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Deep Dive with Ali AbdaalThe Sure-Fire Way To Be Luckier In Life - Advice From Psychology Professor Richard Wiseman
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Psychologist Richard Wiseman on Luck, Passion, Magic and Living Interestingly
- Wiseman describes his path from magic to psychology to parapsychology, crediting chance encounters, including a stranger who told him to focus on what he could do, as more influential than any plan.
- He explains that lucky people are open to opportunities, trust their intuition, expect good fortune and are resilient, and that simple interventions like a written luck diary shifted people's self-perception and outcomes in his studies.
- Wiseman rejects goal-setting and affirmations in favor of following what is interesting, finding a passion that earns enough to get by, and favoring concrete tactics over clichés.
- He shares practical creative advice, such as writing 1,500 words every morning until an 80,000-word draft is done, and Ali discusses his struggles with his own book.
- The conversation also covers the Apollo mission controllers' mindset, likability and trust, the role of community, and how parapsychology helped spark psychology's replication reforms.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasLuck is largely a matter of mindset and behavior
Wiseman says lucky people are open to opportunities, trust intuition, are optimistic, and are resilient, with resilience probably the most important. The lucky man with a broken leg refused to label it bad luck because a past hospital stay had led him to his wife.
Tactics matter more than clichés
Wiseman argues that advice like 'look on the bright side' is too broad, and that action lies in specific methods such as counterfactual thinking, looking for silver linings, or Dale Carnegie's journal of daft things done that day.
Written luck journals change how you are seen
Writing down gratitude and good events builds a record that changes self-perception, which changes how others treat you. Wiseman stresses that merely thinking it doesn't work and that the causality runs both ways.
Pursue interest and passion, with enough money to get by
Wiseman never had an endpoint and asks whether he is having a good time and wants to get out of bed. He suggests finding the topic you'd pick for a desert island and earning enough from it, calling pursuit of great wealth a false god.
Get words on the page before polishing
Wiseman writes a rough 80,000-word draft in two months at 1,500 words each morning, then edits on alternate days. Quality doesn't matter at first, and a blank canvas is the scary part.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesWe like to think we're in charge of our careers, and I don't think we are. I think there's so much rolling of the dice with it.
— Richard Wiseman
I'm sure the action is always in the tactics rather than the strategy.
— Richard Wiseman
If you wanna be a kind person, go and do kind things. And you'll become that person, not by standing in front of a mirror and saying, 'I am a good person.'
— Richard Wiseman
If you become too isolated and too self-absorbed in anything, you're not feeding your mind with other thoughts, other perspective, other ways of doing things. And that for me is where creativity always comes from.
— Richard Wiseman
You can only talk about a topic, a plan, three times, and if you haven't done it by the third time, you have to never mention it again and never do it.
— Richard Wiseman
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SPEAKERS
Richard Wiseman
guestPsychology professor and researcher known for work on the psychology of luck, magic/illusion, and skepticism.
Ali Abdaal
hostHost of Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal, interviewing creators and experts.
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