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Joe Rogan Experience #1716 - Steven Rinella

Steven Rinella is an outdoorsman, writer, and host of the television series "MeatEater" and its companion podcast. His new audiobook, "MeatEater’s Campfire Stories: Close Calls," is available now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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  1. 0:002:03

    Childhood tobacco disasters & early reading influences

    1. NA

      (drumming music) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out.

    2. The Joe Rogan Experience.

    3. JR

      Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night, all day. (rock music) You ate meat tobacco growing up?

    4. SR

      Oh.

    5. JR

      Tell me about this.

    6. SR

      Well, I was- I was telling this story the other day.

    7. JR

      (laughs)

    8. SR

      Um, when I was in-

    9. JR

      You swallowed it?

    10. SR

      I was just telling this story, 'cause we- we- we had a toba-, we had some, bunch of the guys I work with, uh, and then this other dude, Jared Outlaw, who are all big dip guys. We were having a conversation about dip, and-

    11. JR

      Is Jared the f- the flip-flop fleshers?

    12. SR

      No, no, no.

    13. JR

      No, that's Seth.

    14. SR

      No, that's a guy named Seth. All of, a lot of the guys I used to work with, or not, a lot of the guys I work with did, uh, and do, you know, they're horrible tobacco addicts.

    15. JR

      Dippers.

    16. SR

      Dip.

    17. JR

      Yeah.

    18. SR

      'Cause they're all workers, so they, they don't smoke 'cause it keeps their hands free. Um, but I was explaining to them my aversion, and I, and I feel like it traces to when I was in fifth grade, we had to make agricultural maps of the United States of America. And you had to glue the pro-, you know, like the products, so like you get to South Dakota and you glue like a little corn kernel.

    19. JR

      Right, I remember those.

    20. SR

      Yeah, put some wheat, you know?

    21. JR

      Yeah.

    22. SR

      Uh, and for whatever reason, like Vir- for Virginia, we had tobacco and someone had brought in, I can't even remember what it was, like must've been loose leaf or plug. And, uh, me and my buddy, uh, I don't even know if he, if this dude remembers. But me and my buddy Stanley Johnson, um, ate, we took it out in the playground and ate some.

    23. JR

      (laughs)

    24. SR

      And I, dude, I was, I was, I hallucinated twice as a child.

    25. JR

      (laughs)

    26. SR

      Once on, uh, once when I had to get a root canal, um, and once when we ate that tobacco. I mean, I was, I was no- I was hallucinating.

    27. JR

      What were you seeing?

    28. SR

      I can't even remember. My mom had to come get me.

    29. JR

      (laughs)

    30. SR

      She had to come fetch me from school.

  2. 2:036:08

    Mark Twain’s name: riverboat depth calls, tabs, and a stolen pen name

    1. JR

      When I was in, I guess it was, uh, seventh grade, sixth or seventh grade, I really got into Tom Sawyer.

    2. SR

      Oh.

    3. JR

      Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn.

    4. SR

      Yeah.

    5. JR

      I read all those books. And, uh, they were always chewing tobacco, so I bought some.

    6. SR

      (laughs)

    7. JR

      And, uh, I tried it and I got very sick. Just like drool pouring out of my mouth. You know, like you get that (gagging) that drooly-

    8. SR

      Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. (laughs)

    9. JR

      Yeah. That, that set me off from chewing tobacco.

    10. SR

      I didn't know you, so you were a Mark Twain fan?

    11. JR

      Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah.

    12. SR

      Do you, have you had your kids read Mark Twain?

    13. JR

      Um, no I haven't. No, no. I would though.

    14. SR

      It's a conversation starter.

    15. JR

      Yeah. It certainly is. Yeah, I mean when you, when you find out about... I mean, I don't know how into history they are, but when you just get into the, just the, the history of people.

    16. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    17. JR

      And, and the history of people in, in the United States, and the, those, those books are fascinating books in that regard. You know, Mark Twain is like widely regarded as the first standup comedian.

    18. SR

      Oh, I'd buy that.

    19. JR

      Yeah, because he used to read his books that were humorous in front of people.

