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Tight Values, Loose Ideas with Malcolm Gladwell | What Now? with Trevor Noah Podcast

Malcolm Gladwell sits down to discuss his new book, and why values should be held tightly but ideas should be held loosely. We also delve into the importance of television in shaping culture, and into our respective African roots (yes, Malcolm has African roots).

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  1. 0:000:51

    Sesame Street’s toddler dominance (and the threat of Cocomelon)

    1. MG

      Trevor, you don't know this yet. You will someday, I hope. The, you know, the, the, the market share capture, the brain share capture of toddlers by Sesame Street is, like, 95%.

    2. SP

      It's insane.

    3. MG

      It's, it's-

    4. SP

      Sesame Street-

    5. TN

      Wait, it's still that high?

    6. SP

      Oh, yes.

    7. TN

      That's amazing.

    8. MG

      Oh, my God.

    9. SP

      It's a classic.

    10. TN

      No, no, but I'm, I'm happy about that.

    11. SP

      Yeah.

    12. TN

      I thought, like, it was over for Sesame Street.

    13. SP

      No, it's the best.

    14. TN

      And now it's all, like, Cocomelon and-

    15. MG

      No, no, no, no, no.

    16. TN

      No? Oh, that's really good.

    17. MG

      They have got a strangle-

    18. SP

      Yeah.

    19. MG

      They got a, they got ... They have your kid in a headlock.

    20. SP

      Yeah, it's so, Sesame Street-

    21. TN

      That's a healthy headlock

    22. SP

      ... Peppa Pig, and Cocomelon.

    23. TN

      Oh, Peppa Pig is fire, though.

    24. SP

      Cocomelon is like crack. [laughs] I call it-

    25. MG

      Cocomelon, I outlaw Cocomelon.

    26. SP

      Yeah, yeah.

    27. TN

      Cocomelon is dangerous.

    28. SP

      Yes.

    29. TN

      I don't know what's happening there.

    30. SP

      It's dangerous. They ... I call them the Cocofellahs, the kids that watch that stuff.

  2. 0:512:37

    Passing, identity, and Gladwell’s 23% Igbo discovery

    1. TN

      This is What Now? with Trevor Noah.

    2. SP

      We were telling people, well, when we talked about you, I was like, "Do you know Black people don't know Mal- know Malcolm Gladwell, but white people don't know Malcolm Gladwell."

    3. MG

      Yeah, no.

    4. SP

      We were talking about it. I was like, "White people don't know."

    5. MG

      No, I'm stealth.

    6. SP

      [laughs]

    7. MG

      I would've, back in the day, it would've been very ... I was born in the wrong century. 19th century, I, it was fantastic for me.

    8. TN

      [laughs]

    9. SP

      [laughs]

    10. MG

      Huh? It's-

    11. SP

      You would've taken the system down from the inside out.

    12. MG

      [laughs] They're like, "Wait a minute." Like, historians would've uncovered 100 years later, "Wait a second. He was Black. What was he doing in Congress?" [laughs]

    13. SP

      Talking about Malcolm being passing-

    14. TN

      Yeah

    15. SP

      ... to white people.

    16. MG

      Yeah, I pass.

    17. SP

      Black people see the hair, they're like, "No, no, no, no, no."

    18. MG

      Yeah, yeah.

    19. SP

      They're like, "Yeah."

    20. MG

      It's, it's a tell.

    21. SP

      [laughs]

    22. TN

      It is a tell. It is completely a tell. But now you ... I didn't know that. When did this Nigerian thing happen?

    23. MG

      I did my 23andMe, and I'm 23% Igbo.

    24. SP

      Oh, my God.

    25. MG

      Which is so fantastic, and I put it on Twitter. And immed- ... And this is like every Nigerian on Twitter was like-

    26. SP

      [laughs]

    27. MG

      ... "Oh, my God, fantastic," like-

    28. SP

      [laughs]

    29. MG

      ... every, every single one was positive. Like, it was the most exc- you know, inclusive experience I've ever had in my life.

    30. SP

      [laughs]

  3. 2:373:40

    “No such thing as half Jamaican”: belonging and cultural adoption

    1. MG

      The, I, on a, on the Jamaican front, I, I was at, at the world championships, track championships, and I see Shelly-Ann Fraser-Pryce, right? One of my heroes, so she's, like, this big. I go up and say, "Hello, my name is Malcolm. I don't know if you know this. I'm half Jamaican." She says, "There's no such thing as half Jamaican."

    2. TN

      There's only Jamaican.

    3. MG

      There's only Jamaican.

    4. TN

      Yeah, that's right.

    5. MG

      That's the right attitude.

    6. TN

      That is the right attitude.

    7. MG

      That is the attitude.

    8. SP

      Right.

    9. MG

      There's no such thing as 23% Nigerian.

    10. TN

      Yeah.

    11. SP

      Yes.

    12. TN

      I sometimes think it would-

    13. SP

      Complete Nigerian

    14. TN

      ... that's what, like, if instead of the British, if, like, Africans colonized the world, no one would've been left out. Do you know what I mean? Because, like, look, no, because all other colonization was like, "You're not like us."

