, or it means things have gotten so bad-
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
... that they're like, "We need somebody who's gonna come in here and lay the smackdown on everybody." [laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes.
- TNTrevor Noah
Do you know what I mean?
- DJDwayne Johnson
I do.
- TNTrevor Noah
So l- l- let's talk through two things.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Uh-huh.
- TNTrevor Noah
The one is your response was interesting. You said, "If people, if that was something that people wanted me to do, I would consider it or, or I would do it." Tell me why you said that o- or what you would hope to achieve in that world, and, and then also tell me how you see politics, 'cause you have an interesting view. Not the pol- not political parties, but just, like, the way humans interact with each other.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Sure. Um, well, a, a, a few things. I just wanna go back for a second 'cause you said something about, um, and at least this was my interpretation of what you said about, you know, we could screw up, we fuck up at, at ti-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah
- DJDwayne Johnson
... and that's just life.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Um, but we learn from it, and I try not to make those mistakes again.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
But I also do my best these days, Trevor, and this has taken years, by the way, um, to not let ego, judgment, um, or early anticipation shape my ability to receive- What is happening
- TNTrevor Noah
Whoof
- DJDwayne Johnson
Okay
- TNTrevor Noah
That's not easy
- DJDwayne Johnson
No, man. It, it's, it's-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah, that's not easy
- DJDwayne Johnson
... not easy. And so many times in the past it has stifled either my growth or-
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm
- DJDwayne Johnson
... my ability to see something and go, "You know what? I never looked at it like that. Thank you for bringing that up." It's gonna help shape me as I walk forward.
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
So, uh, and I just wanna touch on that, 'cause I think it's important, and I know, uh, the majority of people out there, we want to be better.
- TNTrevor Noah
I do. I, I agree.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Right? We wanna be better.
- TNTrevor Noah
We wanna be good.
- DJDwayne Johnson
We, we wanna be good. We wanna learn from our mistakes. Um, so th- that was an interesting poll [laughs] that happened, and I was really moved by that, and I was really, uh, blown away, and I was, I was really honored. I was, um... I'll sh- I'll just, I'll share this little bit with you. At the beginning of the year, uh, at the end of the year rather, in 2022, I got a visit from the parties-
- 33:43 – 38:06
Being a Girl Dad and the Story of His Father
- TNTrevor Noah
I think what I, what I appreciate most about it is that I think you have, in many major ways, changed the way people perceive what it means to be a dad.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Hmm.
- TNTrevor Noah
And I think it's beautiful. You know, for so long a dad was considered a strong man, didn't cry, and you, you know, you stiff upper lip. "Come on. Shut up, kids. Come on, keep moving."
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
And then here comes what many would consider, you know, the definition of manhood, and you have your, your little girls painting your face-
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
... painting your nails.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah, man.
- TNTrevor Noah
You're wearing tutus playing with them. You are fully in their world. You are a proud girl dad, and you are raising these girls into women and, and you, you see it in your eyes. How do you think they've shaped your perception of masculinity? How do you think they've shaped how you wanna be a man, and, and, and what are you consciously trying to think of for their perception of men as they grow up?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Well, you just said it. I mean, that's it. Uh, let's start with the last thing you said, because it's the anchoring thing, Trev. It is I am their model of what a man will be. I'm their first-
- TNTrevor Noah
Uh-huh
- DJDwayne Johnson
... man in their life. So I take that, uh, with all the DNA that I got in my body, and I take that not only so serious, but I also, I wanna be that example for them. Now let me just take you back for a second. The man who raised me, who was my dad, was my dad, Rocky Johnson.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- DJDwayne Johnson
His dad died when he was 13. Th- those holiday, the holidays that came up after his dad's death, a new boyfriend was in, in picture. Boyfriend gets drunk, pisses on the turkey. My dad's 13. Uh, he grabbed a shovel, a big shovel, my dad did, and drew a line in the dirt and said, "If you cross that line, I'm gonna kill you." The drunk asshole crossed the line. He knocked him out cold as a block of ice.
- TNTrevor Noah
Your dad knocked him out.
- DJDwayne Johnson
My dad knocked him out with a shovel and tried to kill him.
- TNTrevor Noah
Wow.
- DJDwayne Johnson
13. Uh, they're dirt poor. They live in Amherst at, uh, Nova Scotia. The cops come, and the cops say, "Well, he's still unconscious, but he's not dead. When he wakes up, one of two things is gonna happen: he's gonna kill your son, or your son is gonna kill him." So the cops' recommendation to my dad's mom was one of them has to go. You know where I'm going with this now.
