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When to Convince AI Skeptics (or When to Move On)

When should you help an AI skeptic see the value, and when should you move on? Dalton and Michael discuss how founders can navigate AI skepticism among employees, customers, friends, and family, and why a useful firsthand experience often does more than an argument. They explain how to make AI adoption part of your company’s culture, what to ask candidates about AI during interviews, and why customers care more about outcomes than the technology behind them. They also discuss helping the people you care about get started, working around skeptical bosses, and recognizing when convincing employees is taking time away from building your business. Discussion includes: showing instead of telling, why trying an old free model can create lasting skepticism, helping friends and family experience AI’s value, sharing useful workflows with your team, avoiding performative AI adoption, screening for AI use in interviews, setting expectations for employees, selling outcomes to skeptical customers, navigating bosses who block AI, and knowing when to stop debating and move on. — Dalton + Michael is brought to you by @Standard_Cap. Standard Capital is the AI-native Series A fund. Learn more at https://standardcap.com. — About Dalton: Dalton Caldwell is Co-Founder and Partner of Standard Capital. He spent 12 years at Y Combinator, where he served as Managing Partner, worked across 25 YC batches, and advised more than 1,000 startups. His investments include Whatnot, Brex, GitLab, PostHog, Stock Space, Rappi, Razorpay, and Oklo. Before becoming an investor, Dalton founded imeem and App.net. About Michael: Michael Seibel is a Partner Emeritus at Y Combinator, where he served as Managing Partner of the early stage accelerator from 2014 - 2024. Michael also serves on the board of three companies: Reddit, Dropbox, and Kalshi. He moved to the Bay Area in 2006, and was a co-founder and CEO of two Y Combinator startups, Justin.tv/Twitch (2007 - 2011) and Socialcam (2011 - 2012). In 2012, Socialcam sold to Autodesk Inc. for $60m, and in 2014, under the leadership of Emmett Shear (CEO) and Kevin Lin (COO), Twitch sold to Amazon for $970m. — Are you an AI builder? Check out StandardDB. Discover offers, credits, tools, and partner programs from the StandardDB ecosystem. StandardDB.com

Dalton CaldwellhostMichael Seibelhost
Oct 19, 202623mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Convert AI skeptics with firsthand wins, not endless debate

  1. Caldwell and Seibel argue that the best way to convert AI skeptics is to create a personal experience of value rather than engaging in abstract or moral debates.
  2. They claim many negative impressions come from outdated trials or free-tier tools, and that rapid model improvements and paid products change the experience dramatically.
  3. They recommend fostering workplace adoption through concrete shared workflows and by hiring for AI fluency, while warning that usage leaderboards can incentivize performative behavior.
  4. For customers, they advise selling benefits and outcomes—especially speed, prototypes, integrations, and real-time dashboards—rather than emphasizing that the solution is “AI.”
  5. They warn a “Great Sorting” is underway where individuals and companies that avoid AI may lose competitiveness, and they suggest learning independently if organizational rules or culture lag behind.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Don’t debate skeptics—engineer a firsthand “wow” moment.

They argue that abstract debates (ethics, politics, “AI is dangerous”) rarely change minds; a direct experience that clearly helps someone in their own context does. Their analogy: letting someone ride in a Tesla with Full Self-Driving is more convincing than arguing online about safety.

A lot of AI skepticism is a stale verdict based on old or free tools.

Many skeptics tried early, weaker models or only free tiers, then generalized that experience to all AI. The speakers emphasize that capabilities have changed quickly and that paid tools can be “100x better,” so prior disappointment may be outdated.

Don’t let cherry-picked failure cases define the whole technology.

They note how viral content often “breaks” AI with trick prompts (e.g., timing a marathon, barking like a dog) and then treats that failure as proof AI is useless. The takeaway is to evaluate AI on real workflows and outcomes rather than cherry-picked demos.

Drive adoption with specific workflows and hiring signals, not slogans or vanity metrics.

For teams, they recommend normalizing AI use through concrete workflow sharing (not broad mandates), and even screening for AI fluency in interviews. They also caution that token/usage leaderboards can create performative behavior rather than real productivity gains.

In B2B, let speed and deliverables do the convincing—sell outcomes, not “AI.”

In selling to customers, they advise selling outcomes (speed, prototypes, integrations, dashboards) rather than “AI features.” Using AI live in meetings to answer questions and generate artifacts can rapidly shift a buyer from skepticism to internal championing.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

I always think it comes down to real personal experience- ... where someone personally experiences the value- ... as opposed to abstract arguments.

— Dalton Caldwell

I, I love that 'cause it's like why, why debate? Just go to the Tesla store.

— Michael Seibel

If you, if your beliefs are significantly impacting your future livelihood, be careful with those beliefs.

— Michael Seibel

At some point, your job is not to convince your employees this is a good tool.

— Michael Seibel

I think you should follow the rules, and you should do what they say, but they can't control with what you do with your own time, and they can't control what you do with your mind.

— Dalton Caldwell

Firsthand demos vs abstract debateAI skepticism from outdated/free toolsCherry-picked “AI fails” contentWorkplace adoption tactics and hiring filtersSelling outcomes instead of AI featuresSpeed, prototypes, integrations, dashboardsCareer risk and the “Great Sorting”

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