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Joe Rogan Experience #1765 - Philip Frankland Lee

Phillip Frankland Lee is a restaurateur and chef. He is also the co-owner, along with his wife Margarita Kallas-Lee, of Scratch Restaurants Group: the entity behind several popular Los Angeles and Austin restaurants.

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Jun 27, 20242h 42mWatch on YouTube ↗

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  1. 0:002:18

    Fish preferences, spicy tolerance, and why tastes differ

    1. PL

      (drumming music) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out.

    2. NA

      The Joe Rogan Experience. (rock music)

    3. JR

      Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night, all day. So, Phillip, my friend Phillip here, who's the head chef of the greatest sushi place on planet Earth.

    4. JV

      Yeah.

    5. JR

      I say to young Jamie, "Young Jamie, have you had sushi at Sushi Bar ATX yet?" And he goes, "I don't like fish."

    6. JV

      Yep. (laughs)

    7. PL

      (laughs)

    8. JR

      Put that mic in front of your face.

    9. JV

      What's wrong with that?

    10. JR

      What is ... What, what could you not like about fish?

    11. JV

      Um, well, I've ... Like, I've eaten it. I'm not, like, afraid to try it all the time. I've worked at restaurants and, you know, they've made really great halibut and-

    12. JR

      Okay, what about filet-o-fish sandwiches from McDonald's?

    13. JV

      Oh, no, that's not ...

    14. JR

      How ... What the fuck? Those are goddamn delicious.

    15. JV

      It's like a smell and taste to it that just ...

    16. PL

      I mean, have you, have you tried fish ... I mean, obviously, you know, a filet-o-fish sandwich is not gonna be, you know, $100 pound toro. Um-

    17. JR

      But it's still delicious. Filet-o-fish is like the best thing McDonald's ever figured out.

    18. JV

      I ... No.

    19. PL

      (laughs)

    20. JR

      Listen ... Yes. Listen, I know it's terrible for you. Like, every time I eat one, my ... I'm, I'm ... There's like the brain is saying to the mouth, "What the fuck is wrong with you?" And then the body's like, "Dude ..." But the mouth's like, "Shut up, bitch." And I'm having-

    21. JV

      I don't know, man. I'm steak and potatoes from Ohio. Like, it's just ... That's, you know?

    22. JR

      I enjoy steak and potatoes as well though.

    23. JV

      I just ... It's, uh, uh, I don't know.

    24. PL

      (laughs)

    25. JR

      Some people just-

    26. JV

      It's hard to say.

    27. JR

      I always wonder if people just have ... Like, if their tongue works different. Like, uh, I have two, my youngest daught-... You've met my kids, right?

    28. PL

      Yeah.

    29. JR

      My youngest loves spicy food. I mean, she can fuck with some really spicy hot sauce. Like, uh, I got this, uh, Señor Lechuga, uh, uh, hot sauce. They sent me a bunch of it. It's awesome stuff. And they sent me some with, uh, Reapers.

    30. PL

      (laughs)

  2. 2:184:03

    Caffeine aversion, Red Bull lore, and energy drink chemistry jokes

    1. PL

      Yeah, I mean, everyone's a little bit different with the way that they're ... You know, like, coffee, I hate coffee.

    2. JR

      That's so odd to me.

    3. PL

      I think the flavor is disgusting. And I ... It's, it's ... You know, I've definitely had that conversation w- with people before, and they're like, "Well, you haven't tried the right coffee."

    4. JR

      Right.

    5. PL

      And I've tried everybody's who suggested that. I just think it tastes disgusting. It tastes burnt.

    6. JR

      Do you not like caffeine, or do you not like-

    7. PL

      Well, I don't do caffeine.

    8. JR

      None?

    9. PL

      My body doesn't, doesn't work well with it.

    10. JR

      What happens when you have caffeine?

    11. PL

      I just get shaky.

    12. JR

      Oh, really?

    13. PL

      I, I think I kinda OD'd on, uh, on Red Bulls when I was younger.

    14. JR

      (laughs)

    15. PL

      I used to drink, like, four, five a day, and then one day, I just ... Just didn't work anymore.

