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Macklemore: How You Can Overcome Your Darkest Days & Hardest Battles!

In this new episode Steven sits down with the American rapper and songwriter Macklemore. Topics: 0:00 Intro 02:05 What’s inspired you to become this person sat in-front of me 08:17 Your journey with addiction 25:10 How has your struggle played into the music 33:30 Your most important record 42:46 Your relationship with social media 45:45 Advice for your younger self 50:03 The people that you hurt 59:20 What gets you out of bed today? 01:02:57 Are you happy now? 01:05:43 Your new album 01:09:59 The last guest’s question You can listen to Macklemore’s new album, ‘Ben’, here: https://bit.ly/3oJlgPH Follow: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3LbbcGx Twitter: https://bit.ly/3HgwHoa Join this channel to get access to perks: https://bit.ly/3Dpmgx5 Follow:  Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: http://bit.ly/3ZFGUku Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Follow:  Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://bit.ly/41Fl95Q Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Sponsors:   Bluejeans: https://g2ul0.app.link/NCgpGjVNKsb Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb

MacklemoreguestSteven Bartletthost
May 4, 20231h 21mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 4:00

    Opening: Numbness, Despair, and Macklemore’s Introduction

    The episode opens with Macklemore describing a moment of total emotional numbness and existential doubt, before the host introduces him as a Grammy‑winning artist whose story extends far beyond his hits. This frames the conversation around his darkest days and deepest battles rather than simply his success.

  2. 4:00 – 12:00

    Childhood ‘Dots’: Discovering Music, Hip‑Hop, and Performance

    Macklemore traces the first ‘dots’ in his life back to a magical summer at age six listening to the radio in a neighbor’s yard, followed by falling in love with hip‑hop at seven. Inspired by Michael Jackson, he became a relentless young performer, supported by an encouraging mother and a creative school environment.

  3. 12:00 – 21:00

    Teen Years: School, Freedom, and the First Drink

    As he transitioned from a small, alternative school to a large high school, Macklemore encountered newfound freedom and substances. His grades plummeted as drugs and alcohol entered his life, even as his ambition to rap grew, though he lacked both confidence and sobriety to fully pursue it.

  4. 21:00 – 31:00

    Understanding Addiction: Escape, ‘Allergy,’ and Common Threads

    Macklemore explains that substances initially offered an escape from his overactive teenage mind, delivering elation and secrecy. He describes an ‘allergy’ that meant he could never stop at a few drinks, and reflects on common patterns among addicts such as trauma, shame, and a drive to escape reality.

  5. 31:00 – 41:00

    How Loved Ones Can (and Can’t) Help an Addict

    The host shares his experience with a business partner’s alcoholism, and Macklemore lays out what does and doesn’t work for loved ones trying to help. He emphasizes powerlessness, the risks of enabling, and the importance of resources like Al‑Anon and approaching the addict with compassion instead of anger.

  6. 41:00 – 48:00

    The Power of Surrender: Interventions and Turning Points

    The host recounts a pivotal intervention with his friend where honest vulnerability replaced anger, leading to eight years of sobriety. Macklemore frames such moments as crucial acts of surrender, where admitting pain and asking for help becomes the beginning of recovery for many addicts.

  7. 48:00 – 1:00:00

    Macklemore’s Bottom: OxyContin, Numbness, and Saying Yes to Rehab

    Macklemore details his most significant rock‑bottom at around 25, after a brief but intense OxyContin period that left him emotionally empty and physically ill. A simple question from his father—“Are you happy?”—forced him to admit his brokenness and ultimately accept rehab, a decision he credits with saving his life.

  8. 1:00:00 – 1:09:00

    Art and Addiction: Lost Seasons, God in the Studio, and Repurposing Pain

    Reflecting on his catalog, Macklemore wonders how addiction affected his productivity and potential, acknowledging years lost to instant gratification. Yet he sees his mistakes as raw material for deeply impactful work, describing music as a spiritual practice where he becomes a conduit for something beyond himself.

  9. 1:09:00 – 1:14:00

    Clarity, Chaos, and the Habits Behind Creative Flow

    Macklemore outlines the practical and spiritual routines that foster his most inspired work—exercise, service, stillness, and ego‑reduction—and contrasts them with fear‑based thinking about metrics and outcomes. He notes that attempts to architect hits have consistently failed, while uncalculated records unexpectedly shaped culture.