    15. SP

      Yeah.

    16. TN

      And then, like, whereas Africans are very much any, anyone Black anywhere-

    17. MG

      Yes

    18. TN

      ... they just go like, "No, no, you're with us. Let's go."

    19. SP

      Yeah, yeah.

    20. TN

      "Let's go. It doesn't matter." Even if, have you even seen those videos online-

    21. MG

      Yeah

    22. TN

      ... of people who can just speak the language or can do the accent well? They're like, "All right, you're one of us."

    23. MG

      [laughs] That's right.

    24. SP

      That's ... I'm saying Malcolm should go to Abia Sta- State. They'll make him a chief.

    25. MG

      Chief Gladwell.

    26. TN

      I'll take it.

    27. MG

      Chief Gladwell.

    28. SP

      Igwe Malcolm Gladwell. [laughs]

    29. TN

      [laughs] Oh, man.

    30. SP

      He'll love that.

  4. 3:406:50

    Why write a sequel that argues with your own classic?

    1. TN

      Um, Malcolm, I, I, um, I saw you, I saw you were releasing a new book, and, um, you, you know I'm a huge fan of yours. We've, we've talked over the years. Um, I'm al- I'm always trying to see what Malcolm Gladwell is thinking of, um, to give me a sense of, like, what I'm missing in the world. I think a lot of people think like that. Y- you, you know, um, as my friend David says, who you've met, David always used-

    2. MG

      Yes

    3. TN

      ... to say, "You make people think they're smart because they read your book and then they talk to other people about it." But, um, but, like, this book is, is an interesting take on Malcolm Gladwell, like Revenge of the Tipping Point. I, at first, I was like, wait, is it a continuation? Is it a ... But no, it, it, it feels like you are going up against you as-

    4. MG

      You're, you're thinking it, you're thinking it's an exercise in self-hatred? Is that what you're saying?

    5. TN

      No, no, no, no, because here's the thing. Oftentimes people will write a book that ... And very, very seldom will it change the world. Let's, let's start-

    6. SP

      Yeah

    7. TN

      ... with that, right? The Tipping Point, I would argue, changed the way people fundamentally think about many things, and then very few people would then go back and go, "Well, actually, let's change some of the thinking that this book basically laid the foundations for." Why do that?

    8. MG

      Well, no one likes changing his mind more than me, first of all. I just enjoy it. My da- my dad really enjoyed it. And as a kid, some of my, my greatest memories of my father, um, who was a marvelous character on his own, was him just shamelessly changing his mind on a subject. Like, without any explanation or apology, he just would agree. He'd talk to somebody, and he, if, he would always make this calculation. He would talk to someone, and if he thought they knew even 1% more on a subject than he did, he'd just like, "All right, you're right. I ..." You know, and that was it.

    9. TN

      That was it.

    10. MG

      And he was done. I thought it was fantastic as a child. And I, and secretly that's what I want. I want to be the guy who wakes up and decides, and Kate, my partner, is always making fun of me on this because I will not like someone, and then I'll just wake up and, "They're great."

    11. SP

      [laughs]

    12. MG

      Like, "Why don't we have them over?" She's like, "Wait, I thought you didn't like them." [laughs] It's like, yeah, that's, you know, that was the past. Now I'm all over them. So I, I, I didn't read The Tipping Point after I wrote it. And then it was its anniversary, and I thought, "Oh, I should read it again," because we were thinking of doing a new, a revised edition.

    13. TN

      Yeah, yeah, yeah.

    14. MG

      So I read it again. I'm like, "Wait a second. I wrote that?" Like f- I just felt I w-- I was, like, arguing with the book the whole time. So that's why I, I wanna do a new one. That was basically what happened.

    15. TN

      Are you the opposite or the same?

    16. SP

      I'm the opposite, and that's why I find it so interesting that you were raised by a man who, like, changes his mind easily. Like, m- my parents are, like, deep Christians, and they're not changing their mind about anything. [laughs]

    17. MG

      You know, my parents-

    18. SP

      Oh

    19. MG

      ... deep Christians.

    20. SP

      Okay, that's interesting.

    21. TN

      Wow.

    22. MG

      They're not changing-

    23. TN

      So all, all of us here.

    24. SP

      Okay.

    25. MG

      [laughs] They're-

    26. TN

      Super deep Christians.

    27. SP

      [laughs]

    28. TN

      Here we are.

    29. MG

      No, no, no.

    30. TN

      Three of us are gathered in His name. Let's go.

  5. 6:507:54

    Tight values, loose ideas: the ethics of changing your mind

    1. MG

      I don't think it's painful. First of all, just to go back on parents for a second, so my father, my father's, can I talk about my dad?

    2. TN

      Yeah, of course.

    3. SP

      Yes.

    4. MG

      I love talking about him.

    5. TN

      Talk about your dad.