    16. JR

      Did you see that, uh, refrigerator that we have out in the hallway that's a Black Rifle Coffee refrigerator?

    17. PL

      Yeah.

    18. JR

      They have these cans of Black Rifle Coffee. It's like a, a cold ... It's like espresso with milk and sugar. It's so fucking good. They're so delicious. But there's 300 milligrams of caffeine-

    19. PL

      Yeah, it could probably kill me.

    20. JR

      ... in every can.

    21. PL

      (laughs)

    22. JR

      (laughs) I mean, what is a Red Bull? A Red Bull's like, I'mma guess, 150? Is a Red Bull ... Let's guess. How many, how many milligrams?

    23. PL

      Not even a ... No idea.

    24. JR

      I don't know.

    25. PL

      Too many.

    26. JR

      What is it?

    27. JV

      A 12 ounce can, it says 111.

    28. JR

      Okay, that ain't shit.

    29. JV

      It's got that taurine. I'm just kidding.

    30. PL

      (laughs)

  3. 4:035:40

    Rare Japanese whiskey tasting: Yamazaki Sherry Cask as a ‘holy grail’ bottle

    1. JR

      I have no idea. I have no reference point. But here's the thing. Um, you gave me this. Thank you very much.

    2. PL

      Absolutely.

    3. JR

      This is, uh, it says the Yamazaki single malt Japanese whiskey, and you said that this is, uh, a-

    4. PL

      So, yeah. So, the Yamazaki sherry cask, uh, 2016, this bottle won, I can't remember which, you know, whiskey world awards or whatever, but it did win gold. Um, and so this became, like ... I don't wanna call it the Holy Grail, but it became one of the most sought after bottles of whiskey in modern times.

    5. JR

      Mm.

    6. PL

      And, uh, mainly not just because of how, the fact that it won gold, but they only made enough to produce 5,000 bottles. And so the bottles have been gone for quite some time.

    7. JR

      Listen to this. Here we go. Oh, that smells good. I have a buddy, my buddy Alex. Shout out to Alex. He's, uh, he's really into, like, really nice Japanese whiskey.

    8. PL

      He'll get a g-

    9. JR

      Here you go.

    10. PL

      He- he'll, he'll ... He knows this.

    11. JR

      Give me that glass, son. Come on.

    12. PL

      Give me just, just a, just a touch.

    13. JR

      We need to share it. Just a touch.

    14. PL

      'Cause that, that bottle's gotta last. There's not many left.

    15. JR

      Come on. Nothing lasts.

    16. PL

      (laughs)

    17. JR

      What, are you gonna live forever? Cheers, my friend.

    18. PL

      Cheers.

    19. JR

      Oh, wow, that's interesting. That-

    20. PL

      It's almost, like, ethereal. It's like ...

    21. JR

      God, that's unique.

    22. PL

      Mm-hmm.

    23. JR

      That is very unique. That's a, um, surprising taste, because it is whiskey-like.

    24. PL

      Mm-hmm.

    25. JR

      But it's very different than any other whiskey I've ever tried.

    26. PL

      It's also like ... Feel now, it's almost like tingling, like, all around your palate.

  4. 5:4010:08

    Two Michelin stars reveal: the Zoom call surprise and what stars mean

    1. JR

      Hmm. So, when did you know that you wanted to be a chef? Like, how long have you been, like, really into cooking? 'Cause you're a young guy. By the way, congratulations on the Michelin stars.

    2. PL

      Thank you.

    3. JR

      That's a-

    4. PL

      Thank you.

    5. JR

      That's giant, right? In the world of chefs, that's, that's the fucking thing, right?

