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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Design communities around outcomes, onboarding, and flexibility—not features
- Ali Abdaal interviews Jay Clouse about building paid online communities, using Jay’s membership “The Lab” as a reference point for what makes communities work and what makes them fail.
- Jay argues community value comes primarily from connection, transformation, and identity, and warns that a wave of low-quality communities will cause members to consolidate into only one or two they truly value.
- Jay recommends selling outcomes and credibility (promise + member success stories) while keeping delivery details flexible so programming can evolve without breaking public promises.
- They discuss pricing and audience strategy tradeoffs, including higher-ticket lower-volume vs broader-market lower pricing, and the operational implications of each.
- Jay emphasizes onboarding, timeliness, and thoughtful space/event design as the practical levers that determine whether members participate or quietly churn.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasCommunity saturation will reward the best-run communities and punish the rest.
Jay Clouse predicts a near-term surge of poorly run communities that will leave members burned out and disillusioned. He argues the goal is to design an experience strong enough to become one of the one or two communities members “can’t imagine not being a part of.”
People join for outcomes, but stay for connection and identity.
Jay breaks community value into three buckets: connection, transformation, and identity. He says transformation is often the easiest promise to communicate, but “stickiness” and long-term retention often come more from connection and identity.
Sell the promise, not a rigid feature checklist.
Jay warns that many creators over-specify programming and features on the sales page, which locks them into rigid delivery they may later want to change. He recommends emphasizing the promise and outcomes while staying flexible about how delivery evolves.
Your billing cadence should match the time it takes to deliver results.
Jay says monthly billing creates an easy off-ramp and can increase churn simply because it’s available. He also argues you shouldn’t offer a recurrence schedule that’s misaligned with how long it takes members to achieve the promised outcome.
A magical first experience buys you months of trust and patience.
Jay stresses the moment right after purchase is “peak excitement” and “peak anxiety,” and many communities fail by dumping members into an empty space with little guidance. He describes designing onboarding to repeatedly answer the member’s “Now what?” question through guided steps, messaging, and training.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesThere's some truth to it, but what we're gonna see is an explosion of communities that are done poorly and, uh, an, an almost instant cratering of that as well because people are going to become disillusioned with it because they're going to have a lot of really bad community experiences.
— Jay Clouse
We're social creatures. For most of human history, we literally lived in small communities of people.
— Jay Clouse
The thing is to, to have recurring revenue, you have to provide recurring value.
— Jay Clouse
When people swipe their credit card, they have peak excitement and also, like, peak anxiety of- did I just make a huge mistake?
— Jay Clouse
I think you need five people. Uh, if you, if you want to start a community, I think you literally only need five people.
— Jay Clouse
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SPEAKERS
Ali Abdaal
hostProductivity-focused creator and host of the podcast/YouTube channel Deep Dive.
Jay Clouse
guestCreator Science founder who teaches creators how to build sustainable businesses and communities (e.g., The Lab membership).
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