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Chris Eubank Jr. Opens Up About His Grief, Living In His Father's Shadow & His Future | E159

Chris Eubank Jr. is a boxer on his way to being the best in the world. A journey into boxing like no other, Chris didn’t just have to step out of the shadows of his own demons to make his name in the ring, but out of the shadow of his own father. Topics: 00:00 Intro 01:42 Where did your discipline & strength come from? 10:09 Why I never give up 19:02 What made you different from everyone else? 28:16 Are you emotional? 35:40 Have you spoken to your dad about emotions? 42:19 The death of your brother & how it changed you 52:08 Keeping relationships private 54:42 Boxing and its health implications 01:01:09 Anxiety & online trolls 01:10:21 What’s next for you 01:13:13 Our last guest’s question Chris: https://twitter.com/chriseubankjr https://www.instagram.com/chriseubankjr/ Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SteveBartlettSC Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Sponsor: BlueJeans - https://www.bluejeans.com/ Huel - https://my.huel.com/Steven Crafted - https://bit.ly/3JKOPFx

Chris Eubank Jr.guestSteven Bartletthost
Jul 10, 20221h 17mWatch on YouTube ↗

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Chris Eubank Jr: Grief, Grit, Legacy And Life Beyond The Ring

  1. Chris Eubank Jr. discusses forging his own identity beyond being "Chris Eubank’s son," revealing how discipline, mental toughness and a strict upbringing pulled him away from violence and into elite boxing. He breaks down the psychology of fighting, emphasizing that success in the ring is 70–80% mental and built in lonely training moments where no one is watching. Eubank opens up about the death of his brother Sebastian, the regret of missing a final meeting and funeral, and how grief has softened his emotional armor and reshaped his priorities around family and legacy. He also explores online hate, happiness, and his unfinished boxing ambitions as he enters what he calls the “money years” of his career.

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Mental toughness is built in private, not under lights.

Eubank argues boxing is 70–80% mental: the real conditioning happens when no one is watching, such as finishing a 40‑minute treadmill run on a cramped calf simply because he promised himself he would. He treats these moments as rehearsals for high‑pressure situations in the ring; if a treadmill can’t make him quit, an opponent won’t either.

Choosing struggle when you don’t have to can be a superpower.

Unlike many champions from poverty, Eubank grew up with comfort and options. He sees voluntarily embracing a brutal sport and its sacrifices—when he could have had an easier path in other sports or academics—as an even greater personal achievement, driven by an obsessive drive to test himself and a refusal to rely on his father’s success.

Defining yourself beyond a famous parent requires conscious detachment.

Always introduced as "Chris Eubank’s son," and even sharing his father’s first name, he felt compelled to create his own legacy. Initially, his competitive instinct partly aimed at proving he could be tougher and perhaps even better than the man who thought he wasn’t cut out for boxing, but he learned to stop comparing and focus solely on being the best version of himself.

Unchecked teenage anger and ego can derail an entire life trajectory.

He describes going into a school with a hidden baseball bat, intent on attacking a boy who threatened him. In hindsight, he recognizes that one impulsive act could have led to killing someone, prison, and a permanent ban from the U.S., erasing his entire boxing career. It underscores how a single emotional decision can permanently change a life path.

Grief and regret can crack emotional armor and reorder priorities.

Eubank, who hadn’t cried in 20 years, broke down for days when his brother Sebastian died from a sudden heart issue. He deeply regrets secretly passing through Dubai months earlier and choosing not to see him, a decision he now cites as his one true regret, and it has sharpened his commitment to prioritizing family time and never taking loved ones for granted.

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People that don't know about boxing think you gotta be big and mean and full of hate… but the biggest part of being able to be a great fighter is this. It is, in my opinion, 70, 80% mental.

Chris Eubank Jr.

If the treadmill can make me quit, what happens when I get into the ring with a guy who's hitting me and I'm hurt?

Chris Eubank Jr.

I knew my brother was in Dubai and I didn't go and see him… That's probably the one regret I have in my life.

Chris Eubank Jr.

You have to be a villain or you have to be a hero in the sport of boxing. Love or hate. You can't be in the middle.

Chris Eubank Jr.

You can never be happy if you're constantly comparing yourself to other people and not wanting the best for everybody, including yourself. Life's a mirror.

Chris Eubank Jr.

Mental toughness, discipline and the psychology of elite boxingGrowing up under Chris Eubank Sr. and building an independent identityViolent adolescence, gang involvement and near‑miss life consequencesEmotional suppression, relationships and male vulnerabilityThe death of his brother Sebastian and processing grief and regretHealth risks of boxing, cognitive decline and brain trainingPublic perception, trolling, villain/hero dynamics and future career goals

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