    6. PL

      Yeah, um, I'd- I mean, I dedicated the last ...... probably 15 years of my life just to trying to get a Michelin star and, uh, when I found out this year, uh, they had me on a, on a Zoom call. They kind of, they kind of lied to me. They kind of, uh, what they did is they said, uh, "We wanna..." They said, first of all they said, "You're not gonna, you're not getting a star this year, just so you know. But we wanna have, uh, send someone to the restaurant in Los Angeles and, um, we have some interview questions we wanna ask you about, uh, you know, how it was to operate during COVID." And I said, "Well, I'm in Austin, but I, I can fly back." And they're like, "No, no big deal, don't fly back. Just, just Zoom in." So I zoom in and they have my wife, uh, who's our pastry chef and my business partner, um, she's at the restaurant and so is my brother who is the chef of, uh, uh, Sushi Bar in Montecito, uh, and our chef at, uh, Pasta Bar, and they're all three there, uh, just in the restaurant and I'm at my house here in Austin and I'm on Zoom. And they start asking us some random questions about, uh, you know, how is it... You know, "What's it like being open and what have been the, the, the, you know, pitfalls you had to overcome." And, uh, then out of nowhere they just go, "Oh, and, um, I have one extra question. Um, uh, congratulations. Uh, two of your restaurants are getting Michelin stars."

    7. JR

      Oh, they snuck it in on you.

    8. PL

      They snuck it in. And I'm on-

    9. JR

      Oh.

    10. PL

      And the thing is, I'm on a Zoom and so I was like, "Wait, what? What did she say?"

    11. JR

      (laughs)

    12. PL

      Like I couldn't, I couldn't hear and, and everyone's, it, it... And I thought we had just gotten one and it turned out they said, "No, no, no." And I said, "Wait, what, which res- which restaurant?" And they said, "Sushi Bar, Montecito and, uh, uh, and Pasta Bar." And, uh, I just started-

    13. JR

      And Pasta Bar is in LA?

    14. PL

      Pasta Bar is in LA, and, um, I just started crying. (sniffs)

    15. JR

      Wow.

    16. PL

      Yeah, so...

    17. JR

      I've, I was just reading, uh, on the history of the Michelin star and that it was really back in the early days of travel.

    18. PL

      Mm-hmm.

    19. JR

      They had a book would show you where you can get your car repaired, where you could refuel, and then where you can get something to eat.

    20. PL

      Yeah.

    21. JR

      And then people got really obsessed with the where to get something to eat part, and then it became a separate entity.

    22. PL

      It was never sep-... I don't think they ever set out to become the world standard on cuisine. I don't think that was ever the point. The point was we have to give you a reason to buy tires and that reason is to drive, and so here's some things to drive to. And so, that's what the one star, two star, three star, you know, delineations have t- have to do with is this one is worth, you know, a stop, this one's worth a detour, and this one's worth a journey.

    23. JR

      Oh.

    24. PL

      And so that's how you get one star, two star, three star. So, one star means if it's on your way, stop. That was over 100 years ago. Now, one star means, you know, fly there. But three star means, like, upend your life and go figure, like, go find that place.

    25. JR

      We... What's, what's that? Who's got three stars?

    26. PL

      Uh, here in America, not many people.

    27. JR

      McDonald's.

    28. PL

      McDonald's, yes.

    29. JR

      McDonald's Filet-O-Fish.

    30. PL

      I think they have, I think they have four stars actually.

  5. 10:0812:09

    Fine dining as art: El Bulli, molecular gastronomy, and Bourdain’s influence

    1. PL

      El Bulli was on the top of a mountain.

    2. JR

      Where's El Bulli?

    3. PL

      Well, that's been closed for a long time, but that was in Spain.

    4. JR

      Oh, yeah?

    5. PL

      Yeah. So, I mean, there's-

    6. JR

      You're saying that like I know.

    7. PL

      (laughs)

    8. JR

      I don't know any of this. Listen, (laughs) you, let me into your world (laughs) . I don't know what you're talking about. What's El Bulli?

    9. PL

      Uh, so that was Feranadriu. Um, they, uh, they were named best restaurant in the world several years over. Um, it was really the restaurant that, uh, really brought what became known as molecular gastronomy, the, all the food that's, that, y- you know, Jaime would probably look at it and say, "This is... What, what am I looking at? This doesn't look like food. This looks like interesting abstract art." Um, but, you know, they fig- you know, today you have restaurants where, you know, you'll get literally a balloon that's brought out to the table and you eat the, suck the helium out and eat the balloon and that's, you know, one of the courses.