    20. SR

      Oh. Yeah.

    21. JR

      And, and people think that that kind of started out the idea of standup comedy.

    22. SR

      Yeah, and he was quick-witted too.

    23. JR

      Yeah.

    24. SR

      That's good. Uh...

    25. JR

      And then there's the name Mark Twain, which I learned from you what it meant.

    26. SR

      Yeah, we covered this all the time.

    27. JR

      Yeah.

    28. SR

      It's, uh... Shall I share?

    29. JR

      Yeah, sure. Share for-

    30. SR

      So, well, th- recently there's been some controversy introduced into this, but Mark Twain was, had, had worked as a riverboat pilot on the Mississippi, um, so he had a very informed perspective for all of his characters. Uh, a riverboat required 12 feet of water, you know the big paddle wheel riverboats? Required 12 feet of water for safe passage. So, there would be a guy up on the front of the boat who'd have a rope with a weight on the end, and every fathom, a fathom is a nautical term for six feet, he'd have a knot tied in the rope every fathom. And he'd throw the weight out, the weight hits the bottom, and you see how deep the water is. So Mark Twain is second mark.

  3. 6:089:19

    Joe’s close-up mountain lion encounter and why predator management matters

    1. JR

      Interesting.Interesting. So, I wanted to tell you, I had a legitimate real-life mountain lion encounter.

    2. SR

      Oh.

    3. JR

      A big one, a huge one. I saw a real huge mountain lion up close. It was about 30 yards away. We were in a truck, and we were driving. It was right by a creek.

    4. SR

      Uh-huh.

    5. JR

      And on the other side of the creek, there was a tree, and underneath that tree was a fucking giant cat.

    6. SR

      Really?

    7. JR

      Yeah. The guy I was with, my friend Colton, he saw it first. He ju- he- he goes, "Holy shit, look at that cat! Look at the size of that mountain lion!"

    8. SR

      Huh.

    9. JR

      We stopped the truck, and I see the li- the eyes glowing, 'cause it's about, um, 7:00 PM. It's just starting to get dark. And I get the binos out, and I- I got him, like, close up, big old pumpkin head, giant paws, terrifying-

    10. SR

      Was he staring at you?

    11. JR

      ... staring at us. Well, just staring at the truck.

    12. SR

      Yeah.

    13. JR

      You know? Well, he knew that there was things inside the truck, I'm sure moving, but enormous.

    14. SR

      That's cool.

    15. JR

      Enor- 'cause I told you I'd seen one before, but it was small.

    16. SR

      Yeah.

    17. JR

      The one I'd seen before was, like, 60, 70 pounds or, like, a s- dog sized. This thing was fucking giant.

    18. SR

      That's great.

    19. JR

      Giant. It was terrifying.

    20. SR

      Th- uh, see, if you've had two sightings, that's a l- that's a lot.

    21. JR

      So, that-

    22. SR

      They're few and far between, man.

    23. JR

      Yeah. This was the first time I saw one clearly. Like, not moving, stationary, looking right at us. The whole encounter lasted 30 seconds. It was like a real view of one. Like, holy shit, it was so big, man.

    24. SR

      That's good.

    25. JR

      It had enormous forearms. That was the crazy... I was looking at its arms. It's standing there, like, big-ass paws, and this giant fucking head. Hoo, all I was thinking is, like, if I wasn't in this truck, if I was out on the road, if I was out walking, and I saw that thing from that close...

    26. SR

      (laughs) It'd scare the shit out of you.

    27. JR

      Oh, my God.

    28. SR

      (laughs)

    29. JR

      Oh, my God. In Utah, you can get a tag for them over the counter, spot and stalked, for 50 bucks.

    30. SR

      Yeah?

  4. 9:1913:37

    Tracking lions on foot + predator callers: tactics and ethics

    1. SR

      They had a hound season, but you can still just get a tag. I- I- I was communicating with a guy who was developing a, a mountain lion hunting strategy that's pretty ingenious. He goes out the same way... He goes out the same way a hound hunter would go out when there's a fresh snow. He'll go out and drive roads, drive logging roads, whatever, and cut a track. But instead of setting his dogs out on the track, he'll just start tracking the lion.