    6. MG

      He passed six or seven years ago, and I wrote his obituary, and I said, "He had strong opinions about the Bible, gardening, and mathematics. And on everything else, he was open to suggestion." And I sort of think that's the right model. You gotta have your core set of things-

    7. SP

      Yeah

    8. MG

      ... that you hold dearly, and I think you should, I always use the phrase that ideas should be held loosely.

    9. TN

      Mm-hmm.

    10. SP

      Mm.

    11. MG

      And they're not values, but ideas.

    12. SP

      Mm.

    13. MG

      Values you hold tightly, but ideas you hold loosely, 'cause, you know, stuff changes, and you have, you grow up, or you're, um... You know what the, the, in the original Tipping Point, there's a chapter on crime, which is just about why New York City crime fell in the-

    14. SP

      Mm-hmm

    15. MG

      ... 90s. It's an appalling chapter.

    16. SP

      [laughs]

    17. MG

      I mean, it's just appalling. I, [laughs] you know.

    18. SP

      Is this, like, the broken windows?

    19. MG

      Yes.

    20. SP

      Okay.

    21. MG

      Jesus. Like, what was I thinking? I mean, I didn't know any better, I guess. But it's not difficult. To me, it's very freeing-

    22. SP

      Mm-hmm

    23. MG

      ... to say I was wrong.

  6. 7:5410:59

    Broken windows, stop-and-frisk, and the moral duty to update beliefs

    1. SP

      I'm curious, is it that the world, do you think the world has changed that radically in the 25 years, or were the ideas wrong then?

    2. MG

      Well, I've, I mean, the world, yes, of course the world has changed, although probably changed less than we think. I think sometimes we fetishize, you know, certain kinds of technological innovation, and think we've in, reinvented ourselves as human beings, and it's just, to my mind, a little bit more of the same. Um, but mostly it's that I've moved, like, the crime example is a good one. That I wrote that, broken windows was a fetish in New York City in the '90s. The mayor, Giuliani at the time, was, like, running around and saying, you know, "The only way to stop murder was to stop people from peeing on the sidewalk."

    3. TN

      Mm-hmm.

    4. MG

      Now, I think he was right to say that we should, people shouldn't be peeing on the sidewalk, and we should clean it. That was totally right. But the, he made two subsequent connections. His first thing was that the way to stop people from engaging in that kind of behavior was to arrest, arrest them by the thousands. And then secondly, he said, and that's also, by the way, how you stop violent crime.

    5. SP

      Mm.

    6. MG

      Both of those second claims were, uh, in retrospect, preposterous, right? In the moment, in the late '90s, when we had just witnessed New York go from being one of the least safe big cities in North America to one of the safest, we were sort of willing to accept, to pay any price for that improvement in safety, and accept any, any explanation.

    7. TN

      Mm.

    8. MG

      And that was the fever that I was caught up in.

    9. SP

      Yeah.

    10. MG

      I was like, "Okay, we're arresting hundreds of thousands of young Black men in the Bronx and Brooklyn, but better be, better that than being killed." That's what we were all thinking.

    11. SP

      Yeah.

    12. MG

      Right? Right? In the... And then, you know, I subsequently learned this, it's actually an incredibly interesting history. You know, what happens is a judge stops stop-and-frisk in New York. We go from stopping 700,000 people in one year to stopping 20,000.

    13. SP

      Wow.

    14. MG

      It, a- and everyone says, including the judge who stopped it, "Crime's gonna go back up." And what happens? Crime falls another 50%, and everyone's like, "Oh my God, not only did, was stop-and-frisk irrelevant to the crime drop, maybe it was preventing us from using police resources in a way that actually helped-"

    15. TN

      Oh, yeah

    16. MG

      ... solve mu- So we learned, this happened in 2012. And my point is, if you lived through that learning moment in 2012 when we took away stop-and-frisk, and crime fell another 50%, if you lived through those next five years, and you didn't change your mind, then you are morally bankrupt, right? You have to have changed your mind at that point. So you have to acknowledge, it's not wrong to be wrong in 1996. It's wrong to not change your mind after we learn something in, crucial in those, in those post-sto- stop-and-frisk years.

    17. SP

      Hmm.

    18. MG

      It's like you have to get a res- you have to respond if you... The price of playing the game of ideas in the world is you have to stay on your toes and respond to new evidence as it arises.

    19. SP

      Mm-hmm.

    20. MG

      That's the, you wanna play this game, that's the rule.

  7. 10:5919:04

    Trust, identity, and where new ideas come from

    1. TN

      I, okay, here's the thing. I think there are two things that you don't do that probably help you. One, you don't make it your identity. So you wrote about broken windows, but then there were some people who shaped their lives around broken windows.

    2. MG

      Mm.

    3. SP

      Mm.