    10. JR

      (laughs) Oh, wow. 12 iconic dishes of El Bulli. Mm. So, this is like fancy dining and this is like-

    11. PL

      It's beyond fancy dining. It's, it's art.

    12. JR

      Someone from Jaime's lineage would look up this and...

    13. JV

      Well, yeah.

    14. PL

      If, if you asked him, "Is th-, like, what is this?" And you didn't tell him it was... You wouldn't think that was food.

    15. JR

      Yeah. Jaime's not into this. I can tell already.

    16. JV

      Is that a sea urchin?

    17. JR

      (laughs)

    18. PL

      That, that is sea urchin.

    19. JV

      Oh, delicious.

    20. JR

      Do you like sea urchin?

    21. JV

      No, I'm forced... I just tried octopus recently.

    22. PL

      And?

    23. JV

      Uh, okay.

    24. JR

      I feel bad eating octopus 'cause I found out how fucking smart they are.

    25. JV

      I know, that's what I thought. I was like, I'll try it so I can say I tried it but...

    26. JR

      They're, but they're, you know, they're fucking-

    27. PL

      They're so fucking good though.

    28. JR

      They're very good but they are murderers. I mean, they murder everything.

    29. JV

      Yeah, I'd rather have macaroni and cheese instead or...

    30. JR

      Oh my God. Macaroni and cheese.

  6. 12:0919:42

    Comfort food craft: Philip’s layered mac-and-cheese technique

    1. PL

      My house for Thanksgiving. That's where you get the best mac and cheese.

    2. JR

      You make mac and cheese?

    3. PL

      Yeah.

    4. JR

      Yeah? What, what do you do with it?

    5. PL

      So, it's, uh, partially my grandma's recipe. Um, so basically I make a, I make a cheese sauce separately with, uh, with Gruyere, sharp cheddar. Um, and then, uh, I'll boil the macaroni, cool it down, and then I'll take a bunch of shredded cheese as well and, uh, kind of layer it, uh, almost like a, almost like you would be layering, like, a lasagna a little bit, and then cover the entire top with, uh, melted cheese as well. And then, kind of the secret to that is, in the cheese sauce, uh, smoked paprika.

    6. JR

      Mm.

    7. PL

      Yeah.

    8. JR

      Mm.

    9. PL

      And so when you eat it, it's got a little bit of the, you know, Kraft mac and cheese of, like, the, the, like, the ... What do you use even? Like, the sauciness? Uh, but you have layers and you build it when it's cold, so you have layers of just shredded cheese all through it, so you still have that, that pull of the cheese like a nice pizza.

    10. JR

      Mm. So-

    11. PL

      And then you have a crispy cheese crust.

    12. JR

      Lasagna-like, almost.

    13. PL

      It's really good.

    14. JR

      Wow. Damn, son.

    15. PL

      Yeah.

    16. JR

      You know, I am, uh, addicted to watch... There's so many, um, pages on Instagram now (clears throat) that are just d- They're essentially, like, a one-minute cooking show. Have you ever watched any of those?

    17. PL

      Maybe. I'm sure, I'm sure I've flipped through 'em.

    18. JR

      It's ... Why do people love looking at people cooking food? 'Cause I fucking love it.

    19. PL

      Yeah, um, I think it's gotta be something, like, psychological.

    20. JR

      Mm.

    21. PL

      It's gotta be something about, like, watching somebody nourish. Like some- like, creating nourishment, maybe?

    22. JR

      Mm.

    23. PL

      In some sort of, like, you know, uh, abstract way that you haven't really ...

    24. JR

      It's an art thing, though. It's also, like, there's a beauty to it. There's a creation of, like, um, a delicious meal. Like, you know how good that's gonna taste 'cause you've had something similar. And so you're watching them put together some dish with skill and k- And then all the different elements of it and all the, you know, the knowledge that has to be. Uh, y- you have to, you have to earn the ability to cook a delicious meal.

    25. PL

      (laughs)

    26. JR

      Like, you have... It's not something very simple. Like, to do it just right, it's, it's a art form.

    27. PL

      It is. But it's, it... But like most art forms, it's a craft. And it's a practicable craft.

