The Science of Women’s Health: Ob/Gyn Reveals 10 Truths You Need to Know

The Science of Women’s Health: Ob/Gyn Reveals 10 Truths You Need to Know

The Mel Robbins PodcastAug 22, 20241h 7m

Mel Robbins (host), Dr. Jen Gunter (guest)

Misinformation and fear-based marketing in women’s health and social mediaBasic vulva/vagina anatomy, pH, discharge, odor, and hygienePubic hair, underwear, shapewear, and common grooming mythsSex, orgasm, lubrication, pain with intercourse, and the hymen/virginity mythsYeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, boric acid, and over-the-counter treatmentsPeriods, lesser-known menstrual symptoms like diarrhea, and debunking “toxins” and cleansesHow to critically evaluate medical information and avoid wellness pseudoscience

In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, featuring Mel Robbins and Dr. Jen Gunter, The Science of Women’s Health: Ob/Gyn Reveals 10 Truths You Need to Know explores oB/Gyn Debunks Viral Vaginal Myths, Cleanses, And Wellness Scams Mel Robbins interviews OB/Gyn Dr. Jen Gunter about pervasive misinformation surrounding women’s health, especially vulvas, vaginas, periods, and sexual function.

OB/Gyn Debunks Viral Vaginal Myths, Cleanses, And Wellness Scams

Mel Robbins interviews OB/Gyn Dr. Jen Gunter about pervasive misinformation surrounding women’s health, especially vulvas, vaginas, periods, and sexual function.

Gunter explains how marketing, patriarchy, and social media fear-mongering create shame and sell unnecessary or harmful products, from “feminine hygiene” washes to boric acid and cleanses.

She clarifies basic anatomy, normal discharge, odor, lubrication, and orgasms, and stresses that the vagina is self-cleaning and rarely needs special products.

The conversation ends with practical guidance on fact-checking health information, trusting evidence over influencers, and using simple, boring fundamentals—exercise, fiber, and skepticism—as the real foundations of health.

Key Takeaways

The vagina is self-cleaning and does not need internal products.

You should never wash or douche inside the vagina; introducing water, soap, or ‘pH-balancing’ products disrupts the acidic environment and healthy bacteria, increasing the risk of infections.

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Most ‘feminine hygiene’ and scent products are unnecessary and often harmful.

Fragranced wipes, special washes, and “freshness” products raise pH, irritate tissue, and are linked to more infections; they’re built on the false premise that your vulva/vagina is dirty or smelly and must be fixed.

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Pubic hair, underwear, and grooming styles are cosmetic choices, not medical necessities.

Pubic hair protects skin and moisture; removing it is optional but can cause irritation, infections, and chronic dryness. ...

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Odor and discharge are usually normal; changes and symptoms warrant evaluation.

A clear/white discharge of up to a few milliliters daily, and a body-part smell, are normal. ...

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Penetrative sex is not the most reliable path to orgasm for many women.

Clitoral stimulation, foreplay, and other forms of sexual activity often provide more consistent pleasure; not climaxing from penetration alone is normal, and sex doesn’t have to be orgasm- or penis-centered to be satisfying.

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Pain with sex is common but not normal, and deserves real workup.

Conditions like yeast infections, low estrogen, vaginismus, endometriosis, nerve and bladder disorders, or skin diseases can cause painful intercourse; you should not accept “that’s normal” as an answer from a provider.

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Beware of ‘cleanses,’ ‘boosting immunity,’ and boric acid for routine use.

Detoxes and cleanses are modern purity culture with no medical basis; ‘immune boosting’ is a nonsensical term; boric acid is essentially a broad-spectrum chemical used only in specific, resistant infection cases, not for regular ‘tune-ups’.

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Notable Quotes

The vagina’s a self-cleaning oven. You don’t need to do anything to it.

Dr. Jen Gunter

Anyone who tells you they can balance your vaginal pH has outed themselves as an idiot on the subject.

Dr. Jen Gunter

Everything is about making women feel smaller and damaged. Whenever you hear any message, ask: does this thought make me less of a person?

Dr. Jen Gunter

If you don’t take this hormone or supplement, this will happen—those urgent messages are sales pressure tactics, not medicine.

