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Lewis Howes#1 NARCISSISM Expert: Are You Dealing With A Narcissist!? Watch Out For THESE SIGNS! w/ Dr. Ramani
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- Released
- February 19, 2024
- Duration
- 1h 23m
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- Lewis Howes
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• ▶️ Recommended for you: https://youtu.be/sq9NnPWH5eM Today we welcome back a School of Greatness favorite, licensed clinical psychologist, Dr. Ramani Durvasula. In this episode we discuss a groundbreaking guide for anyone struggling to understand and recover from the effects of narcissistic relationships. Get Dr. Ramani's book, "It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People": https://amzn.to/48UikBM Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f 0:00 Intro 00:03:50 - Dissociation and Loss in Narcissistic Relationships 00:07:26 - The Power of Intimacy and Old Scripts 00:11:12 - The Complexity of Narcissistic Relationships 00:14:47 - Recognizing Narcissistic Behavior 00:18:20 - The Danger of Chemistry and Connection 00:22:09 - The Process of Trauma Bonding 00:25:37 - Intermittent Reinforcement and Trauma Bonding 00:29:17 - Seeking a Healthy Relationship 00:32:55 - Fear of Regret and Indifference in Relationships 00:36:21 - The Charm of Narcissists 00:39:54 - Characteristics of Charming and Charismatic Individuals 00:43:32 - Different Types of Narcissism 00:46:53 - Self-Righteous Narcissism and Neglectful Narcissism 00:50:27 - Neglectful Narcissists and Emotional Socialization 00:53:57 - The Gendered Experience of Emotions in Boys and Men 00:57:34 - The Impact of Parenting on Narcissistic Traits 01:01:11 - The Importance of Attunement in Relationships and Parenting 01:04:29 - The Importance of Being Present for Your Children 01:08:34 - The Difficulty of Forgiving Narcissistic Abuse 01:12:28 - The Treachery of Forgiveness 01:16:11 - Tools for Healing from Narcissistic Abuse 01:19:43 - Giving Life a Chance 01:23:17 - The Percolation of Passive Aggression For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1577 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: https://www.youtube.com/@GreatnessClips Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspanol Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues Lewis Howes Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowesshorts #greatness #inspiration #motivation
SPEAKERS
Dr. Ramani Durvasula
guestClinical psychologist and bestselling author specializing in narcissism and relationship trauma.
Lewis Howes
hostHost of The School of Greatness and interviewer/podcast presenter.
EPISODE SUMMARY
In this episode of Lewis Howes, featuring Dr. Ramani Durvasula and Lewis Howes, #1 NARCISSISM Expert: Are You Dealing With A Narcissist!? Watch Out For THESE SIGNS! w/ Dr. Ramani explores Discernment, trauma bonding, and why forgiveness isn’t required after narcissistic abuse Dr. Ramani says recovery after narcissistic abuse is possible, but survivors often face grief, fear, and a damaged sense of self-trust that makes future intimacy feel risky.
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