    28. JR

      Mm. Yeah.

    29. PL

      And, but I think back to what you were saying about, um, like, what, why are people attracted to that? I mean, you can go on and watch, you know, people blow dry their hair or apply makeup, and that, you know, is probably attracting some people, but only people who care about, you know, makeup. Where it feels like even people who aren't into food, who aren't, like, you know, you know, self-acclaimed foodies, they still like watching food. And I think it has to be something deeper than just a craft that is interesting to look at.

    30. JR

      Yeah. Though that's one of the things that's fascinating about it, is that it is a craft, but it's also, like you said, it's nourishment. I mean, everybody needs food. And it's also ... It looks fucking amazing.

  7. 19:4224:20

    Chef vs cook, kitchen hierarchy, and demystifying sous vide

    1. PL

      I used to watch, like, food TV religiously. Um, I think, and that was, that was, you know, when I was sort of, like, just up and coming as, like, a young cook, um, when, you know... The thing is, being a chef and being a cook are two entirely different things. Obviously, being a cook is a, is a prerequisite.

    2. JR

      What's the difference?

    3. PL

      So, if, if, if I was to come over to your house tonight and I was to cook you the best meal you ever had, that would not make me a great chef. That would make me a great cook.

    4. JR

      So, you'd cook one thing. Like, maybe a chef means you can cook a bunch of different things.

    5. PL

      No. The fact that I did it myself. If I cook you food, I'm cooking. If I brought five or six people over to your house and I got them to work together to make you the best meal you've ever had, that would make me a chef.

    6. JR

      Oh.

    7. PL

      So, call- calling, uh, saying that like, you know, I, you know, "My wife make, you know, my wife cooks great food, so she's a fantastic chef," isn't correct. It's, it's more like saying that, uh, a conductor of an orchestra, you wouldn't call the conductor a great violinist. Now, the conductor probably needs to not just know how to play the violin, but also, you know, be very good at it.

    8. JR

      Oh, okay. So, a chef can cook, but they really coordinate all these people that are cooking together in a restaurant.

    9. PL

      It means chief.

    10. JR

      But when you have a private chef that people hire to their home to cook for them, and that's an individual, what is that guy? Now a private cook?

    11. PL

      Well, you can hire a private chef. That sounds a lot better than a private cook, but what is that per- what is the job function of that person? Well, I guess in that scenario, if you just have a s- 'cause there's some households that have, you know, a team, right? Um, and some households would have a single individual who's cooking. So, you can, you can be the chef who also cooks. Um, it's not to say that if you cook, you are therefore not a chef. It's just that the difference, and we're talking more about in the, you know, in the industry, um, being a chef is to be someone who brings others together to cook as opposed to someone who just cooks.

    12. JR

      So, you would call, like, if you were working in a restaurant, like, a steak restaurant, the chef would be the main guy that tells everybody what to do.

    13. PL

      That's the person who's typically writing the menu, who's handling all the ordering. That's typically the person who's dealing with the broken dishwasher.

    14. JR

      Oh. Well, that's not glamorous.

    15. PL

      No.

    16. JR

      The fuck is that?

    17. PL

      No.

    18. JR

      Don't you have a guy that handles (laughs) the dishwasher?

    19. JV

      (laughs)

    20. PL

      Well, I guess maybe if you're at a famous steak house, maybe the dish-

    21. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    22. PL

      ... the chef isn't dealing with that, but in a, in a, in a normal, you know, restaurant.

    23. JR

      Small restaurant.

    24. PL

      Yeah.

    25. JR

      Yeah. And so, the other people that are working for them that are cooking the meals, you wouldn't consider them chefs as well.

    26. PL

      Well, that's why the person who typically runs, like, the line, uh, is called the sous chef, under chef.

    27. JR

      Oh, that's what sous means.

    28. PL

      Yeah.

    29. JR

      S-O-U-S?

    30. PL

      S-O-U-S.

  8. 24:2029:43

    Culinary school dropout: why experience beats credentials (sometimes)

    1. JR

      Now, when you first started cooking, did you go to culinary school? Did you, were you cooking actively before you went to culinary school?