- TNTrevor Noah
Jeez.
- DJDwayne Johnson
She looked at her son, my dad, his name was Wade, uh, and said, "You have to go." So at 13 he's out on the streets. Now the reason why I tell you that story is that's my dad's capacity for love.
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
13, you're gone. So that's the man that raised me.
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
So that's the stiff upper lip.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Come on. Work through it. You'll be good.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Get up. I'm getting up. You're getting up. We're going to the gym. I'm five. I can't go to the gym. He, "You're going to the gym. You sit in the corner. You watch." And that's [laughs] was how I grew up. "You're coming with me to the wrestling matches." It was always rough, it was tough, but his- that's his version of love. Okay, so now years later, when I have the blessing to become a dad-
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm
- DJDwayne Johnson
... and to these three beautiful daughters, man, I learned so much from my dad on work ethic-
- 38:06 – 44:49
Speaking Openly About Depression
- TNTrevor Noah
I feel like for many young men out there, you have become a guiding light that moves them in a certain direction. You know, there's no denying that many young men in the world right now feel lost.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes.
- TNTrevor Noah
You know? And I think, personally, I think it's because a lot of young men grew up in a world where they were just told the world would give them what it's supposed to give them, and it would be the way it's supposed to be. And, and now that it isn't, they don't know how to exist within that. You know, they go, "Are women replacing us?" Or, "Are we still allowed to be men?" And it can be confusing with some of the messages that people get. It, it's noisy.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm-hmm.
- TNTrevor Noah
It's noisy. And I think somebody like you exists in a space where you inspire these young men in a really powerful and particular way, you know, 'cause it's not just with, with your daughters. You, you, you're so open about challenges. One of those is, is depression.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
There was a time in the industry, there was a time in the world, a man couldn't come out and say, "Hey, man, I'm, I'm struggling with depression here, and this is a moment in my life that was tough."
- DJDwayne Johnson
No.
- TNTrevor Noah
You couldn't be an action star and say you had anything wrong in your world-
- DJDwayne Johnson
No, no
- TNTrevor Noah
... and still be the top grossing action star in the world. That, I feel like, is one of-
- DJDwayne Johnson
And best, best looking, too, as well. I mean-
- TNTrevor Noah
I mean, of c- I mean, this is-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah
- TNTrevor Noah
... of course.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Just-
- TNTrevor Noah
I, I, forgive me, we'll edit that in
- DJDwayne Johnson
... keep it in the tone.
- TNTrevor Noah
And of course, and the best looking.
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
Let's make sure we throw that in, "and the best looking."
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
But, but like you, that's, that's probably one of my favorite villains you've fought against and, and, and beaten, is the stigma against speaking about the struggle that you may have in your mind.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm.
- TNTrevor Noah
W- when you spoke about that, when you revealed that, was there a part of you that was afraid of revealing this?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Didn't even think about it.
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Didn't even look at it that way. I didn't think, "Well, I don't know, maybe I shouldn't. Maybe there's a reputation I should uphold." Big, strong men, strong men, um, it's that culture. How is it gonna be received? I didn't really think about it. I just remember, I don't remember exactly when, uh, but I remember s- being in an interview or something, and then just start, I started talking about it. And I realized as I was saying it, and I certainly realized it after the feedback I got, and this was probably years ago, of how much it helped, how much it helped guys-
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm
- DJDwayne Johnson
... how much it helped men, how much it helped people. So I, you know, I... But also, Trevor, I, I went through bouts of depression not knowing what I was going through.
- 44:49 – 48:58
Divorce and Building a Business with His Ex-Wife
- TNTrevor Noah
Again, I would love to understand how you did this and, and what you can teach us about your experience. Many people will experience divorce. You know, again, it's, it's something that's shrouded in shame. Nobody wants to happen. They stay in marriages forever, even when they can't or shouldn't. You got divorced, but your divorce is really unique in that your ex-wife is-
- DJDwayne Johnson
My business partner
- TNTrevor Noah
... your business partner.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes.
- TNTrevor Noah
Your ex-wife is the person who's helped you turn The Rock from an individual into an idea that spans the globe. Dwayne Johnson is everything from tequila to, you know, workout apparel with Under Armour to wrestling and movies and music and w-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Sexiest Man Alive. Oh.
