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Leading Neuroscientist: Stress Leaks Through Skin, Is Contagious, Gives You Belly Fat! Dr Tara Swart

If you enjoy hearing about neuroscience and the power of the brain, I recommend listening to my conversation with Dr. Tali Sharot: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DZK1nawEXQ 0:00 Dr Tara Swart - Neuroscientist on how your brain influences your health, relationships and well-being. 02:06 💼 How to improve my brain health? 13:04 🩸 How to lose stomach fat 16:03 👥 The affect stress has on women 24:00 🛌 How to improve memory 25:52 🧠 How to prevent Alzheimer's and Parkinson’s 30:28 👩‍❤️‍👨 Key things for a better relationship 38:04 🧠 How does intuition works & why you should always follow it 44:11 🧠 How did the pandemic affect our stress levels & mental health? 46:32 🌿 Why nature is really important for your health 47:13 🤝 How to find your purpose & why its vital for your mental health 01:00:01 🧠 What is neuroplasticity & why you should learn everything about it 01:07:04 🧠 How to stop my bad habits 01:10:11 🧬 How do I cope with trauma? 01:16:02 🤰 Can stress affect pregnancy? 01:23:45 🧠 How does neuroplasticity works? 01:27:12 🏋️‍♂️ How do I improve my memory? 01:30:01 🍇 What is the best diet? 01:30:55 🧠 What is the importance of neuroplasticity? 01:34:15 💬 How does what I say affect my brain? 01:39:12 👫 Qualities to look for in a partner 01:44:23 🧠 How is ADHD and autism diagnosed? 01:53:20 🗣️ How does what I say affect my behaviour? 01:58:32 🙏 How does visualisation work? You can purchase Tara’s book, ‘The Source’, here: https://amzn.to/461TDRS Follow Tara: Instagram: https://bit.ly/48hJ1k2 Twitter: https://bit.ly/46gqYZI My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGq-a57w-aPwyi3pW7XLiHw/join Follow me: Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://bit.ly/41Fl95Q Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Sponsors: https://www.eightsleep.com/uk/steven/ CODE: STEVEN (save $150 on the Pod Cover) Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb

Dr Tara SwartguestSteven Bartletthost
Sep 25, 20232h 4mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 6:00

    Visualization, Brain Potential, and Dr. Tara Swart’s Mission

    The episode opens with a striking study on weightlifters gaining muscle purely through visualization, framing the brain’s hidden potential. Stephen introduces Dr. Tara Swart and positions the conversation around mental resilience, human potential, and confronting outdated beliefs about the brain.

  2. 6:00 – 21:00

    Brain–Body Connection and Stress as a Killer

    Swart recounts working with high-performing executives who treated their bodies as mere vehicles for their brains. She details how chronic stress, via cortisol and inflammation, contributed to sudden heart attacks—even in the absence of typical cardiac risk factors.

  3. 21:00 – 35:00

    Stress, Subjectivity, and Contagion via Hormones

    The discussion defines stress as a subjective overload and distinguishes adaptive spikes from harmful chronic elevation. Swart then explains how hormones like sex steroids and cortisol leak from sweat, synchronizing menstrual cycles and spreading stress physiologically—especially from leaders down organizations.

  4. 35:00 – 47:00

    Oxytocin, Eye Contact, and Building Emotional Resonance

    Swart unpacks how bonding and trust are built through eye contact, touch, and shared emotional experiences. She describes mother–infant eye contact, the power of right-eye-to-left-eye gaze, and practical bonding behaviors that raise oxytocin in daily life and even dating.

  5. 47:00 – 59:00

    From Cave Tribes to Corporate Stress: Cortisol, Belly Fat, and Leadership

    Using evolutionary stories, Swart explains why hormones evolved to synchronize reproduction and buffer famine via abdominal fat. She links this to modern office life, where leaders’ leaked cortisol both stresses their teams and drives hard-to-shift belly fat, challenging organizations to reconsider promotions and culture.

  6. 59:00 – 1:12:00

    Recognizing and Reducing Chronic Cortisol

    Swart offers a checklist of cortisol symptoms—sleep disruption, gut issues, irritability, skin problems, snapping at family—and prescribes practical ways to offload stress. Her focus is on physically and psychologically getting cortisol and negative thought loops out of the system.

  7. 1:12:00 – 1:27:00

    Sleep, Glymphatic Cleansing, and the Art of Side-Sleeping

    The conversation shifts to sleep as a critical brain function, not a luxury. Swart explains the glymphatic system that actively flushes neurotoxic waste at night, why most adults need about eight hours of sleep, and how side sleeping and consistent sleep windows enhance brain health.

  8. 1:27:00 – 1:47:00

    Co-sleeping, Oxytocin, and Relationship Resilience

    Swart argues strongly for couples sleeping together as both an evolutionary and emotional imperative. She describes co-sleeping’s roots in warmth and safety, warns about the relational cost of ‘sleep divorce,’ and shares HRV data showing kisses and cuddles as measurable resilience boosters.

  9. 1:47:00 – 2:06:00

    Intuition, Gut–Brain Axis, and Embodied Wisdom

    Swart demystifies intuition as deeply stored experience rather than magic. She explains how learning and wisdom are pushed from the cortex into limbic system, brain stem, spinal cord, and gut neurons, making “gut instinct” a genuine neural phenomenon shaped by past experience.

  10. 2:06:00 – 2:20:00

    Post-Pandemic Spiritual and Mental Health Crisis

    Swart outlines how the pandemic catalyzed unprecedented stress, loss, and isolation across all ages, but society has barely addressed the psychological aftermath. She contrasts modern short-term thinking with indigenous practices of planning seven generations ahead, and positions the current moment as both crisis and potential spiritual revolution.