    2. PL

      Yeah, so I went to culinary school. I had been cooking for years. Um, and I only went for a few months and I dropped out.

    3. JR

      Really?

    4. PL

      Yeah.

    5. JR

      Look at that, kids.

    6. PL

      (laughs)

    7. JR

      You can drop out of culinary school and get two Michelin stars. (laughs)

    8. JV

      (laughs)

    9. JR

      Why did you drop out?

    10. PL

      I thought I was going to, like, university of food.You know, I, I, I enrolled because I wanted to learn why. I wanted to learn and everything I knew up until that point in my career was just what the guy next to me had taught me, and that was because he was like, "All right, once you get here, okay, turn that. Okay, you see what you're looking..." And that, that, that's it. "Just do this." As a line cook, you, you spend most of your time just doing what you're told, and so I thought, "Okay, I..." At this point, this is what I knew what I wanted to do, and so I thought to myself that I'm gonna go to school and really learn about this. And then I got there, and it was cooking class, and I, I had no, no, uh, desire to, to take cooking classes.

    11. JR

      Well, what do you mean by cooking class? It was just s- step by step basics?

    12. PL

      Yeah, I'm, I'm-

    13. JR

      They're teaching you the alphabet, essentially?

    14. PL

      Kind of. It was... I mean, it wasn't even that, that it was the alphabet. It was... Well, there was a couple of, of, of reasons that I quit. Um, one was actually, we talked about The French Laundry, I had the opportunity while I was in culinary school, one of my, uh, chefs, um, had invited me to go with, with him and another group of chefs to the, uh, The French Laundry. And I went to my teacher, uh, and said, "Hey, uh, I need a couple days off. I have been invited." And they had this really strict rule of if you miss two, uh, two classes in any, uh, semester or whatever, you fail the class. And this was like, um, a breakfast egg cookery class, uh, and I said, "Well, I used to work at a restaurant called BLD in Los Angeles and, um, I worked both the plancha and sometimes I worked the egg station and we did 400 cover brunches, um, I could like, I know that we're gonna boil one egg at a time next week, uh, but like, can I... You know, this is a fantastic opportunity for me as a young cook to go and have dinner with these chefs at The French Laundry." And they said, "Sorry, you know, if, if you're not here for this then you, you're gonna fail." And I said, "Well then fuck that. I should be getting extra credit."

    15. JR

      Yeah, it seems like that would be w- a wiser choice, to give you credit, not-

    16. PL

      Yeah, I-

    17. JR

      ... fail you.

    18. PL

      And, and I also said, "Well, I'll, look, I'll take the f- the, the final quiz for this class now," which is, you know, I have to make the dish, I already spent over a year working four undercover brunches at a really nice restaurant. I, like, you're... I'm not gonna learn that much more than what I've already done in real life. I've already left that part of my career to go on, you know, to the bigger and better restaurants.

    19. JR

      So, did you feel like the system was just too rigid or it's just the way they were c- teaching it?

    20. PL

      Well, they ended up getting a huge class action lawsuit against them later on and they had to give everyone their tuition money back, I think.

    21. JR

      Why?

    22. PL

      I didn't follow it. I also didn't join the class action lawsuit, but, um, I think it was something about over-promising and under-delivering.

    23. JR

      Hmm. Okay. Well, is it safe to say that all culinary schools are not created equal?

    24. PL

      Oh, a hundred percent.

    25. JR

      So, if you went to another one, maybe-

    26. PL

      Yeah, I, I, I don't think culinary school's not worth it, I just think that, um, like if, like if you were to come to me, you know, 30, 40 years ago and said, "I wanna be a cook," I would say, uh, "Don't go to culinary school, 'cause if you go to culinary school, you come out with debt, and if you come out of culinary school and we hire you at one of our restaurants, we're gonna end up saying to you, 'Great. Everything you just learned? Okay, don't do any of that, 'cause now we want you to do it exactly how we do it, and we're gonna show you how we do it.' You're also gonna start out at the bottom of the totem pole. So, you're gonna start out, you're gonna be, you know, peeling onions."

    27. JR

      So, cooking, is it safe to say or fair to say that it's essentially, it's a craft that is best learned on the job?