- TNTrevor Noah
Sexiest Man Alive, of course, of cou- I g-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Oh.
- TNTrevor Noah
We'll, we'll throw more of these in. I apologize. Sexiest Man Alive.
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
Um, but I, but I'd love to know on, on a n- on a relationship level-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Mm
- TNTrevor Noah
... how are you able to be in a divorce with somebody, and I, and I ask this for everyone who's in any relationship-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Sure
- TNTrevor Noah
... and then still find a way to love and respect them enough to move forward? 'Cause I'm sure the divorce was hard.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes.
- TNTrevor Noah
What did you learn that enabled you to work with your ex-wife to achieve everything that you've done and still do today?
- DJDwayne Johnson
I learned exactly that, what you just said, that we can still make it all happen. We just have to be unattached to how we get there, and let's also be unattached to what the original goal was. Now, the original goal wasn't divorce, and divorce was fucking hard, man. And especially at that age for me, I was getting a divorce. I transitioned out of wrestling, and when I left wrestling, I was on top. I was very lucky and fortunate. I was on top, main event, and I thought, "If I... But I wanna expand. I wanna grow."
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
"And I wanna bring wrestling with me." Um, and then I thought, "God, is this the biggest mistake I've ever made in my life?" Like, I... And so there was that, and going through a divorce at the same time. Uh, our daughter at that time maybe was three, four years old. Who's gonna r- be raising her along with me?
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm. Mm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
There's another man. Eventually, I'm sure she will meet another man. Like, there was all that shit that was going on in my head. Um, what I realized was with Dany, my ex-wife, who is now my business partner, we're great friends and, um, and is a force unto herself-
- TNTrevor Noah
She really is
- DJDwayne Johnson
... by the way. She really is extremely, uh, proud of everything that she's accomplished, um, is we realized early once we kinda got through the, "Okay, we're gonna get a divorce. This is real. This is happening. It's not what we signed up for," you know, is there a version of this as we move forward where we started to build this business together, can we continue to build this business together?
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Is that possible? Are we fucking crazy? And the thought was, well, let's look at the dyna- the dynamic here. We have a beautiful daughter. We have an opportunity now to show her a way, uh, post something not working out, post a relationship and marriage not working out, uh, but being an example for her of how you can work through something and resolve something.
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And on the other side of it, it may not what you, may not be originally what you signed up for, but who knows? It could be better. And so we realized that, and then we went to work. And when I say we went to work, it is bringing in the experts-
- TNTrevor Noah
Right
- DJDwayne Johnson
... who can help us. And I'm not talking about lawyers. [laughs]
- 48:58 – 54:39
Noah's First Night on Stage
- DJDwayne Johnson
I got a question for you, though.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
So there, there's a moment, I, I feel like it happens in all of our lives, where it's that seminal defining moment where you go, "This is why I was born."
- TNTrevor Noah
Hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
This thing right now. It, it... Now, I'm talking specifically about a passion-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah
- DJDwayne Johnson
... and a thing. So tell me a little about... I heard this story, but I wanna confirm it with you, 'cause I think it's phenomenal, and I have something very similar-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah
- DJDwayne Johnson
... which bonds us here, is... So you went to a show, and I'm assuming you were in, uh, Joburg.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And you were there, and one of your buddies got up, and he started performing. And it might have been open mic or something like that.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
I don't know.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah, yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And he didn't do that well.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- DJDwayne Johnson
He might still be your buddy, so I don't wanna say he sucks. [laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
'Cause he might be listening right now. [laughs] But he didn't do that well. And another one of your buddies looked at you and was like, "Hey, man."
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- DJDwayne Johnson
"You're funny. Why don't you get up there?" And you got up there-
- TNTrevor Noah
So it was, it was actually messier than that, but yeah, carry on
- DJDwayne Johnson
... okay, and you got up there. I can't wait to hear the messy version then. But you got up there, and, and you moved the crowd.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And there was something about that moment that made you go, "There could be something here."
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Right? Tapped into a light and a voice-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah
- DJDwayne Johnson
... behind your ribcage.
- TNTrevor Noah
Right.
- 54:39 – 1:00:11
Connection, Sending People Home Happy, and Building New Mountain
- TNTrevor Noah
And so I think that's what I love. That's why I'm having this conversation with you. That's why I wanna talk about things in the world, is because we, we, we've forgotten- That the same thing that connects us into the worst of each other can be used to connect us into the best of each other.
- DJDwayne Johnson
That's right.