    4. TN

      And then secondly, you didn't implement any policies, and I think that's probably one of the scariest things. Like, politicians i- i- in America are perfect examples. Very few of them are able to say, "Yeah, that was wrong. We used data that, at the time, was misread or misunderstood," or, "We used what we had-

    5. MG

      Yeah

    6. TN

      ... and we, we made, uh, an incorrect decision." They don't say that. They go like, "No, if you look at what we were trying to do, and we, we still..." Because everyone's afraid to say, I mean, just in life, everyone-

    7. MG

      Yeah

    8. TN

      ... is afraid to say, "I was wrong." Like, listening to you right now-

    9. MG

      Mm-hmm

    10. TN

      ... I don't know how many times I've heard human beings say that, just go like, "I look back and go like, 'Damn, what was I thinking?'"

    11. MG

      That was so, I mean, yeah, I find that so weird. And also, it was so long ago. Like, this is the, this was the late '90s. Y- I, you, I'm older than you guys.

    12. TN

      [laughs]

    13. SP

      [laughs]

    14. MG

      But it's like, have you looked at your high school yearbook or, like, it's just everything about it is Cringe worthy

    15. TN

      Right

    16. MG

      I mean, it, it should be fine to look back on your 25 years in the past self and have an issue. I would, I would hope you would have an issue

    17. SP

      I think it's because so much of the world that we live in currently-

    18. TN

      Mm

    19. SP

      ... it's built on, say, as a foreigner coming to America, so many times the Constitution is referenced and the amendments are referenced. Our world are built on ideas that sometimes emerged thousands of years ago, and we refuse to revisit them-

    20. TN

      Mm

    21. SP

      ... in the same way you're revisiting Tipping Point.

    22. TN

      Yeah.

    23. SP

      Yeah

    24. TN

      But the funny thing about the amendments for me is the name itself. Like, whenever people get angry, you know, like you talk about the amendments, you go like, "Oh, you gotta change them," and then like, "You don't change them," and then I'm like, "Amendment means change." [laughs]

    25. SP

      [laughs]

    26. MG

      It's change

    27. TN

      It literally means change

    28. SP

      But they don't want any more change

    29. TN

      Yes, but what I'm saying is like the-

    30. SP

      Yeah

  8. 19:0425:04

    Rebuilding common ground: sports, movies, and the loss of shared reality

    1. SP

      What you've described, I think you have this basic level of intellectual curiosity.

    2. MG

      Mm-hmm.

    3. SP

      And Trevor said earlier that the reason you can hold your ideas loosely is because your ideas aren't your identity.

    4. MG

      Yeah.

    5. SP

      Now, I would say it feels in this specific moment for a lot of people that their ideas are actually a huge part of their identity. They make up their identity. So if, they're not gonna come apart from that idea, because it's like, "Who am I?" There's a vacuum after that.

    6. MG

      Mm.

    7. SP

      So what do we do when we're engaging with people in our lives who ideas have become their identity, and you're trying to get them to see another point of view or point them towards something else, and they're like, "Oh, you're just a crazy r- liberal," or, "You're just a crazy conservative."

    8. MG

      Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. Yeah. There, I thought about this recently, 'cause I was, I go to this little coffee shop in my nearby hometown upstate, and there's always these two old guys who are in a corner. They're there every time I go there, and they're always having an argument about, not an argument, a long discussion about movies. They're movie junkies.

    9. SP

      Mm-hmm.

    10. MG

      And they have encyclopedic knowledge, and I eavesdrop on them all the time. And it, I realize that there, there's something really lovely there, which is that they have clearly a huge part of their identity is about the enjoyment and appreciation of that particular art form. And I would imagine that if one of those guys was a Trumper MAGA type, and the other was a diehard liberal, it wouldn't matter.

    11. SP

      Mm.

    12. MG

      Because they had found this area that was more important to their identity and that, where they could find common ground, and where they could find each other-

    13. SP

      Yeah

    14. MG

      ... find joy in each other's company. And it's those kinds of spaces that I feel have been eroded. And I use the movie example for a reason, which was, for the longest time, in many cultures around the world, the movies occupied this huge position in people, the way people related to the world. Yeah. They saw, you know, you grow- people, talk to people who grew up in New York in the '30s and '40s, they would see a movie every day, and they would, that's what they would talk about on the playground. Yeah.

    15. SP

      Yeah.

    16. MG

      And that's what they would, you know, and, you know, sports function in that way. And I s- I, uh, sometimes think to what we need actually, weirdly, is more sports, not less sports. Because sports are one of the few things that can occupy a big space- Mm.

    17. SP

      Mm

    18. MG

      ... and bring people together, and you can have a long conversation with someone about sports, and politics will never come up. You know, my, my, even my parents would be a good example. My, you know, a white father, Black mother, lot of people looked at them and said, uh, you know, "You guys are so different." They, and they, that's not how they organized their life. Yeah. They said they thought they were exactly the same. [laughs] You know, we're two committed Christians who, you know, their fathers read the same books. And I think that's the issue, is like it's just not good to be, spend all your time wallowing in political arguments. But I, I also, I also think it's this. I, I think, um, you know, I remember a f- a friend of mine describing, so he, he worked as a computer programmer. And I remember one day, he was, um, he was explaining the concept of the second system effect. The second system effect is what they teach programmers and coders about when, when working on a program and then moving it to the next version. And they go- Ah ... "You always have to consider the things that might happen that you don't know might happen because you've now changed the program over."

