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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Dr. Mark Rackley Explains AuDHD's Internal Contradictions, Masking, and Mental Health Risks
- Dr. Mark Rackley outlines the core traits of ADHD (executive function issues, emotional dysregulation, impulsivity, hyperactivity) and autism (social challenges, rigidity of thought or behavior), and how they overlap in areas like sensory sensitivity and emotion regulation.
- He describes how opposing traits, such as impulsivity versus needing predictability or craving social connection versus finding small talk hard, pull people with AuDHD in different directions and cause stress.
- Rackley explains that heavy masking, which is exhausting, can hide autism in particular, and that autism may only show up when change causes major distress.
- He says the DSM only began to permit assessing both conditions side by side in 2013, AuDHD is not an official diagnosis, and some doctors stay in their lane and don't raise a possible second condition.
- He links AuDHD to greater anxiety and depression, intensified RSD and shame spirals after social events, ADHD-related addiction risk, and health anxiety after binges.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasADHD and autism overlap but also pull in opposite directions.
Rackley says impulsivity clashes with a need for predictability, and a craving for social stimulation clashes with difficulty reading the room and disliking small talk. Being pulled in different directions while trying to stay stable creates real stress.
Masking is exhausting and can cause people to be missed.
Rackley says patients learn social behavior from TV characters or change their accents, and that long-term masking makes autism subtle and hard to pick up, whereas ADHD tends to be more disruptive and obvious.
Difficulty with change can be a clue to autism.
Rackley says that when someone struggles to navigate change and it causes a lot of distress, that may point to autism, since people with ADHD can manage change without getting so stuck.
Both conditions involve the same brain regions.
Rackley says the prefrontal cortex and cerebellum are involved in both. He describes ADHD as a roughly three-year developmental delay in the prefrontal cortex, with the cerebellum linked to motor function and time blindness.
The diagnostic system has been slow to recognize the dual presentation.
Rackley says the 1994 DSM-4 didn't allow both diagnoses together, DSM-5 in 2013 allowed both assessments side by side, and AuDHD still isn't an official diagnosis, which he thinks could take a long time.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesI want people to know better, 'cause when you know better you can do better.
— Dr. Mark Rackley
It's exhausting when, when you mask.
— Dr. Mark Rackley
They're not being their authentic selves. Which again, is like, that's really sad because that just creates stress and anxiety in those social situations.
— Dr. Mark Rackley
labels can be useful in terms of giving you s- maybe some context, but they're not hugely helpful in terms of explaining your lived experience.
— Dr. Mark Rackley
that person can be living a life where, yeah, it's making everybody else happy-
— Dr. Mark Rackley
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SPEAKERS
Dr. Mark Rackley
guestADHD specialist psychologist with over 20 years’ clinical experience working with ADHD and autism.
Alex Partridge
hostHost of the podcast ADHD Chatter with Alex Partridge.
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