    28. PL

      Yeah, I mean, think about like, you've been around, like, tattoo shops enough.

    29. JR

      Sure.

    30. PL

      You know what they, what like, the apprentices go through to be able to tattoo there?

  9. 29:4338:48

    Origin story: childhood cooking, drumming, and a detour into poker

    1. PL

      Um, so my, so I started... Well, I actually feel like I should answer the very first question you asked me, which is when did I know I wanted to cook?

    2. JR

      Yeah.

    3. PL

      'Cause that kind of gets us there. Um, so I guess my dad knew before I knew, 'cause, uh, he just recently, uh, sent me a video. It's actually on my Instagram, um, it's, uh, my third birthday party and he's bought me a chef's knife.

    4. JR

      Wow.

    5. PL

      Yeah.

    6. JR

      Your third birthday party?

    7. PL

      My third birthday party. And he can, you can clearly hear him say, (laughs) it's funny 'cause I think, I haven't gotten the full story, but I think my mom's holding the old, you know, the old camera and it kind of shaking, and I guess he says, oh-

    8. JR

      There it is right there.

    9. PL

      I think he, he says, "I don't know what else to get him. All he wants to do is cook."

    10. JV

      Oh. Yeah, you know what? He always wants to cook. So there you go.

    11. JR

      (laughs)

    12. PL

      (laughs)

    13. JR

      That's not a real knife, is it? Did he give you, get you a real chef's knife?

    14. PL

      I actually haven't asked him 'cause he sent that to me and he said, "Look, you've always wanted to cook." Um, so I don't know if that's a, uh, I prob- but knowing my dad, yeah, it's probably a real knife.

    15. JR

      And did he just hide it from you? "Here's your, here's your knife and then I'm gonna hide it."

    16. PL

      No, I, I cooked growing up every day.

    17. JR

      But did you use that knife?

    18. PL

      I don't remember.

    19. JR

      When you were three?

    20. PL

      Yeah, probably not, probably wasn't.

    21. JR

      Yeah. That seems like a lot for a three-year-old, those little tiny fingers.

    22. PL

      (exhales) Yeah.

    23. JR

      Let me see your fingers. They're all there-

    24. PL

      They're all there but-

    25. JR

      ... so you probably didn't use it.

    26. PL

      ... but I'm missing, uh, you know, some parts.

    27. JR

      Are you?

    28. PL

      Yeah.

    29. JR

      Some tips?

    30. PL

      Yeah.

  10. 38:4857:33

    Restaurant boot camp: dish pit beginnings, brutal hours, and relationship tradeoffs

    1. PL

      her, um, catering company, met the chef, uh, the first thing was like, "Okay, you're making family meal today." And so I cooked for the whole staff and she said, "I'll hire you as a dishwasher."

    2. JR

      (laughs) oh, Jesus.

    3. PL

      Uh, and, um-

    4. JR

      Was that because that was the only job they had available?

    5. PL

      Looking back at it, I was offended and angry, but I didn't care because of what she said after that, which is, um, "You don't get to start being a cook. You have to start as a dishwasher so you can have respect for, um, you know, what it is that the dishwashers do." And, um, she said, "Here's how this works. The faster you clean that dish pit, the more I'll teach you. So whenever that dish pit's clean, you come and find me and I'll give you a task. But if there's ever any dishes, that's what you're doing."

    6. JR

      Hmm.

    7. PL

      So, it kind of gave me that, that bit of work ethic of like, "All right, I'm gonna work my way into the ne- that next position."

    8. JR

      That seems to be a theme with great restaurants, and when you talk to chefs, this work ethic theme, because it seems like when y- you know, you talk to people that have worked in restaurants, one of the things that they will almost unanimously discuss is the amount of hours, and the grind, and how difficult it is.

    9. PL

      Yeah.

    10. JR

      And that development of work ethic almost is like kind of a boot camp for chefs.

    11. PL

      It is. It's, um, I mean, it's not so much anymore. Laws have changed, culture has changed, but it was, you're spending, like a 16 hour day was not even a really long day.