  10. 1:14:00 – 1:22:00

    Most Important Records: “Same Love” and “Other Side”

    Asked which songs have had the greatest impact, Macklemore highlights “Same Love,” which intersected with the gay marriage movement, and “Other Side,” his first post‑rehab song about addiction. Both were acts of truth‑telling that transcended career calculation and connected deeply with marginalized or struggling listeners.

  11. 1:22:00 – 1:32:00

    Fan Stories, Emotional Weight, and Connection Among Addicts

    The host cites YouTube comments on “Drug Dealer” from crying recovering heroin users, asking whether such stories feel like a burden. Macklemore says they feel like a gift and a moment of deep peer‑to‑peer connection, reminding him why he wrote such songs and reinforcing the power of honest sharing.

  12. 1:32:00 – 1:39:00

    Social Media, Presence, and the Trap of Metrics

    Turning to social media, Macklemore explains that while it’s part of his job, he resists letting it dominate his personal life, especially with his children. He worries about younger artists obsessed with TikTok analytics and advocates for intentional, limited use to avoid a ‘spiritual sickness’ tied to constant validation‑seeking.

  13. 1:39:00 – 1:47:00

    Advice to 14‑Year‑Old Ben and the Role of Spiritual Practice

    Asked what he’d tell himself before his first drink, Macklemore admits he’d warn that addiction will cause immense pain but also acknowledges those experiences shaped his art and current self. He defines spiritual practice broadly—meditation, yoga, 12‑step work, and above all getting out of his own head by serving others.

  14. 1:47:00 – 1:55:00

    Fallout of Relapse: Hurting Loved Ones and Nearly Losing His Family

    Macklemore explores the relational damage caused by relapse, especially to his wife, whom he admits gaslighting and deceiving. He recounts being kicked out during COVID and driving aimlessly, terrified of losing his marriage and kids, and recognizing that substances had long since stopped ‘working’ for him.

  15. 1:55:00 – 2:01:00

    The Pregnancy Test: Compulsion Versus Responsibility

    In one of the most vulnerable stories, Macklemore recalls praying that his wife’s pregnancy test would be negative so he wouldn’t have to stop using. Hearing her tears confirmed the pregnancy, forcing him to confront the pull between his compulsion to get high and the necessity of becoming a sober father.

  16. 2:01:00 – 2:07:00

    Aiming at Today: Work Ethic, ADD, and Near‑Term Focus

    Discussing life goals, Macklemore admits he struggles to think in 20‑year horizons, focusing instead on the immediate task—like that night’s London show. He attributes this to ADD but notes it’s also fueled his intense studio work ethic, spending 14 hours on songs or videos until they feel right.

  17. 2:07:00 – 2:14:00

    Legacy, Pivots, and Building Something That Outlasts the Music

    Macklemore reflects on his golf clothing brand Bogey Boys and, more meaningfully, his Seattle youth program, The Residency. He’s beginning to think about legacy not in egoic terms but as building structures and opportunities—such as a permanent home for The Residency—that will serve young artists beyond his touring years.

  18. 2:14:00 – 2:20:00

    Redefining Happiness as Meaning and Rejecting Victimhood

    Returning to his father’s old question—‘Are you happy?’—Macklemore now sees happiness as transient and instead pursues meaning and purpose. He’s actively trying to reinterpret hardships not as reasons for victimhood but as opportunities and blessings that can become ‘medicine’ when faced soberly and truthfully.

  19. 2:20:00 – 2:30:00

    ‘Ben’: Creative Freedom, Genre Hopping, and Authentic Confusion

    The conversation turns to his latest album, ‘Ben,’ which he describes as a fully authentic expression unconcerned with genre constraints. He freely moves between styles—from dance to pop to ’90s‑style rap—accepting that such range confuses labels and listeners but insisting it’s all genuinely him.

  20. 2:30:00 – 2:40:00

    Unfinished Conversations: Fathers, Generations, and Emotional Tools

    In the closing segment, Macklemore answers a question left by the previous guest about conversations left unhad. He admits he’d like a deeper emotional dialogue with his father but fears generational gaps in emotional ‘tools,’ reflecting on how different eras processed feelings and masculinity.

  21. 2:40:00

    Closing Appreciation and Impact Beyond Metrics

    The host closes by acknowledging the depth, vulnerability, and life‑changing impact of Macklemore’s music, especially on people in recovery. Macklemore reciprocates the praise, emphasizing the importance of honesty and connection, tying together themes of purpose, service, and authenticity over numbers.

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