
Improving Sexual & Urological Health in Males and Females | Dr. Rena Malik
Andrew Huberman (host), Rena Malik (guest), Narrator
In this episode of Huberman Lab, featuring Andrew Huberman and Rena Malik, Improving Sexual & Urological Health in Males and Females | Dr. Rena Malik explores demystifying Sexual, Pelvic, and Urinary Health With Science-Backed Tools Andrew Huberman hosts urologist and pelvic surgeon Dr. Rena Malik for a highly detailed, medically grounded discussion on male and female sexual, pelvic floor, and urinary health across the lifespan.
Demystifying Sexual, Pelvic, and Urinary Health With Science-Backed Tools
Andrew Huberman hosts urologist and pelvic surgeon Dr. Rena Malik for a highly detailed, medically grounded discussion on male and female sexual, pelvic floor, and urinary health across the lifespan.
They distinguish between desire and genital arousal, explain how hormones, blood flow, nerves, and the pelvic floor interact, and clarify common misconceptions—such as the overemphasis on hormones and Kegels as universal fixes.
The episode covers pelvic floor dysfunction, erectile issues, female orgasm, UTIs, kidney stones, contraception, SSRIs, prostate health, porn use, and anal sex, always emphasizing evidence-based treatments and when to seek professional help.
Throughout, they offer concrete, actionable protocols (behavioral, medical, and some supplement-based) and repeatedly stress the importance of communication, individualized assessment, and avoiding shame around sexual health.
Key Takeaways
Pelvic floor problems are common—and often mismanaged with “just do Kegels”
The pelvic floor is a bowl of muscles involved in urination, defecation, sexual function, and posture. ...
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Most sexual dysfunction is vascular, neural, or pelvic—not primarily hormonal
Only about 3–6% of erectile dysfunction is purely hormonal. ...
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Cialis/Viagra help many men—and low-dose tadalafil can support urinary and pelvic health
PDE5 inhibitors (e. ...
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Porn, masturbation, and SSRIs can reshape arousal—but the issue is pattern and impact
A large proportion of people use porn and masturbate without any pathology. ...
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Female orgasm is highly individual; clitoral stimulation is key for most
Around 85% of women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm; only a minority climax from vaginal penetration alone. ...
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UTIs and kidney stones are heavily influenced by hydration, hormones, and behavior
Up to 50% of women have a UTI in their lifetime and a third get recurrences. ...
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Lifestyle is the foundation of sexual health; meds and supplements are adjuncts
The strongest levers for sexual, urinary, and pelvic health are cardiovascular and metabolic: Mediterranean-style diet, resistance plus aerobic exercise, stopping smoking/vaping, good sleep, weight management, and stress reduction. ...
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Notable Quotes
“The pelvic floor is basically a bowl of muscles that hold up all your organs and control urination, defecation, sexual function, and even posture.”
— Dr. Rena Malik
“Many people hear about the need to strengthen their pelvic floor, but in fact a lot of people need to do the exact opposite and learn to relax it.”
— Andrew Huberman (paraphrasing Malik’s point)
“Only about three to six percent of erectile dysfunction is actually hormonal. The vast majority is vascular, neurologic, or pelvic floor–related.”
— Dr. Rena Malik
“The brain is the most powerful sex organ, not your genitals.”
— Dr. Rena Malik
“Erectile dysfunction is really the canary in the coal mine for cardiovascular disease.”
— Dr. Rena Malik
Questions Answered in This Episode
For someone who suspects they have an overactive (too tight) pelvic floor but has limited access to specialists, what specific self-assessment steps and at-home practices would you recommend before they can see a pelvic floor therapist?
Andrew Huberman hosts urologist and pelvic surgeon Dr. ...
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Given that only a small percentage of ED is hormonal, how would you structure a stepwise workup for a 28-year-old man with new-onset ED who also reports heavy weightlifting and high job stress but normal morning erections?
They distinguish between desire and genital arousal, explain how hormones, blood flow, nerves, and the pelvic floor interact, and clarify common misconceptions—such as the overemphasis on hormones and Kegels as universal fixes.
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In women who report severe libido loss and mood changes on oral contraceptives, what is your decision-making framework for switching to IUDs versus trying lower-dose or different hormonal formulations—and do you ever proactively measure SHBG and free testosterone?
The episode covers pelvic floor dysfunction, erectile issues, female orgasm, UTIs, kidney stones, contraception, SSRIs, prostate health, porn use, and anal sex, always emphasizing evidence-based treatments and when to seek professional help.