    2. JR

      Just walking?

    3. SR

      Yup. And every time he gets to, like, a good piece of bedding cover, like a clear- like, a grown-up clear-cut or a canyon, he gets to a good piece of bedding cover, he stops and turns his predator caller on-

    4. JR

      Oh, Jesus.

    5. SR

      ... and calls. And he was c- he was let- he was writing us in, saying how he's been trying it. I'm like, "That's a pretty genius idea, really."

    6. JR

      Wait, explain to people what a predator caller is.

    7. SR

      Oh, so you can... A, a predator caller is a pretty broad term. It just, it just... You can do a, a mouth-blown predator call, which mimics the sound, typically, of a dying animal. Um, so, so the most... If you just went into a sporting goods store and walked up to a shelf and bought a mouth-blown predator call, it would probably mimic the sound of a dying rabbit. You can get, like, jackrabbit, cottontail rabbit. And it's- it's just a horrific sound. It's like... (imitates predator caller) You know? Um, then they have electronic callers that have these massive libraries. So, I have an electronic caller. I think my... I have a Lucky Duck electronic caller, and it's got a library of dozens and dozens of sounds. So, it's like, you can have it play, um, woodpeckers in distress.

    8. JR

      Really?

    9. SR

      I mean, anything imaginable. Oh, yeah. It's like, house cat noises-

    10. JR

      Oh, wow.

    11. SR

      ... which is attractive to urban coyotes. You can play with a vast-

    12. JR

      Oh, wow.

    13. SR

      ... yeah, a vast library of sounds. Um, so he would go and turn a predator caller on, and a lot of times, um, like fawn distress calls. Um, it's just, like, loud, excitable noises that are attractive to predators. Um, and eventually he wrote in that he, he said he sat down, turned his caller on, and... You know, I- I actually say turned his caller on. I don't know if he was using an electronic, like a battery-powered caller or a mouth-blown caller. But either way, he said, you know, within a minute, "There's the lion." And he got him.

    14. JR

      Did you see the guy who was, uh, trying to scare a mountain lion off? He's telling him, "Get the fuck out of here. Fuck you." And he's got a Glock pointed at it, and then he shoots it?

    15. SR

      Uh-uh.

    16. JR

      He didn't say that?

    17. SR

      No.

    18. JR

      Oh. I gotta show you this.

    19. SR

      Nor did I see something just floating around-

    20. JR

      This one's close.

    21. SR

      ... of a dude with a machete killing one off his dog.

    22. JR

      Oh, my God. I haven't seen that one. But the-

    23. SR

      Well, we were gonna publish it. We were gonna publish it on our website 'cause it hadn't been widely distributed.

    24. JR

      Is it brutal?

    25. SR

      I guess it's just too much.

    26. JR

      Yeah.

    27. SR

      I never saw it. I was away. I just came back and heard that we had decided not to do it because it's just, like, ex- yeah, it's...

    28. JR

      And you didn't immediately watch it?

    29. SR

      I still haven't gotten around to watching it.

    30. JR

      Wow.Your willpower is better than mine. (laughs)

  5. 13:3725:27

    Turkey hunting surprises: lions, coyotes, bears—and why it’s so intense

    1. SR

      Giannis had several of them come into his turkey call this year.

    2. JR

      Ooh.

    3. SR

      Yeah, had a three-pack come in.

    4. JR

      Jesus.

    5. SR

      A female, two, uh, of her kits came into the turkey call.

    6. JR

      What did he do?

    7. SR

      I don't know what he did. He didn't freak out. He kind of sh-... I think he shooed 'em off or started talking to 'em.

    8. JR

      Oh, Jesus.

    9. SR

      Yeah. 'Cause he was calling to a turkey, and the, the lions were kind of coming from behind, off to their, his right side. And he was, he's not certain whether they were gonna pass by his right shoulder on the way to the real turkey, or if they were going to him.

