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Jay Shetty PodcastKHLOE KARDASHIAN'S EYE OPENING Speech On How To MANIFEST ABUNDANCE! | Jay Shetty
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Imagining a World That Is 5% Kinder
Jay Shetty recalls Khloé Kardashian's idea of everyone being 5% kinder and asks what's behind it. Khloé describes how heavy the world feels, how negativity ripples outward, and how responding to it with self-awareness rather than ego is itself a form of kindness.
- •The world feels heavy, and she cites escalating mental health issues, bullying and violence
- •People are made of energy, and projected negativity creates a ripple effect
- •Instead of combating negativity, she suggests asking "Why are you hurting?" or simply taking it
- •Small gestures like opening a door or smiling are a universal language
- •She doesn't expect everyone to be surrounded by glitter and unicorns
Small Acts of Kindness and Seeing People as Human
Khloé talks about looking service workers in the eye and thanking them so they don't feel invisible. Jay shares his mistake of ignoring Uber drivers until one persistently greeted him, and both agree on just being human and reading the room.
- •Service workers can be startled when someone looks directly at them
- •No one wants to feel invisible, and a simple thank-you can change someone's day
- •Jay used to get into rideshares on his phone without saying hello
- •A driver who kept asking how he was made him notice
- •Khloé suggests being a room reader and giving short answers if you're tired
Journaling, Posting Positivity and Choosing Empathy
Asked when self-care and self-reflection became a priority, Khloé explains that she has always written and journaled, especially during her divorce. She describes why she stopped posting long captions, why she shares encouragement, and how she responds to online negativity with empathy.
- •Writing is therapeutic and a release, and she journaled heavily during her divorce
- •People twisted her long captions, so she stopped posting them as much
- •She saw how much people crave guidance while admitting she's still figuring things out
- •She uplifts strangers online and thinks online bullies are projecting their own struggles
- •Exposure to negativity has given her more empathy rather than bitterness
Journaling as Therapy and Problems Being Relative
Jay and Khloé discuss reading old journal entries and laughing or crying at them. Khloé pushes back on the idea that money means no problems and says that being kind to yourself and being allowed to critique yourself privately makes journaling healthy.
- •Rereading feelings can make you cry or laugh at what upset you
- •Khloé dislikes being told she has nothing to worry about because of money
- •Problems are problems, and each person has their own life
- •Private journaling lets her criticize herself without feeling judged
- •Laughing at yourself is a form of therapy
Conversational Prayer and a Morning Gratitude Practice
Jay asks about a meaningful journal entry, and Khloé says she often writes without knowing what she'll say, and that her prayers are conversational. She shares her Christian faith, her early-morning gratitude ritual started about four years ago, and talking herself out of a grumpy mood.
- •She prays rather than meditates because her mind wanders
- •Jay describes meditation as a prayer in which he sincerely asks a question
- •She believes everyone should have faith in something because it centers and holds us accountable
- •She wakes early to look at her view and start the day with gratitude
- •The morning practice began about four years ago and has become religious over the past year
Healing After a Breakup and Forgiving for Her Daughter
Asked what she's figuring out now, Khloé talks about motherhood and a breakup eight months ago. She is choosing not to distract herself, forgives Tristan, refuses to play the victim, and wants her daughter True surrounded by love.
- •She hasn't jumped into dating and feels good in her life
- •Her family is good at moving on but doesn't always talk about what happened
- •She forgives Tristan and says holding onto anger would only hurt her
- •She wants to show True that forgiving her dad is okay
- •She keeps her relationship with Tristan separate from his with True, citing her parents and Kourtney and Scott as co-parenting models
Responsible Healing and No Deadline on Pain
Khloé says people are often irresponsible with their feelings, and Jay relates this to unhealed behaviors rooted in past pain and to the inner child. They discuss that nobody can tell someone when to stop hurting, while still balancing that against realism and not staying stuck.
- •Khloé says we're often irresponsible with our feelings, especially adults guiding children
- •Jay found behaviors in himself that reflected past pain and guilt
- •You can talk about hurt and still be healed
- •No one should invalidate or shame another person's feelings or put a deadline on pain
- •The balance is not talking about it forever and not demanding someone get over it today
Fitness, Self-Accountability and Revenge Body
Khloé describes how going to the gym during her divorce began as a mental release and led to physical changes. She and Jay discuss how intentions deepen with consistency, and how her show Revenge Body leads participants from wanting revenge toward self-reflection.
- •Change has to come from within, not from doing it for others
- •She started exercising for her mental health and not to look good in a bikini
- •Jay notes mind, body and soul are interconnected and intentions rise with consistency
- •Revenge Body participants end up wanting compassion and self-worth rather than revenge
- •Giving others the power to make you feel beautiful also gives them the power to make you feel ugly
Non-Negotiables and Working With Family
Khloé names prayer and working out as her daily non-negotiables. She then talks about working with her family every day, their loyalty and lack of competitiveness, and how media often prefers salacious stories to kind ones.
- •Prayer and working out are her core daily practices
- •Everyone should have their own non-negotiables that fuel them
- •Her family always figures out disagreements and doesn't go years without speaking
- •Early interviewers wanted them to fight, which she says shows people prefer the salacious
- •She sees it as important to show their kids family unity
Raising the Standard of Media and Why Some Resist Positivity
Jay argues that influencers can choose to aim higher instead of the lowest common denominator, using a junk food analogy. Khloé says negative commenters often need the message most, that people resist stepping out of their comfort zone, and that many feel they need permission to look within.
- •Jay says if you only offer junk food, people eat junk food, and people are deeper than we assume
- •People with influence can encourage others to aspire higher
- •Khloé says those most quick to condemn are often suffering the most
- •Comfort zones can restrict happiness
- •Many people seem to need permission to look within or want to follow the herd
What Motherhood Has Taught Khloé
Jay asks what she's learned from True and what she's teaching her. Khloé describes a softer patience, renewed energy, her playful inner child, and deeper compassion for her mom, which Jay connects to parents lacking today's information and emotional skills.
- •She says True already shows empathy
- •Being a mother brought a different, softer kind of patience and a surge of energy
- •She stays fit to be an active mom
- •She now understands her mom's mistakes, noting her mom didn't have Google
- •Jay mentions his podcast on emotional skills our parents didn't have
Mutual Appreciation and Closing Thoughts on "I Get To"
Both say they wanted a natural conversation rather than promotion. Khloé explains that her show is only one layer of her and thanks Jay for the space, they encourage each other's work, and she suggests swapping "I have to" for "I get to" and keeping kindness small.
- •Neither wanted the conversation to feel contrived or promotional
- •Khloé says a natural dialogue makes it easier to share how she feels
- •She recalls first finding Jay through a YouTube video and says he made her feel okay sharing more
- •Jay quotes Martin Luther King on those who love peace organizing themselves, and calls for real healing work
- •Khloé says she isn't happy all the time and suggests changing "I have to" to "I get to"
