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The #1 Question Parents Ask: Why Won't My Kids Listen?

Parents have lots of different questions for Dr. Becky. How do I help my kid sleep independently? When is the right time to potty train? How do I teach frustration tolerance? But the number one parenting question Dr. Becky gets asked is this: Why won't my kids listen to anything I say? Today on the podcast, Dr. Becky tackles this very popular question. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/40p5x8L Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter Order Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books. For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast To listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategy Read more here: How to Get Kids to Listen Without Yelling or Power Struggles https://www.goodinside.com/blog/how-to-get-kids-to-listen/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=blog_youtube_listening_6-18-25&utm_term=Listening Today’s episode is brought to you by AG1:  As parents, we all wonder: “How can I take care of myself while also caring for my kid?” It’s so easy to lose ourselves—and then we get resentful and reactive. AG1 is a daily supplement powder with minerals, probiotics, antioxidants—all that good stuff that supports your overall health and well-being. For Dr. Becky, a Good inside mom working on being a sturdy leader, AG1 is something else as well; it’s how she ensures she starts her day by remembering herself. To learn more, go to drinkAG1.com/drbecky to check it out. For Good Inside listeners, we added in—with no extra charge—a bottle of Vitamin D3K2 and 5 free AG1 travel packs with your first purchase. Today’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb:  Let's be honest: parenting is expensive, especially around the holidays. And Dr. Becky hears all the time from parents that there are so many things they want to do that just don't fit into their budget, and it can feel kind of powerless. And then, once the holidays are over, they still end up having spent more than they usually do and feel stressed and behind. So now that the holidays are behind us, she wants to share an idea for a way to make some extra income in 2025…Hosting on Airbnb. Being an Airbnb host means that you are providing another family with an amazing experience— because I know you've created your home with a family in mind—and it's a great way to earn some extra money for all the different things you want to do this year. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at Airbnb dot com slash host. Learn more about the upcoming Effective Alternatives to Punishments workshop: https://bit.ly/4g2tKGD

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January 21, 2025
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21m
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Good Inside with Dr. Becky
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Parents have lots of different questions for Dr. Becky. How do I help my kid sleep independently? When is the right time to potty train? How do I teach frustration tolerance? But the number one parenting question Dr. Becky gets asked is this: Why won't my kids listen to anything I say? Today on the podcast, Dr. Becky tackles this very popular question. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/40p5x8L Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter Order Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books. For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast To listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategy Read more here: How to Get Kids to Listen Without Yelling or Power Struggles https://www.goodinside.com/blog/how-to-get-kids-to-listen/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=blog_youtube_listening_6-18-25&utm_term=Listening Today’s episode is brought to you by AG1: As parents, we all wonder: “How can I take care of myself while also caring for my kid?” It’s so easy to lose ourselves—and then we get resentful and reactive. AG1 is a daily supplement powder with minerals, probiotics, antioxidants—all that good stuff that supports your overall health and well-being. For Dr. Becky, a Good inside mom working on being a sturdy leader, AG1 is something else as well; it’s how she ensures she starts her day by remembering herself. To learn more, go to drinkAG1.com/drbecky to check it out. For Good Inside listeners, we added in—with no extra charge—a bottle of Vitamin D3K2 and 5 free AG1 travel packs with your first purchase. Today’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb: Let's be honest: parenting is expensive, especially around the holidays. And Dr. Becky hears all the time from parents that there are so many things they want to do that just don't fit into their budget, and it can feel kind of powerless. And then, once the holidays are over, they still end up having spent more than they usually do and feel stressed and behind. So now that the holidays are behind us, she wants to share an idea for a way to make some extra income in 2025…Hosting on Airbnb. Being an Airbnb host means that you are providing another family with an amazing experience— because I know you've created your home with a family in mind—and it's a great way to earn some extra money for all the different things you want to do this year. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at Airbnb dot com slash host. Learn more about the upcoming Effective Alternatives to Punishments workshop: https://bit.ly/4g2tKGD

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  • Dr. Becky Kennedy

    host

    Clinical psychologist and parenting expert behind the Good Inside framework and podcast.

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Good Inside with Dr. Becky, featuring Dr. Becky Kennedy, The #1 Question Parents Ask: Why Won't My Kids Listen? explores kids “won’t listen” because connection and boundaries aren’t aligned yet “My kid doesn’t listen” is usually an inaccurate diagnosis; the real issue is lack of cooperation in a moment of conflicting agendas.

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