    10. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    11. SR

      What else is funny that ha- just happened to him this spring, he shoots... He has this on video. He shoots a turkey. Well, he has the lions on video too. They're on his, ins- he's got 'em on his Instagram. But he shoots a turkey, and all of a sudden... I mean, no sooner does that turkey get hit, the att-... A coyote has it and is running away trying to grab it.

    12. JR

      Wow.

    13. SR

      Or sh- soon as they run away, trying to, like, wrastle the turkey.

    14. JR

      So did you shoot the coyote?

    15. SR

      No. But he's just standing there, and the coyote was c-... 'Cause, you know, they'll come in to the turkey sounds. So, shoots the turkey, the coyote comes out, and then the coyote doesn't run off until he kind of goes at it to spook it. But it stayed right there, like, while he shot the turkey.

    16. JR

      They are so fucking bold, those things.

    17. SR

      Yeah. I-

    18. JR

      They're so clever too.

    19. SR

      They come in, um... One of my buddies, Seth, I think they called in three coyotes turkey hunting in one day this spring.

    20. JR

      Wow.

    21. SR

      I've had, I've had bear, black bears, bobcats, uh, sorry, black, a black, a black bear, a bobcat, many coyotes come in to turkey calls. But I have never had the lion thing. But I got a few friends that have done lions, and I feel that that is like the greatest. That's a good achievement.

    22. JR

      Did you... Were you the one who told me the story about turkey hunting where you s- you heard something behind you and it was a bear?

    23. SR

      Yeah.

    24. JR

      Was that you?

    25. SR

      Yeah.

    26. JR

      Okay.

    27. SR

      I heard it exhale. I didn't know it was there until it exhaled in my ear.

    28. JR

      How far away?

    29. SR

      I mean-

    30. JR

      Inches.

  6. 25:2734:07

    Blaze orange, hunting accidents, and the psychology of mistaken-identity shootings

    1. SR

      Uh, to return to hunter's orange.

    2. JR

      Yeah.

    3. SR

      You had a question about hunter's orange, about being color-blind?

    4. JR

      Yeah.

    5. SR

      I don't know, but, um, um, the- the white tail hunter-

    6. JR

      Oh, here it is. Can deer see an orange? Well, that's deer. Oh.

    7. SR

      Yeah, well, he-

    8. JR

      Yeah.

    9. SR

      Listen, here, uh, here, here's the thing. God- god bless you, Jamie. But, um, uh, a lot's been written about what deer see. It, it's just, it's just speculation, you know, what they-

    10. JR

      Because their eyeballs function very differently?

    11. SR

      Yeah, it's just different, and so how, what they see and how they respond to it. But, uh, for interestingly, um, Mark Kenyon, who's a very avid white tail hunter, uh, he can't blood trail.

    12. JR

      'Cause he can't see blood?

    13. SR

      Yeah, 'cause of color-blind issues.

    14. JR

      Oh, wow.

    15. SR

      You know?

    16. JR

      That's crazy. What if he has, like, what if he uses, like, a black light?

    17. SR

      I'm not gonna mess him up, maybe it's his dad? No, I think it is him that can't... Yeah, his, he got, no, he's gotta use various tricks or bring someone in. But he can't, like, clearly pick up blood.

    18. JR

      Huh.

    19. SR

      And as, and, uh, and blood trailing for me, now that my eyeballs are going bad short range, um-

    20. JR

      Do you use glasses?

    21. SR

      Reading glasses.

    22. JR

      But when you blood trail?

    23. SR

      I hadn't thought of it.

    24. JR

      Why not?

    25. SR

      I just, 'cause it gets, it, it, my, my eyes get worse every day now. Like-

    26. JR

      Wow.

    27. SR

      ... not every day, but I mean, it's like, it's, it's noticeable.

    28. JR

      Do you take any-

    29. SR

      So with this year at blood trailing, I was get- I, I, I had a younger person with me, the Flip-Flop Flasher, Seth. And he was spotting 10 drops to my one, and I realized, it's like I'm used to looking for blood up close too much.

    30. JR

      Hm, you gotta back up?

  7. 34:0737:35

    COVID antibodies in wild deer and spillover pathways

    1. SR

      Is the COVID in deer.