Dr. Jen Gunter

Google is not a medical library. It’s a popularity contest.

Dr. Jen Gunter

Questions Answered in This Episode

How can I build a simple, evidence-based hygiene routine for my vulva and vagina and confidently ignore most marketed products?

Mel Robbins interviews OB/Gyn Dr. ...

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What specific questions should I ask my doctor if I have chronic discharge, odor, or pain with sex so I’m not dismissed?

Gunter explains how marketing, patriarchy, and social media fear-mongering create shame and sell unnecessary or harmful products, from “feminine hygiene” washes to boric acid and cleanses.

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How can parents more accurately and comfortably teach children about vulva/vagina anatomy, discharge, and periods without shame?

She clarifies basic anatomy, normal discharge, odor, lubrication, and orgasms, and stresses that the vagina is self-cleaning and rarely needs special products.

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What concrete steps can I take to become better at spotting medical misinformation and manipulative fear-based health content online?

The conversation ends with practical guidance on fact-checking health information, trusting evidence over influencers, and using simple, boring fundamentals—exercise, fiber, and skepticism—as the real foundations of health.

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If I’ve been using products like boric acid, scented washes, or frequent hair removal, how do I safely ‘reset’ and monitor my vulvar and vaginal health going forward?

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Transcript Preview

Mel Robbins

Today, you and I are busting medical myths and misinformation. What are we getting wrong about our vaginas? (laughs)

Dr. Jen Gunter

That's a loaded question.

Mel Robbins

(laughs)

Dr. Jen Gunter

I wish people would just, like, forget the word hymen. It is probably the most misunderstood body part.

Mel Robbins

So let's talk about pubic hair.

Dr. Jen Gunter

Everybody wants to talk about pubic hair. It's so fascinating.

Mel Robbins

I saw online that if I eat pineapple that my vagina is going to smell better. Is that true?

Dr. Jen Gunter

Yeah. No. That, that's a load of garbage.

Mel Robbins

Oh.

Dr. Jen Gunter

So it's a vagina, not a pina colada. Like, your vulva shouldn't be smelling like, (sniffs) like a tropical fruit drink.

Mel Robbins

But I want my husband, Chris, to go down and drink the pina colada. (upbeat music plays) Hey, it's Mel. Do you ever feel completely overwhelmed by the conflicting medical and health advice on the internet? Well, today, you and I are busting medical myths and misinformation with a world-renowned, double board certified medical doctor. That's right, the amazing Dr. Jen Gunter is in the house. And look, if you're shy about these kinds of TMI things, don't you worry, your friend Mel is gonna go ask the embarrassing questions on both of our behalves. I will go first, like, should you sleep in underwear at night? Is wearing a thong bad for your vagina? How do you properly clean your lady parts anyway? What are the shocking period symptoms that nobody talks about? Don't lie to me, you've thought about these questions before and I know you want the answers. I sure do, and that's exactly where we're going today on the Mel Robbins Podcast. Dr. Gunter, thank you for jumping on a plane and coming all the way to Boston for the Mel Robbins Podcast. We are thrilled that you are here.

Dr. Jen Gunter

Well, thank you so much for asking me, and I'm thrilled to be here.

Mel Robbins

So I'd like to start by having you speak directly to the person that is listening right now, and can you tell them what they may experience in their life and with their health if they listen to everything that you're about to share and they take the research-backed advice that you're about to give them?

Dr. Jen Gunter

Yeah. So I would say that if you take home one thing from what I'm talking about today is that the importance of facts, of evidence-based information, 'cause that will help you advocate for yourself in the doctor's office. It'll help you figure out what you're seeing online is truth or trash, and it'll help you feel less alone with your own body if you actually know the facts about it.

Mel Robbins

Well, one of the reasons why I was so excited to talk to you, Dr. Gunter, is because you are the number one OBGYN that people turn to around the world to debunk all the myths that are out there about women's health, and we are gonna get into every aspect of women's health. We're gonna talk about menstruation, and menopause, and how to take care of your body. And before we do, though, I just wanna know wha- how did you get into being a OBGYN and why have you become the doctor of reason and the doctor of research online?

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