    19. SP

      Yeah.

    20. MG

      Yeah. 'Cause you always think of what you're updating. You always think of what you're improving, but you seldom think of what that could cause as a knock-on effect to what you didn't want, an unintended consequence.

    21. SP

      Yeah.

    22. MG

      And oftentimes, that's what happens, right? You, y- you'll see it on your phone all the time. They'll, they'll go, new software, and then very quickly afterwards, there'll be, like, new software on top of the new software-

    23. SP

      [laughs]

    24. MG

      ... because we just realized that what the new software did was it made the keyboard unusable when you were sending a text to certain people in a group chat. Yeah.

    25. SP

      Mm-hmm, yeah.

    26. MG

      That's a second system effect, right? And that gave me a whole new way to think about life, because now I, I will go, oh, sometimes we make a change that is oftentimes an improvement, by the way, but we don't think of what the possible second system effect could be. Mm.

    27. SP

      Mm-hmm.

    28. MG

      Like streaming and the proliferation of TV shows and, like, um, uh, you know, like, on demand. You, you can watch Breaking Bad when you wanna watch Breaking Bad, and, "Have you watched Game of Thrones?" "I'll watch it when I..." You, you know what I mean?

    29. SP

      Mm.

    30. MG

      It's given you so much choice, but what a lot of people don't realize is it's robbed us of communal, um, uh, consumption. But then what have we all seen? The debate. "Oh, I saw the debate. Oh, I saw the de- Did you see the debate?" Oh, that's interesting.

  9. 25:0427:06

    Trevor’s F1 interlude: why Formula 1 (and Vegas) is special

    1. TN

      Now it's time for F1 Love, a segment where I get to talk all things F1 and why you should be excited for the F1 Las Vegas GP. So if you know anything about me, you know, um, I love a few things in my life. Uh, I love video games. I love tech. I love traveling. I love copious amounts of ice cream, and there are few things I love more than Formula 1. I've been watching Formula 1 my entire life. I started watching it with my dad. I think I've told you this, but, um, yeah, it's just, it is one of the most exciting, crazy, anything-can-happen sports in the world. And as I've grown, I've grown to appreciate it more because, you know, F1 athletes apparently are the fittest athletes in the world. They've got some of the strongest necks, which I know is a weird thing to think is cool, but I do. Because apparently their necks can sustain, like, 3, 4, or 5 G, which is pretty insane if you know what a neck can usually handle. But anyway, I'm really excited because Formula 1 used to only be in Europe, and now one of the most exciting races of the season is in Las Vegas. Formula 1 has two kinds of races. You've got the races that are on tracks, and so those ones are really fun and fantastic. But then every now and again, you'll have a race that's on the streets of the city that it's in, and the F1 race in Las Vegas is one of those. The cars are out on the strip racing around. I'm talking hundreds and hundreds of miles per hour. The stuff you wish you could do, they do it for real, and Vegas is the best place for it. You get to go out. You get to see the drivers over the weekend. You get to hear the cars, and if you've never heard an F1 car, like, you, you haven't lived. It literally sounds like the end and the beginning of the world at the same time. If you get a chance, try and go through the pit lanes if you have that opportunity. It's amazing. You get to see the cars up close. You get to see the technology. You get to see, like, even the tires. The tires are so impressive. But

  10. 27:0631:56

    The Harvard chapter: elite admissions via ‘white people sports’

    1. TN

      if you don't get the backstage exp- just go to the race. Wear a hat. Cheer for a team. See people drive cars the way they're supposed to be driven, and then think to yourself, "I could do that at home," but do not do it at home. That was F1 Love, brought to you by Las Vegas hosting the upcoming F1 race November 21 to 23. Tickets are available now by visiting f1lasvegasgp.com/tickets. There's gotta be one chapter in this book that you, um, that you enjoyed writing the most.

    2. MG

      Oh, my God. So easy.

    3. TN

      Like, you, you, yeah, you have, like, a guilty joy when it comes to certain topics.

    4. MG

      [laughs]

    5. TN

      This is something I know about you. You have, like, a, you, you have, like, a giggle in you. You have, like, a mischievous feeling in you where you're like, "Ooh, I love that I'm getting into this." Like, the, so what's, like, the most Gladwell chapter in this book where-

    6. MG

      It's the Harvard. It's the Harvard chapter.

    7. TN

      The Harvard chapter?

    8. MG

      Why does-

    9. TN

      About the admissions?

    10. MG

      Yeah. Why does Harvard-

    11. TN

      Okay, let's talk, let's talk through that

    12. MG

      It's all about this strange fact that there is no university in the United States that has more Division I varsity sports than Harvard. So everyone thinks that the sports-obsessed schools are, like, in the South. No, no, no. The most sports-obsessed school is Harvard. Not only that, they're so obsessed with, with, that they, if you're an athlete, they have the, the front door is for smart kids who compete, and it's really hard to get in the front door. They have a back door for athletes and rich people, of course.