    2. JR

      Yeah, that deer are testing positive for COVID.

    3. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    4. JR

      And they don't really understand why, right?

    5. SR

      Yeah.

    6. JR

      Isn't that correct?

    7. SR

      No. And, and, they... I mean, they've done hundreds of deer in multiple states, and I think M- I think it was Michigan had the highest, like 68% of the deer they checked, and they checked a lot, you know, over 100 of them.

    8. JR

      Isn't that incredible? Because that's more than any population of humans.

    9. SR

      Yeah.

    10. JR

      Like at, at any point in time, what's the population of humans that test positive for COVID? I mean, it can't be more than a few percent.

    11. SR

      Just how they're testing, they're, they're, they're positive for the antibodies.

    12. JR

      No, I mean... Oh, positive for the antibodies.

    13. SR

      Yeah.

    14. JR

      Oh, but not positive for COVID.

    15. SR

      Not positive.

    16. JR

      Oh.

    17. SR

      And they don't know that it has any... They don't know that it has any effect on them.

    18. JR

      Huh.

    19. SR

      So when I first heard that, I dr- I, I, uh, a narra, uh, biologist, a wildlife biologist in Arizona named James Hefflefinger sent me some information about that. When I first heard it, I was like, "Yeah man, but maybe the, maybe, you know, maybe it's something that was always there but you weren't looking for it, or it was a false marker," and he wrote back with a bunch of information on it, and they had all these serums that they've banked from over the years.

    20. JR

      Serums meaning like blood samples?

    21. SR

      Yeah. They have, they have reserv- like, banked blood samples from deer, probably just for this sort of thing, right?

    22. JR

      Right.

    23. SR

      And when they go back, pre-COVID, and look at all these deer samples, it's not there.

    24. JR

      Wow.

    25. SR

      And now it's there.

    26. JR

      That's so fascinating.

    27. SR

      We're laughing that it all comes... W- I, I was joking that it, that uh, uh, it's either like a really good hunter who gets very close to deer, um, that's one theory, probably not right.

    28. JR

      (laughs)

    29. SR

      I had a theory that it comes from Doug Duran's urine.

    30. JR

      (laughs)

  8. 37:3542:03

    Quarantining with kids and dogs + school rules that don’t match reality

    1. JR

      They've caught tigers in the zoo. My, uh, whole family got COVID, and, uh, I was, I was curious to see how my dog would react, like whether he would get it. 'Cause you know, I didn't, like, shy away from him. Like, a lot of times I watch TV and he, like, on the couch, and he likes to j- hop up on the couch and cuddle.

    2. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    3. JR

      So, like, while I was home all day sick with COVID, he just hopped up with me a- and hung out with me. So I'm like, "Should I be fucking petting him like this?" Like-

    4. SR

      Oh, yeah.

    5. JR

      ... I'm like, "He seems all right."

    6. SR

      We- we had that argument where, when I had COVID, I was out in our guest house quarantining. Um, I was got- I was gone when I got it and got home. And before I went in to see my family, I just went into this... We have a little guest house, I went out there and, and eventually got my test back and had COVID. And I let the dog in.

    7. JR

      Oh, and then into the house too.

    8. SR

      (laughs) And then, and then, and then my, then we had to, like, do all the... My wife's like, "I don't know what happens now," like, w- is the dog supposed to quarantine? (laughs)

    9. JR

      I think the dog should quarantine, probably.

    10. SR

      We di- we didn't quarantine the dog.

    11. JR

      My... I was the last one of my family to get it, so I wasn't worried about them getting it, 'cause they already had antibodies.

    12. SR

      Yeah.

    13. JR

      But I'm like, "What about the dog?" But I'm like, "I think he's probably already had it." I mean, I don't wanna test him, 'cause I don't put him through a fucking, a blood test, you know?

    14. SR

      Yeah. No, it's funny about, it's funny about dogs. Th- the weirdest thing about quarantining with it... At first, man, my kids were upset. They're crying, you know, like very confused.

    15. JR

      Oh, 'cause you can't come in the house?

