The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To Toxic Men,"Have A Boring Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury

ℹ️ EPISODE INFO

Released

October 26, 2023

Duration

1h 48m

Channel

The Diary of a CEO

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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

If you want to hear more dating and relationship advice, I recommend you check out my most recent conversation with Jay Shetty, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cLTUA1lneS0 0:00 Intro 02:10 Why Does Your Work Matter? 05:55 Attachment Theories, which one are you? 11:26 What To Do As An Avoidant Attached person 19:31 How To Find A Secure Partner & Maintain A Healthy Relationship 35:03 The "secretary problem" That Could Save Your Love Life 38:48 What To Do As An Anxious Attached Person 45:02 Why Icks Are Stopping You Finding Love 50:00 3 Dating Tendencies 01:02:02 Why You Need To Skip The Small Talk! 01:09:37 The Number One Way To Find Love 01:18:15 8 Date Questions To Find The One 01:28:06 The Qualities You Should Be Looking For In A Person (backed by science) 01:37:43 How To Get The Perfect Dating Profile 01:44:29 The Last Guest's Question You can find out which of the 3 dating tendencies you are with Logan’s quiz, here: https://bit.ly/491O3lj You can purchase Logan’s book, ‘How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love’, here: https://amzn.to/476uvdV Follow Logan: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3SddZUL Twitter: https://bit.ly/46IWMqV Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGq-a57w-aPwyi3pW7XLiHw/join FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Sponsors: Whoop: https://join.whoop.com/CEO Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb

🎤 SPEAKERS

• Logan Ury

  guest

• Steven Bartlett

  host

🧾 EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Diary of a CEO, featuring Logan Ury and Steven Bartlett, The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To Toxic Men,"Have A Boring Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury explores Why We Crave Toxic Partners And How To Choose Better Behavioral scientist and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury, explains why so many people struggle to find and sustain healthy love despite desperately wanting it. Drawing on attachment theory and relationship research, she unpacks why we chase “spark,” confuse icks with dealbreakers, and get hooked on emotionally unavailable partners. She introduces frameworks like attachment styles, the anxious-avoidant loop, the three dating tendencies, and the “post-date eight” to help people date more intentionally. The conversation emphasizes choosing secure, “boring” partners, fighting well, building vulnerability, and treating dating as a series of conscious decisions rather than a passive search for perfection.

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