    13. TN

      Yeah, of, of course.

    14. MG

      And the, if, the back door, you, it's way easier to get in. The simplest way to get into Harvard is to be a good athlete, not to be a good student. So the question is, why would they care so much about sports that they would, like, create a special back door for them-

    15. TN

      Mm-hmm, mm-hmm

    16. MG

      ... and also play so many? And I think the answer is, is, is in the kind of sports they're playing. So what sports are, if they have all these... Rowing.

    17. TN

      Rowing, got it.

    18. MG

      Middleweight, or, uh, light, heavyweight and lightweight rowing, and each team is, like, what is it? 25. I've forgotten.

    19. TN

      Yeah.

    20. MG

      Some incredible number. Fencing. Okay.

    21. TN

      Mm-hmm.

    22. MG

      Okay.

    23. TN

      Fencing.

    24. MG

      Uh, sailing.

    25. TN

      Oh, interesting.

    26. MG

      How do we feel about sailing?

    27. TN

      Sailing.

    28. MG

      Uh, tennis.

    29. TN

      Tennis.

    30. MG

      Interesting. Tennis. Now, rugby. Now, rugby's, so now you guys are Africans. Particularly you, you come, you're, you guys are serious rugby-playing people.

  11. 31:5638:51

    Finding the real lever: why Will & Grace changed minds (more than ‘representation’)

    1. TN

      Do you know what I mean? Let me, let me ask you a question, Malcolm. Like, uh, in, in the book, the- there, there are many moments where you talk about like, um, it's not necessarily the tipping point, but it's like some of the, some of the larger things that made something happen. Like for instance, you talk about Will & Grace.

    2. MG

      Yeah.

    3. TN

      You know? And, and you go, "This is, like, the show that, that changes people's perspectives on gay people in America, et cetera." You know, and then some people will go like, "Ah, but what about Ellen? Ellen was on before that." And in the, in the opioid, um, section-

    4. MG

      Mm

    5. TN

      ... you know, when you're talking about the Sackler family, you're like, "This is, you know, the, the story they told," and the passive voice when they're defending themselves. And you, and you tell the story where some people might read it and go like, "Oh, but I actually think the issue is the doctors." Like, how do you choose to hone in, or where do you think you've actually found-

    6. MG

      Mm-hmm

    7. TN

      ... the real le- lever that, that, that has moved society or shifted-

    8. MG

      Yeah

    9. TN

      ... in a certain direction versus others?

    10. MG

      So the Will & Grace, let's do the Will & Grace one. That was really interesting. So there's a really brilliant woman whose work I, uh, I read and love by the name of Bonnie Dowell.

    11. TN

      Mm-hmm.

    12. MG

      Who does this kind of meta-analysis of television shows and their imp- and their importance. And she, she looked at the way, um, including in Ellen, the way that television had described and discussed gay relationships, and she said that up until Will & Grace, every time gay people were talked about, even if they were talked about on television in a positive way-

    13. TN

      Yeah

    14. MG

      ... a series of rules were in place. The, the emphasis on the show was always about how straight people reacted to the gay person, not on the gay person themselves. The second thing was that the gay person's gayness was always a problem that had to be solved.

    15. TN

      Oh.

    16. MG

      And the third thing was that the gay person was always in isolation. So she looks at Ellen, and she says, Ellen, yes, had a gay character, first openly gay character on network television, but those three rules were still in effect. The whole ... When Ellen comes out in that pivotal sitcom show from whenever it was, all the rules are in effect. Her gayness is a problem her friends have to solve. The whole show is about her straight friends dealing with the fact that Ellen is, like, complicated their lives, and she has no gay community on those shows. It's just her. Will & Grace comes along and breaks all three rules for the first time on television. Will's got a community. He's got Jack. Mm. Right? And that whole, like ... Uh, his gayness is not a problem to be solved. It's never-

    17. TN

      Mm.

    18. MG

      Yeah ... they never s- It's never even a problem. It's just a fact. Oof. Right? And the show is not about straight people reacting to Will. It's about Will and Grace together reacting normally to ... And sh- that makes that show revolutionary. This is ... And I ... That argument to me is so ... And if you, if all you do is watch Will & Grace without the benefit of that kind of analysis-

    19. TN

      Yeah

    20. MG

      ... you miss it. Yeah. And there's an incredible book that was written about the way Hollywood treated homosexuality, pointing out that, look at all the movies in which gay people appear from the '60s through the end of the '90s, and this guy just counts up what happens to the character, the gay character. And, like, in 60% of the cases, the gay character dies. In 10%, they commit suicide. In 10%, they die of a drug overdose. Like, Hollywood just killed them off.

    21. TN

      Right.

    22. MG

      Yeah. Like, that's what they did. They ... And you were allowed to feel sympathy for the ... 'cause ... But they were always a ... It was always this dreadful burden, right? And Will & Grace, it's not a burden. It's just like he's just an- he's a-

    23. TN

      It just happens to be part of their lives

    24. MG

      ... it's just part of their ... And that is so ... Like, I feel like it, it is no coincidence. That's right around the time when the country wakes up one day after flipping out about gay marriage, wakes up one day and, and just d- doesn't even say, "I love gay marriage," just shrugs and says, and says, "Are we really gonna fight about this?" And it just goes away.