    16. SR

      Oh yeah, I'm out in the garage, and they're like, "No, no, no, no," you know?

    17. JR

      Oh, wow.

    18. SR

      'Cause then y- you know, "If you come up to me, then you're not supposed to go to school." And like-

    19. JR

      Right, right.

    20. SR

      ... I'm gonna go out there, and they're, like, upset and they're bringing, they're making artwork for me and bringing me food.

    21. JR

      Aw.

    22. SR

      (laughs) And after a few days, they're just like, "The fuck's that guy?" (laughs)

    23. JR

      (laughs) They got used to it.

    24. SR

      They just, they just, it was like I ceased to exist after a few days. (laughs)

    25. JR

      Wow, kids adapt. That's funny. That's funny.

    26. SR

      Oh yeah, man. It was like they forgot all about me when I was out there. I was out there, you know, uh, taking a few, taking naps and stuff like that.

    27. JR

      It is interesting about the zoo animals, because-

    28. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    29. JR

      ... the zoo animals may be close proximity, but all of it outside. And then also, no real, like, physical contact with zoo animals.

    30. SR

      Mm-mm.

  9. 42:0353:42

    Social media’s incentive structures: anxiety, algorithms, and kid safety online

    1. JR

      Oh my God. You know, I wonder how much, like, if you could get a gauge of the overall anxiety of the world, how much it decreased yesterday when Facebook was down?

    2. SR

      Mm.

    3. JR

      You know, if there was like a, like a... You know how you go by those trails and it has like, "Here's your fire warning for the day."

    4. SR

      (laughs) Yeah. You see the green? (laughs)

    5. JR

      You know, and it has like all these different colors? (laughs) If there was like an anxiety meter and you could go by and see like, what was it like with no Facebook? I bet that sh- and Instagram, both. You know, I bet that shit would be pretty light.

    6. SR

      Yeah.

    7. JR

      Twitter's still up, which is probably like 50% of the anxiety is Twitter, but 50% of it might be Facebook.

    8. SR

      It might, yeah. It's probably good. And it's funny that, that-

    9. JR

      All social media anxiety.

    10. SR

      Um, you know, I use, I use social media as a, as a... You know, I use it for work and, and, and have fun with it. But-Yeah. It- it ba- it blows my mind that for a long time, it would be that you were supposed to regard, um, those individuals responsible for social media platforms, we were supposed to regard 'em as these heroes. It's like, "Oh, the Arab Spring!" You know what I mean?

    11. JR

      Oh, right.

    12. SR

      And it was like, you know, "Bringing the world," you know, "together."

    13. JR

      Yeah.

    14. SR

      It's like, holy shit, dude.

    15. JR

      Well, the algorithms. What changed is algorithms, you know?

    16. SR

      Oh.

    17. JR

      If you watched the, uh, the, uh, Social Dilemma, the- the documentary, The Social Dilemma?

    18. SR

      Oh, yeah. Yeah.

    19. JR

      Yeah, that guy, uh, Tristan Harris has been on the podcast and sort of explained a lot of it to us. And, you know, he- he's gonna come back on again and we're gonna talk to him some more about it, because it's, uh, it's very disturbing. 'Cause that, what they've done with- with these algorithms, and they knew what was happening while they were doing it, is they've accentuated arguments. They accentuated all the division between people, and that it's kind of like an unstoppable domino effect. And there's n- it seems like at this point in time, it's, there's a clear division in our country that didn't exist in 2007. If you go back to the invention of the first iPhone, and the inv- you know, when social media started coming about, like if you go from there to- to now, the change is palpable. Like it's-

    20. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    21. JR

      ... it's very, very real. And then when you add in the anxiety of a pandemic and real adversity, which- which is what people have encountered over the last 18 months, now it's through the roof.

    22. SR

      Yeah.

    23. JR

      Now- now people are like literally fucking insane. It's like you, they're unrecognizable.

    24. SR

      I hear that, but you know, I know YouTube's not a social media platform, but I was, I had, uh, a rare, you know, moment of just nothing going on this morning 'cause I woke up in the hotel and I wasn't like at work or messing with my kids, and so I was just dicking around on YouTube. And I was kind of pleasantly surprised to be like that, uh, YouTube understands that I like to watch Norm MacDonald videos.