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How do you counsel couples where one partner’s sexual arousal template has clearly been shaped by long-term porn use and the other partner feels both inadequate and unwilling to reenact what they see on screen?
Throughout, they offer concrete, actionable protocols (behavioral, medical, and some supplement-based) and repeatedly stress the importance of communication, individualized assessment, and avoiding shame around sexual health.
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For a postmenopausal woman with recurrent UTIs, low lubrication, and pain with intercourse who is hesitant about estrogen because of cancer fears, how do you explain the risk–benefit profile of vaginal estrogen and what non-hormonal options, if any, can realistically match its effectiveness?
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Transcript Preview
(uptempo music) Welcome to the Huberman Lab Podcast, where we discuss science and science-based tools for everyday life. I'm Andrew Huberman, and I'm a professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine. Today, my guest is Dr. Rena Malik. Dr. Rena Malik is a board-certified urologist and pelvic surgeon. She is an expert in both male and female urological, pelvic floor, and sexual health. During today's episode, Dr. Malik answers the most commonly asked questions about urinary, pelvic, and sexual health, for instance, how to avoid getting UTIs, urinary tract infections. We also discuss pelvic floor anatomy and function as it relates to overcoming an overly tight or an overly relaxed pelvic floor. This is a key distinction that most people aren't aware of. Many people hear about the need to so-called strengthen their pelvic floor, but in fact, many people need to do the exact opposite. They need to learn to relax their pelvic floor in order to achieve proper urologic and sexual function. So, today you'll learn about that. You will also learn about sexual health as it relates to erectile function, as it relates to things like vaginal lubrication, as it relates to orgasm. We separate out, very carefully, the difference between psychological desire and arousal that occurs within the genitals themselves, and Dr. Malik highlights some important misconceptions about sexual dysfunction, for instance, that many people believe that hormones are responsible for sexual dysfunction. But in reality, hormone dysregulation is responsible for only a very small percentage of sexual dysfunction, and yet pelvic floor and blood flow-related issues can account for a large number of cases of sexual dysfunction in both males and females. So, I assure you that today's discussion is going to illuminate many new areas of information, many new tools and protocols that I'm guessing most people have not heard of. We talk about the neural, vascular, that is blood flow-related, and muscular aspects of bladder function, prostate function, Skene's glands. We talk about vaginal health as well as penile health. We talk about these things as it relates to different stages across the lifespan. It is a far-reaching and in-depth and practical conversation that I'm certain everyone will glean important takeaways from. Now, before we go any further, I do want to highlight that the content of today's episode is sexual in nature. We talk very directly about different types of sexual behavior, and we talk about it from the standpoint of the clinician and biologist, so it is a medical/scientific discussion. That said, we can't be aware of where this podcast is being played and who is listening, and I assert that there are certain themes within today's discussion that would not be suitable for young children. How young? Well, that is certainly not for us to discern. We realize that different parents and different households should be the arbiters of what sorts of information their children are exposed to or not. So my suggestion would be that if you have any concern whatsoever that the content of today's episode would not be appropriate to be heard by some member of your family, that you please listen to the podcast first or at least check the timestamps where we've detailed what specific topics are covered and then to make your decision accordingly. I should mention that not only is Dr. Malik still an active clinician. She sees patients daily out of her clinic in Southern California, and we've provided a link to that clinic in the show note captions. She's also authored dozens of high-quality peer-reviewed publications in the fields of urology, pelvic health, and sexual health, and we've also provided a link to that bibliography in the show note captions. And she's also a spectacular public educator. She provides zero-cost content about sexual health, pelvic floor health, and urology as it relates to both men and women on her YouTube channel, and there, too, we've provided a link to Dr. Malik's YouTube channel in the show note captions to this episode. Before we begin, I'd like to emphasize that this podcast is separate from my teaching and research roles at Stanford. It is, however, part of my desire and effort to bring zero-cost to consumer information about science and science-related tools to the general public. In keeping with that theme, I'd like to thank the sponsors of today's podcast. Our first sponsor is ROKA. ROKA makes eyeglasses and sunglasses that are of the absolute highest quality. 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So if you would be so kind as to take a few minutes to fill out the survey and help us continue with bringing you the best possible content here at the Huberman Lab Podcast. And as always, thank you for your interest in science. And now for my discussion with Dr. Rena Malik. Dr. Rena Malik, welcome.
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