  11. 2:20:00 – 2:46:00

    Nature, Neuroaesthetics, and Purpose Beyond Self

    The discussion dives into how beauty, art, and nature regulate the nervous system. Swart introduces neuroaesthetics—how regular engagement with beauty and creativity supports longevity and mental health—and frames service to others as a deep evolutionary need to feel valuable to the tribe.

  12. 2:46:00 – 3:06:00

    Social Media, Pornography, and Erosion of Empathy

    Swart and Stephen examine how screens, social media, and pornography have altered intimacy, expectations, and empathy. She describes distorted ideals of women, transactional dating norms, and how excessive online interaction without in-person contact harms social comfort, empathy, and body image—particularly in teens.

  13. 3:06:00 – 3:18:00

    Social Contagion, Tribe Curation, and Psychological Level

    Swart explains social contagion: we unconsciously mirror the behaviors and life outcomes of our social group. While not advocating abandoning struggling friends, she stresses the importance of surrounding yourself with people who are growing, kind, and emotionally aware because we meet others at our level of evolution—and our level of wounding.

  14. 3:18:00 – 3:46:00

    Neuroplasticity Explained: Mechanisms, Window of Change, and Limits

    Swart traces how neuroscience moved from believing the adult brain was fixed to understanding neuroplasticity. She defines myelination, synaptic change, and neurogenesis as three mechanisms of brain change, and clarifies that adults can significantly upgrade executive functions—emotion regulation, flexible thinking, bias overriding—through intense, sustained learning and habit change.

  15. 3:46:00 – 4:25:00

    Changing Deep Patterns: Awareness, Consequences, Practice, Accountability

    Swart walks through a 4-part roadmap for changing entrenched patterns—like overthinking, self-sabotaging relationships, people-pleasing, or chronic negativity. She illustrates with an example of someone repeatedly dating unavailable partners, showing how to surface hidden beliefs about self-worth and deliberately practice new choices.

  16. 4:25:00 – 4:56:00

    Generational Trauma, Epigenetics, and Pregnancy Stress

    Swart distinguishes generational trauma (psychological spillover from historic oppression) from epigenetic or intergenerational trauma (changes in gene expression from environmental stressors like famine or the Holocaust). She explains how parental stress—especially maternal stress during pregnancy—can prime children’s stress responses, while emphasizing this is about awareness and mitigation, not blame.

  17. 4:56:00 – 5:18:00

    Grief, Emotional Avoidance, and the Need to ‘Go to the Bottom’

    Swart reflects on grief—from breakups to death—as an overwhelming force that must be fully processed rather than bypassed. Drawing on her own divorce, she argues that people must allow themselves to descend into and work through the full spectrum of emotions, with gentle support, or risk unresolved pain resurfacing later.

  18. 5:18:00 – 5:43:00

    Neuroplasticity Mechanisms in Detail: Exercise, Food, and Learning

    Returning to mechanisms, Swart ties neuroplasticity to practical levers: aerobic exercise and diet. She introduces BDNF, explains why dark-skinned foods help, and revisits that remarkable visualization study with weightlifters, reinforcing how thought and intention can have measurable physical effects.

  19. 5:43:00 – 5:56:00

    Conditions for Change: Lifestyle Foundations and Fasting

    Swart recaps the biological preconditions for effective neuroplasticity: sleep, movement, nutrition, hydration, and stress management. She then describes time-restricted eating and intermittent fasting as advanced tools that help regulate blood sugar and support brain health—but only once the basics are in place.

  20. 5:56:00 – 6:16:00

    Self-Esteem, Affirmations, and Language as Brain Programming

    Swart critiques shallow affirmations and instead promotes precise self-talk that addresses genuine underlying needs, like safety. She and Stephen explore how everyday phrases (‘I need coffee’, ‘I can’t exercise’) encode disempowering beliefs, and how deliberately rephrasing them changes neural wiring and agency.

  21. 6:16:00 – 6:51:00

    Manifestation as a Brain Process, Not Magic

    Swart redefines manifestation in neuroscientific terms: your brain, not the universe, is the source. She explains how clear intention, sensory-rich visualization, and aligned behavior (especially becoming the person who deserves what you want) drive outcomes, using ideal-partner lists and career examples.

  22. 6:51:00 – 7:11:00

    Neurodiversity, Diagnosis, and Evolutionary Adaptation

    Briefly turning to neurodiversity, Swart outlines autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and related conditions as variations from a ‘typical’ brain. She suggests that higher diagnosis rates reflect both better detection and possible adaptations to a hyper-stimulating, tech-saturated world.

  23. 7:11:00 – 7:30:00

    Indigenous Wisdom, Humming, and Parasympathetic Regulation

    Swart previews her upcoming podcast season on indigenous wisdom, sharing small practices like humming and chanting that appear in diverse traditions. While mechanisms aren’t fully mapped, she links them to parasympathetic activation and creativity, echoing breathing experts’ claims about humming’s benefits.

  24. 7:30:00 – 7:56:00

    Psychological Priming of Aging and Defying ‘Old’ Scripts

    Swart describes a study where people in their 80s lived for a week as if they were 20 years younger, leading to measurable improvements in posture, coordination, and perceived age. She adds a story about her own eyesight improving after refusing the narrative of age-related decline, highlighting how expectations shape physiology.

  25. 7:56:00

    Your Untapped Brain Potential and the First Practical Step

    In closing, Swart reiterates that most adults are far from their brain’s potential and can meaningfully reshape who they are. She offers a concrete first step—clarity, visualization, and gratitude—to move the brain from fear to trust, opening the gateway for neuroplastic change.

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