    25. TN

      So it's actually, it's actually funny. You know, when I, when I was reading through that chapter, and when I was reading through some of the chapters about, like, overstories that you talk about, you know, the story that is over every other story that we're telling ourselves. I don't know if you've watched it. There's a, there's an animated movie. I think it's, um, Mitchells vs. The Machines, I think it's called.

    26. MG

      Mm-hmm.

    27. TN

      And, um, it's a story of this family that goes up against, like, machines taking over the world. And one day I was, I was having a conversation with some, a group of friends, and someone said to me, like, "Oh, I hated that movie." And I was like, "Really? It was a great movie." They're like, "Yeah, it was great, but I didn't like that at the end we learned That the main protagonist was, uh, a gay character. And I was like, "Why not?" And they were like, "Why didn't we know from the beginning? I feel like you just tried to sneak it in." And, and I was like, "Well, are you pro-?" And she's like, "No, I'm pro- I'm pro-gay rights, and that's why I feel like it should've been." And then I said, "I think that's been the problem with a lot of programming, actually."

    28. MG

      Mm.

    29. SP

      Mm-hmm.

    30. TN

      Is that because Hollywood as a whole, and obviously I'm using a big umbrella here, but because Hollywood as a whole people forget is a business, they make these like fake stories and fake moves that are artificially trying to jump on trends that are not trends. Do you know what ... Do you get what I'm saying? So they'll be like, "Oh, wow, gay people are becoming very popular in society. We need to make a gay show."

  12. 38:5141:23

    Work as a bridge: soccer, shared tasks, and seeing people fully

    1. TN

      Right. I've, I've, I've seen a few times how ... So, like, for me this is, this is purely anecdotal, but in New York I play, um, I play football. I play soccer with a, a bunch of guys from all over the world.

    2. MG

      Mm.

    3. TN

      Literally all over the world, all different walks of life, you know? Like, we have all of Africa on the team.

    4. SP

      Yeah.

    5. TN

      And then we have Europe, and then we have Eastern Europe, and then we have, like sometimes we'll have like Australia and Asia, and then America, obviously. But it'll be a collection, 22 guys from everywhere-

    6. MG

      Mm

    7. TN

      ... coming together. And one of the fascinating things I've noticed is we have built our relationships and our fri- friendships and our perceptions of each other, and each other's peoples, without ever speaking about them. Does that make sense?

    8. MG

      Yeah.

    9. TN

      When we come to the game, we play the game. I judge the other people by how they play the game, and they judge me by how I play the game. Badly, well on a day, terribly.

    10. MG

      Mm-hmm.

    11. TN

      But that's how we know each other. So you're like, "Latif, why, why don't you do this? You always do this. Joe. Joe, why are you doing this? Ah, no, zero technique. You have zero technique."

    12. SP

      [laughs]

    13. TN

      "Why are you doing this?" And it's like, "Shut up, Joe." And then like w- w- you'd, what I, what I realized the one day w- was almost magical, is like everyone on that team has a human, has a human example of somebody from another country. So if you say to them, "Do you, what are you, Ugandans?" They go like, "Oh, man, I know this guy Joe. He's from Uganda." And it's like, oh, what are you get- and then it's just like you know them, you know him as a human being.

    14. MG

      Mm-hmm.

    15. SP

      Yeah.

    16. TN

      Does that make s-

    17. MG

      Mm.

    18. TN

      Does that make sense?

    19. MG

      Mm-hmm.

    20. TN

      And I think sometimes, like in these stories, we forget that we don't, we don't get to know people as human beings because we don't see them doing human being things.

    21. MG

      Mm-hmm.

    22. TN

      And then we give ourselves like the full ... We give like the, the ... I mean, when I say ourselves, I mean like let's say the dominant group. You get to exist in your fullness.

    23. SP

      Yeah.

    24. TN

      And then everyone who's on the margins has to exist only in one area. It's like, all right, gay people, you get a day of pride, and then the rest of it is, is for straight people. And even then we're gonna be like, "Why do you get a day?"

    25. SP

      [laughs]

    26. TN

      [laughs] And you're like, "Well, every day is a straight pride day."

    27. MG

      [laughs]

    28. SP

      [laughs]

    29. TN

      You know, every day is like Chinos and-

    30. SP

      Yeah

  13. 41:2345:07

    Why a whole new book: podcasting, interviews, and the joy of listening deeply

    1. SP

      Malcolm, I'm curious. You say you went back, read Tipping Point, and you're like, "This is appalling," right? I'm interested about why it wasn't just an amendment, 'cause most people would do like there's a revised edition, and you write a chapter, and you say like-

    2. MG

      Yeah

    3. SP

      ... y- a summary. Why is it revisiting and it's a whole book?

