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How To Chase Your Dreams Without Fear Holding You Back with Fran Millar | E67

This weeks episode entitled 'How To Chase Your Dreams Without Fear Holding You Back' topics: 0:00 Intro 01:24 Your Brother 15:16 “Being a difficult woman” 24:10 This idea of labels 28:51 The move away from cycling 38:32 Winning behaviours 45:20 Key qualities to success 50:50 Relationships & Work 01:02:53 How to be successful like you 01:08:55 Belstaff 01:12:29 Are you scared of dying? 01:17:53 What does the future hold for you Fran: https://twitter.com/franmillar?lang=en https://www.linkedin.com/in/fran-millar-a7894437 Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX My book pre-order: (UK, US, AUS, NZ Link) - http://hyperurl.co/xenkw2 (EU & Rest of the World Link) https://www.bookdepository.com/Happy-Sexy-Millionaire-Steven-Bartlett/9781529301496?ref=grid-view&qid=1610300058833&sr=1-2 FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SteveBartlettSC Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Sponsor - https://uk.huel.com/

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Feb 8, 20211h 24mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 4:20

    Introduction: A Twisting Career Of Cruelty, Wonder, And Reinvention

    Steven frames Fran Millar’s story against the backdrop of British cycling’s transformation, the marginal gains movement, and the high-profile scandal of her brother David Millar. He outlines her trajectory from running a cycling business to becoming CEO of Team Sky/INEOS, and then unexpectedly jumping into fashion to lead Belstaff during the pandemic.

  2. 4:20 – 17:20

    David Millar, EPO, And How A Sport Broke A Young Man

    Fran describes her brother’s rapid ascent in cycling and the Festina/EPO era context in which he turned pro. She explains how systemic doping, complicit leadership, and commodification of athletes led him from starry-eyed teenager to deeply ashamed young man, and how that eroded him and scarred their family.

  3. 17:20 – 27:10

    Responsibility, Obedience, And The Myth That ‘We’d Do Better’

    Reflecting on David’s choices, Fran challenges simplistic moral judgments of dopers by invoking human obedience experiments and cultural pressures. She argues that in normalized cheating cultures, resisting is exceptional, not default, and that youthful impressionability plus intense dreams make transgression much more likely.

  4. 27:10 – 41:40

    Collateral Damage: Being The Sister Of A ‘Shamed’ Athlete

    Fran recounts the fallout of David’s arrest and ban from cycling, including media vilification and personal attacks online. She describes how her own identity and business, built partly on his success, felt threatened, and why she ultimately stopped representing him in the press to protect herself from binary, moralizing narratives.

  5. 41:40 – 51:20

    Being A ‘Difficult Woman’: Gender, Filters, And Owning Your Voice

    The conversation turns to gendered double standards in business and sport. Fran embraces the ‘difficult woman’ label as a rejection of expectations for female niceness and passivity, while also acknowledging that younger Fran sometimes conflated authenticity with unnecessary aggression.

  6. 51:20 – 1:13:00

    Radical Candor, Not License To Be A Dickhead

    Fran and Steven examine how their leadership styles have evolved toward greater directness and honesty. Fran frames feedback through the ‘Radical Candor’ model, arguing that high standards plus high care develop people, whereas sugarcoating stalls growth and cruelty masquerading as honesty destroys trust.

  7. 1:13:00 – 1:30:40

    Leaving Cycling: Identity, Stagnation, And The Belstaff Leap

    Fran details how she moved from total immersion in cycling to becoming CEO of Belstaff during COVID. After years of feeling stagnant and more focused on others’ development than her own, a health scare and a thrilling project (Kipchoge’s sub‑2 marathon) made her realize she needed a new challenge despite the pain of leaving.

  8. 1:30:40 – 1:45:20

    Jumping Off Cliffs: Fear, Evidence, And The Skill Of Quitting

    Steven and Fran compare notes on voluntarily leaving successful roles. Both describe the emotional turbulence of letting go of security, but Steven emphasizes how prior ‘evidence’ of surviving big quits makes future risks less scary. They frame quitting as an underrated skill that precedes all meaningful new beginnings.

  9. 1:45:20 – 1:56:20

    Designing High-Performance Culture: ‘Winning Behaviors’ At Team Sky

    Fran explains how, after early underperformance and then rapid Tour de France dominance, Team Sky codified the behaviors that made them successful. The ‘winning behaviors’ role focused less on slogans and more on precise, behavioral standards that reduced politics and increased psychological safety in a relentlessly demanding environment.

  10. 1:56:20 – 2:06:40

    Work Ethic, Burnout Narratives, And ‘Hard Pleasure’

    Steven and Fran debate the current cultural backlash against glorifying hard work. They agree that the issue isn’t intensity but misalignment: grinding at things you don’t care about. Fran’s stance is that her work is her life — not in a compulsive way, but because it’s where she chooses to invest her energy and derive meaning.

  11. 2:06:40 – 2:15:20

    Belstaff, Retail Upheaval, And Learning A New Industry Mid-Pandemic

    Now in fashion, Fran describes taking over a loss-making heritage brand amid COVID and retail disruption. She spends her first months listening, learning the industry, and forming a plan, while believing firmly that Belstaff’s legacy and product justify a turnaround — especially if physical retail can be reimagined as experiential.

  12. 2:15:20 – 2:33:40

    Opting Out Of The Script: Relationships, Motherhood, And A Life Less Ordinary

    Fran dives into her unconventional personal choices: happily single, childfree, and deeply embedded in a close-knit circle of friends and godchildren. She explains that societal pressure to couple up or have kids has never aligned with her internal motivations, and she consciously rejects the idea that fulfillment requires a nuclear family.

  13. 2:33:40 – 2:52:00

    Mortality, Brain Scans, And Living Without Regret

    A cycling crash and alarming MRI results forced Fran to confront her own mortality. The possibility of brain tumors led her to reflect on whether she’d been living in alignment with her values — and recognizing she wouldn’t change much gave her both comfort and fresh courage to take future risks.

  14. 2:52:00 – 3:00:40

    Money, Freedom, And Spending On Experiences, Not Things

    Near the end, the discussion turns to money and how Fran uses it. For her, financial success is primarily a tool to create memorable experiences for herself and the people she loves, not a scorecard or identity marker.

  15. 3:00:40

    Closing Reflections: No Plan, Just Doing Your Best

    Fran closes without grand designs for the future, content to keep doing work she cares about with people she likes. Anchored by the simple standard offered by Jim Ratcliffe — ‘the only thing I can ask you to do is your best’ — she rejects rigid life plans in favor of openness and gratitude.

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