- TNTrevor Noah
We can reach consensus, we can discover new ideas, we can learn.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes, yes.
- TNTrevor Noah
You know? You don't agree with your friends on everything, but they're still your friends. Your family, you fight with them, but you still love them.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes, man.
- TNTrevor Noah
You know? And so that's, that's literally, like, you know-
- DJDwayne Johnson
We, we can, we can learn, we can find resolve, we can be a good team. Yes
- TNTrevor Noah
... and I don't know anybody who does it better than you, genuinely. You, you, you have a, you have a way of stringing it all together. You never left the wrestling fans behind. They still love you. They still respect you. You've never turned your back on it.
- DJDwayne Johnson
No, no.
- TNTrevor Noah
You know, you, you've always loved the fans of your movies, and the things that you do, you sport the same thing, the love that you show, you know, you know, whether it's XFL, whether it's NFL, you-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yes
- TNTrevor Noah
... you show that love and that passion. You have that, and that's, and you know-
- DJDwayne Johnson
Trev, I, I appreciate that. Look, I, I, I gotta thank you for telling me that story, by the way. I love that story.
- TNTrevor Noah
And you're the best-looking man on the planet.
- DJDwayne Johnson
The Sexiest Man Alive.
- TNTrevor Noah
I mean, this is-
- DJDwayne Johnson
I've been telling them [laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
... this is, come on. This is, this is something we have to acknowledge.
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs] We, we always have to acknowledge.
- TNTrevor Noah
[laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
I make my family acknowledge it every time they're... Everybody line up and tell me right now. Um, but I gotta say that thank you for telling me that story. I heard that sto- I heard a version of that story.
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah, yeah.
- DJDwayne Johnson
This version is even better, but it actually goes deeper than what I expected to hear because this idea that we have this passion, and I always like to say one of our anchoring tenets in just any business that I do or-
- TNTrevor Noah
Yeah
- DJDwayne Johnson
... anything that I do, I wanna send people home happy.
- TNTrevor Noah
Mm-hmm.
- DJDwayne Johnson
And I wanna make them happy, and it's just that simple, and I feel like if we're lucky enough to be in this position where we can influence a person or two, like me and like you, but this idea that, "Hey, come to us, and I'm gonna do all I can to make you feel good and send you home happy," what a blessing that is.
- TNTrevor Noah
It truly is.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- 1:00:11 – 1:01:56
Being the First Guest
- TNTrevor Noah
I thank you for your time. Thank you. You, you, you know what's great? You will always have been my first guest. You, you know what I love about the full circle of things?
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
I'll, I'll leave you with this.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Tell me.
- TNTrevor Noah
The first guest I had on The Daily Show was Kevin Hart.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Wow.
- TNTrevor Noah
And the reason I always appreciate the firsts is because the firsts have to do something that most people are afraid to do, and that is trust in what they don't know. You come here, you, you don't know how this could go. You don't know how this would... And I, honestly, I appreciate that from you as a human being. I remember what happened with Kevin on The Daily Show. No one would be my first guest. People were terrified. They're like, "Who is this guy? We don't know what he is. We don't know what he stands for. South Africa, what is that even? Where is that? What part of Africa?" The south, we put it in the name for a reason, but people did not care.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Hmm.
- TNTrevor Noah
They were like, "We're not, we can't come." And I said, "Let's ask Kevin Hart." And they're like, "Oh, but Kevin Hart's a superstar." I said, "Let's just ask him."
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
Kevin responded instantly. He said, "I'm in." He said, "I'm in." And I remember asking him, I said, I said, "Why?" And Kevin said, "Because I remember what it was like to be the person that nobody wanted to give a shot. I remember what it was like to be at the bottom of this ladder." And he said, "And if I can..." It's funny you say that, and I see why you guys get along so much. He said, "If I can be a part of building your ladder, sign me up." And so I'm glad that I now have what I consider one of the best pairings as both of my firsts.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Yeah.
- TNTrevor Noah
Thank you so much, brother.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Well, thank you, brother, for having me on, and congratulations on not only an incredible career, but also a groundbreaking one, too, as well.
- TNTrevor Noah
I appreciate it, man. Thank you so much.
- DJDwayne Johnson
Thank you, brother.
- TNTrevor Noah
All right, let's get you to the next billion dollars.
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs]
- TNTrevor Noah
I cost you some money here. [laughs]
- DJDwayne Johnson
[laughs] I owe you seven. [upbeat music]
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