    25. JR

      (laughs)

    26. SR

      And I like to watch stuff about catching bobcats.

    27. JR

      (laughs)

    28. SR

      (laughs)

    29. JR

      Yeah, that's true.

    30. SR

      And it's like-

  10. 53:421:27:03

    Raising ‘outdoor kids’ and calibrating risk: freedom vs protection

    1. JR

      I d- I just, I haven't, it's not, won't be available till spring, but, um, for the last couple years I've been working on uh, a book. Uh, you know, like, this is the thing I'd thought I'd never do, I used to be annoyed by people who thought about their kids before I had kids, but I have a book that I just finished called Outdoor Kids, Inside World, and it's about, you know, kids in nature, raising kids. And yeah, man, if you'd have asked me, dude, like 10 years ago, I would've been like, "No way I would do something like that." But it's just harrowing, man. It's like scary. What is scary?

    2. SR

      Having kids.

    3. JR

      Oh. Okay. Yeah. Yeah, worried about them and-

    4. SR

      Just like what the-

    5. JR

      ... the danger and-

    6. SR

      Yeah, yeah.

    7. JR

      Yeah.

    8. SR

      And like trying to guide their-

    9. JR

      Yeah.

    10. SR

      ... guide their experience, you know. And for me, I don't know, yeah, I've, I've found that, um, that, that ex- you know, exposure to nature, experiences in nature, understanding nature is like winds up being an avenue of approach that I have with them that works for both of us.

    11. JR

      Hm.

    12. SR

      'Cause like a common language, you know?

    13. JR

      Yeah.

    14. SR

      But yeah, man, it's, it's, it's, it's terrifying. And then the, and then the, the feeling of hypoc- the hypocrisy that you get of things that meant a l- that, when you were young, things that meant a lot to you and felt very authentic to you, like freedom-... freedom to consume what media you wanted, freedom to talk to who you wanted to talk to, freedom to go where you wanted to go. Um, that later, you're in a position where you're, um, denying, denying someone something that you really wanted in an honest way when you were young.

    15. JR

      Yeah. Um, I had a conversation with Jonathan-

    16. SR

      It's a qua- it's a push and pull, man.

    17. JR

      ... Jonathan Haidt about that. You know? Where he talks about the, the concept of free-range kids.

    18. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    19. JR

      About, he lets his children wander... It was Jonathan Haidt, right? Was, right? The Coddling of the American Mind.

    20. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    21. JR

      Um, he lets his kids wander around New York City. Like, he lets his kids walk home from New York City.

    22. SR

      Yeah.

    23. JR

      And, you know, he's talking about one time, his, uh, his kid got a little lost, and they were really, really scared. You know? It was like, they were trying to find him, and it's like a terrifying feeling. But that ultimately, the development that the child receives from being able to navigate the world on their own is very valuable, but there's a risk. And so you, like, have to weigh this risk versus reward. And the opposite of that is people who helic- helicopter parent, and we know how that turns out, right? That's not good. When you overly coddle your kid and your, your, your kid is not exposed to any sort of adversity or any sort of danger or any sort of adventure or any sort of, uh, independence, that it, it can be stifling.

    24. SR

      Mm-hmm.

    25. JR

      And then it takes a long time for the child to develop outside of that parental environment once they become free. There, like there's different kinds of kids, right? There's kids that grow up in bad neighborhoods with very little parental guidance, and they're 18, and then there's kids who grow up completely coddled and completely protected and insulated, and they're 18, and then they run into each other. T- totally different life experiences.

    26. SR

      Yeah.

    27. JR

      You know? And I was the former, you know? I was the kid that didn't have a lot of guidance when I was a kid, and I was a kind of a lock key, a latchkey kid who was let out.

    28. SR

      (laughs) That's, I'm glad you just used that word.

    29. JR

      Yeah, it's a common word, right? Common phrase?

    30. SR

      Well, apparently it's not.

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