    12. JR

      I dated a girl once who went to college for restaurant and hotel management, and then she got a job at this restaurant, and I remember I would go visit her and she was fucking miserable.

    13. PL

      (laughs)

    14. JR

      I mean, miserable. She couldn't believe the hours that she had to work.

    15. PL

      But you have to love it.

    16. JR

      Yeah, she didn't love it.

    17. PL

      That's an industry you have to love.

    18. JR

      Well, she just wanted a career, you know? She had went to school, she graduated from school, and then she had this c- this job that was like... And then she had this boyfriend who was a fuck up, who was a comedian, so it was like very, very weird for her, because like I had most of my day completely free (laughs) , and she was working, you know, 14, 15 hours a day at least.

    19. PL

      Yeah. I mean, it's, it's one of those things where if you really want to take food seriously and cooking seriously, you're gonna have to, you know, make a lot of sacrifices.

    20. JR

      Yeah.

    21. PL

      You know, I've, I've-

    22. JR

      Just the time.

    23. PL

      Mm-hmm. You're not there for birthdays, you're not there for anniversaries, you're not there for, for, for, uh, Valentine's Day for sure.

    24. JR

      'Cause you have to work.

    25. PL

      'Cause you have to work.

    26. JR

      It's a big day.

    27. PL

      Yeah.

    28. JR

      Yeah.

    29. PL

      'Cause someone has to cook at all those restaurants you go to.

    30. JR

      Yeah. Yeah, people listening, if you are thinking of going down this path-

  11. 57:331:22:48

    Health reboot: Whoop tracking, weight loss, cholesterol scare, and diet changes

    1. PL

      See, I can see that 'cause I just recently started like, working out and getting in shape and-

    2. JR

      I noticed the Whoop. You got the Whoop strap rocking.

    3. PL

      I do, I do, yeah. It's, uh, changed my life, really. Um, but I've noticed that now that I'm like, running a lot and exercising a lot, I get way hungrier.

    4. JR

      Oh, yeah, for sure.

    5. PL

      And I lose weight even though I eat more.

    6. JR

      Yeah. Well, you know, your body has requirements when you're working out.

    7. PL

      Yeah.

    8. JR

      You know? It's just sustenance when you're not working out, but when you're working out, your body's like, "Get me some fucking protein, let's go."

    9. PL

      Yeah.

    10. JR

      'Cause you know, your, your body recognizes you're breaking down all this tissue and you're... I mean, that's the process of exercise, it's the breaking down, the building back up stronger. And it's like this ... You gotta do it right. Uh, t- so many people start off too hard, you know? They, like, when, when someone has not worked out at all before, I always say, "Listen, all you have to do is go walk around the block and do some push-ups and some jumping jacks, and then build from there. You don't have to go crazy."

    11. PL

      Yeah.

    12. JR

      Like, let your body get accustomed to this whole idea of exercise. Don't just go bananas 'cause you won't be able to sustain it and you'll get upset. And don't work out with a friend who goes to CrossFit.

    13. PL

      (laughs)

    14. JR

      Don't have some fucking fitness fanatic friend who's like, "Try to do this WOD! We're gonna do a WOD today!" And you, you're, you doing burpees and throwing fucking m- kettlebells over your head. You're not gonna do it.

    15. PL

      Yeah, no, that's, I-

    16. JR

      And you'll get hurt.

    17. PL

      I've pretty much just done, been running, really.

    18. JR

      That's great.

    19. PL

      Yeah, I'm, I'm up to doing about five miles a day every day.

    20. JR

      Nice.

    21. PL

      Yeah.

    22. JR

      That's great.

    23. PL

      I just get on, I hit the five mile an hour button, I do one hour.

    24. JR

      So, you weren't doing anything before?

    25. PL

      No, I worked so much.

    26. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    27. PL

      So, um, I was doing nothing. And I went from having such an active like, childhood of, of like, drumming seven days a week, um, and back then, I would, I'd need three double-doubles, you know, just to keep my weight on. And, um, to just working so much, and I'm on my feet all day, but I'm not sweating-

    28. JR

      Right.

    29. PL

      ... all day.

    30. JR

      You're not exerting-

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