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Tony Bellew: Nothing Made Me Happy Until I Found This | E156

Tony Bellew is a professional boxer and a former British, Commonwealth and World Champion. As well as this, he is also an actor, and the star of Creed with Sylvester Stallone, and the author of last year's bestselling book, Everybody Has A Plan Until They Get Punched in the Face. In this raw, honest and emotional interview, Tony breaks down exactly why people dedicate their life to fighting, and how it’s often because they have no other choice. Topics: 00:00 Intro 01:22 What are the most pivotal moments of your childhood? 09:05 Racism & its impact on you 13:48 Your relationship with your father & his prison years 23:06 Street life & lack of role models 30:36 The death of your first trainer & his prediction of your success 37:49 Becoming a world champion 50:49 How much boxers actually make 56:24: Chimp Paradox 01:00:58 Dealing with grief & depression 01:10:53 How to deal with hard moments 01:19:36 Our last guest's question Tony: https://www.instagram.com/tonybellew/?hl=en https://twitter.com/TonyBellew/ Tony’s book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Everybody-Plan-Until-They-Punched/dp/1841884707 Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SteveBartlettSC Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Sponsor: Huel - https://my.huel.com/Steven Craftd - https://bit.ly/3JKOPFx

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Jun 30, 20221h 25mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 2:00 – 24:10

    Growing Up in Wavertree: A Fighter Is Formed

    Bellew explains how his upbringing in Wavertree, Liverpool, with an absent but adored father, a mixed‑race identity, and a gay younger brother in a hostile 1990s environment, shaped his comfort with violence and protective instincts. He describes stepping into the role of man of the house, finding family in friends, and learning to fight without fear.

  2. 24:10 – 35:00

    Crime, Prison, And The Edge Between Two Futures

    Tony recounts his father’s imprisonments and the powerful lesson he learned visiting him, alongside his own expulsion from school and attraction to street life. He makes clear how easily he could have ended up in jail and how boxing became the key alternative.

  3. 35:00 – 48:40

    Chasing Role Models: Fathers, Friends, And The Boxing Gym

    Bellew explores his deep desire to impress his dad, the lack of professional role models in his area, and the emergence of boxing as his path out. He shares how his father taught him to punch, how early kickboxing knockouts lit a fire, and how later he realised his school friends also broke the mould.

  4. 48:40 – 1:10:00

    Jimmy Albertina And The Life-Saving Power of Amateur Boxing

    Tony recalls meeting legendary Rotunda ABC coach Jimmy Albertina, initially being dismissed, then returning and thriving under his brutally high standards. He explains how Jimmy’s belief, tough love, and the culture of the amateur gym saved lives in their community and set him on a championship path.

  5. 1:10:00 – 1:30:00

    From Street Kid to World Champion: Success Without Security

    Bellew charts his rise through three ABA titles, international amateur representation, and eventually professional world champion, while exposing how little money most fighters make. He details fighting with severe injuries, being financially on the edge, and cannibalising his body to chase a dream.

  6. 1:30:00 – 2:00:00

    David Haye, Big Money, And The Myth Of The Millionaire Moment

    Tony explains why he targeted David Haye as both a dangerous opponent and a walking pound sign, and how loyalty to Eddie Hearn led him to turn down a £1.6m rival offer. He finally becomes a multimillionaire after the Haye box‑office receipts land, only to feel unexpectedly empty.

  7. 2:00:00 – 2:20:00

    Ashley’s Death, Hidden Depression, And SAS: Who Dares Wins

    The conversation turns to the sudden death of Bellew’s brother‑in‑law Ashley in Mexico, which he calls the worst moment of his life. He describes leaving his grieving wife to honour the Haye rematch, crying alone every night in camp, and only later recognising on SAS that he was deeply burdened and possibly depressed.

  8. 2:20:00 – 2:30:00

    Walls, Therapy, And The Limits Of Looking Back

    Bellew acknowledges he built a protective wall to survive his early life and admits it’s still there. He remains resistant to therapy and to revisiting his past, arguing he can’t change it, while also learning—through SAS and self‑reflection—that unchecked emotional walls may be costing him.

  9. 2:30:00

    After Boxing: Purpose, Imperfect Happiness, And What Really Matters

    In the final segment, Bellew and Bartlett discuss happiness, purpose, social media illusions, and whether anyone ever feels 'complete'. Tony insists that only his wife and children truly matter, admits normal life bores him, and accepts he’ll probably always be chasing something he can’t quite define.

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