    4. MG

      'Cause I'm crazy.

    5. SP

      Okay. [laughs]

    6. TN

      [laughs]

    7. MG

      'Cause I don't have enough to do. Because [laughs] I, because having two kids apparently is just really easy, and I can do, you know-

    8. SP

      You have time

    9. MG

      ... I have, I got time.

    10. TN

      I'm loving watching the difference in a man's perspective on having kids and a woman's.

    11. SP

      I know. I-

    12. TN

      Malcolm's like, "Yeah, it just feels like you have more time." And Christiane's like, "There's no time left." [laughs]

    13. SP

      My life is over.

    14. TN

      [laughs]

    15. SP

      Malcolm's like, "Write another book."

    16. MG

      No, I have, I've worked it out that I have, um, I have 45 minutes to myself a day.

    17. SP

      Okay.

    18. MG

      Between 10:00 and 10:45.

    19. SP

      Mm-hmm.

    20. MG

      That's my time.

    21. SP

      Okay. And you write your book.

    22. MG

      It's, it's all I got. It's all I got.

    23. SP

      And, and you write your book.

    24. MG

      No, no, no, no.

    25. SP

      [laughs]

    26. MG

      I ... No, I don't know. Um, I, I also thought it would be fun- I actually had more, I've been enjoying myself tremendously over the last, um, I've had a kind of, ever since I started the podcasting stuff, it's loosened me up about, I'm not, I'm a lot less precious about the stuff I do, and I'm doing different kinds of stories and, um, I, so I just s- I, my position now is why not?

    27. SP

      Yeah.

    28. MG

      And why not do something that sounds like it'll be interesting? Who knows what'll happen? The turning point was, for me was, um, when I started the podcast and I started doing weird show, like, shows on-

    29. TN

      Yeah

    30. MG

      ... Cranky kind of, you know, going after golfers or whatever. Um, and I was like, "That was really fun." Like, I didn't realize that what kind of thing. And then I did that audiobook with Paul Simon with my friend Bruce, um, which, you know, I don't really know m- that much about music. I know I like Paul Simon. And we just sat down with him, and it was just so, we did hours and hours of interviews with him, and it was, it, it literally changed my life. I just realized, wow, I thought I was a, in this for the writing. I'm not. I'm in this because I like talking to people. I like interviewing them.

  14. 45:0752:15

    Not taking yourself too seriously: South Africa, humor in leadership, and parenting perspective

    1. TN

      What I'm hearing you say is something that I feel like we could all work on a little bit more, and that is being a little less serious about how we see ourselves in the world, you know? Because I, I, I think of the different paths, the different universes that Malcolm Gladwell could have been in. You could have been someone that got more serious and, and, and more prescriptive, and, you know, you could have written a book about, "And now let me tell you, it's 20,000 hours, and, uh, here's what else you gotta do. It's not just the windows. It's the doors and the floors and the sidewalks and the ... "

    2. MG

      [laughs]

    3. TN

      You know, you could ... No, you really, and I think there are people who do that because it becomes, again, going back to, it becomes their identity, so they're like, "I've, I've achieved success in this. I must hold onto it, and I need to do more of it."

    4. SP

      Mm.

    5. TN

      And then the second part of it is we forget to have, like, fun. We forget the fun side of life. We forget the enjoyment. We forget the ... People are very, like, serious about things. I even noticed I was falling into it.

    6. MG

      Mm.

    7. TN

      Like, if, if you asked me a question, I, I would give you, like, the serious answer first, but I'm not that person actually.

    8. MG

      Mm-hmm.

    9. SP

      Yeah.

    10. TN

      You know? And I, I, I've noticed it starting in America, to be honest, and, like, South Africa's very far behind, thank God. But when, like, when I'm in South Africa, I realize, I'm like, "I'm taking this far too seriously."

    11. SP

      [laughs]

    12. TN

      "I'm taking all of it too seriously." Do you, do you, do you know what I'm saying?

    13. MG

      Could, could I tell you my South Africa story on this very front?

    14. TN

      Yeah, yeah, for sure.

    15. MG

      But I, now I for- the president of South Africa, his name is Ram-

    16. TN

      Ramaphosa

    17. MG

      ... Ramaphosa.

    18. TN

      Yeah.

    19. MG

      Ramaphosa.

    20. TN

      Cyril Ramaphosa.

    21. MG

      So I'm at this conference in South Africa. Actually, that's what I texted you because I was walking around Cape Town.

    22. TN

      [laughs]

    23. MG

      And I was like, "White people know their real estate."

    24. TN

      [laughs]

    25. SP

      [laughs]

    26. MG

      And then, and Trevor's like, "Yes, they do."

    27. TN

      [laughs]

    28. MG

      So I go to this conference, and Ramaphosa's speaking. He gets up front of the stage. He's like ... And the lights go out, right, 'cause the power's always going off in Jo-

    29. TN

      Oh, yes. Yeah

    30. MG

      ... in Cape Town. And there's silence, and then you hear Ramaphosa saying, "It's all my fault." [laughs]

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