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Lewis Howes$500M CEO: The Simple Mindset Trick for Achieving Your Dreams | Jesse Cole
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140 min read · 28,025 words- 0:00 – 2:51
Intro
- JCJesse Cole
We thought it was a very good decision for my wife and I to get married and then go into over a million dollars in debt. Sleeping on an air bed, only selling two tickets, down to our last dollar. It was brutal. We ran out of money. Emily turned to me and said, "Jesse, we have to sell our house."
- LHLewis Howes
How did you continue to believe in yourself when everyone said no?
- JCJesse Cole
It was chaos.
- LHLewis Howes
He is an entrepreneur, author, and the creator of Banana Ball.
- JCJesse Cole
Transforming traditional baseball into a fast-paced entertainment experience.
- LHLewis Howes
Please welcome-
- JCJesse Cole
Jesse Cole
- LHLewis Howes
... almost everyone said you're the craziest person ever.
- JCJesse Cole
They still do. This is me, and I'm not gonna hide away from this. Everyone said, "Stay with that," 'cause that was the safe bet. I was bored and I was like, "Why isn't there nonstop action? Why isn't there entertainment?"
- LHLewis Howes
Yes.
- JCJesse Cole
"Why aren't there things happening? How can you bring entertainment to it?" I will do everything. Start small, dream big. We're not gonna fail. We're gonna find a way, and we're gonna do it the same way we've done it from day one.
- LHLewis Howes
Final question, Jesse, what's your definition of greatness?
- JCJesse Cole
That's a tough question 'cause I'm gonna get criticism on that one.
- LHLewis Howes
Welcome back, everyone, to the School of Greatness. Very excited about our guest. We have the inspiring Jesse Cole in the house. My man, good to see you.
- JCJesse Cole
[laughs] It's many years coming, man. I'm fired up-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, man
- JCJesse Cole
... to be with you.
- LHLewis Howes
We, we met, um, eight years ago at a social media blogging conference, I think it was. And I remember vividly you coming up in this outfit and saying hello to me, and you sent me the photo of us, um, 'cause we took a photo that day, so there's a photo proof of this.
- JCJesse Cole
Y- you must have thought this guy's a lunatic. At, at that point, you must. Who is this guy?
- LHLewis Howes
My original thought was-
- JCJesse Cole
[laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
... this guy has a lot of passion, a lot of excitement, and-
- JCJesse Cole
Nice way of putting it
- LHLewis Howes
... it reminded me, not of me, but it reminded me the energy of, like, going for a dream so big. You even told me right then, like, "I took over this, like, wooden bat league, this, like-
- JCJesse Cole
[laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
... semi-pros thing-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... and I'm trying to make it this new experience." And I was just like... Maybe we only had like two minutes together-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... so I really didn't get the full context.
- 2:51 – 8:24
Believing When Everyone Says No
- LHLewis Howes
How did you s- how did you learn to believe in a vision that you were, had never seen been done before in this sport? When everyone said no, and also you're, you're living on an air mattress with your wife.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. [laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
You've got no money. You sell everything to, like, go after this, and everyone's saying you're crazy. Just stick to, like, the safe-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... sales ticketing job-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... in baseball.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
How did you continue to believe in yourself when everyone said no?
- JCJesse Cole
Well, I think if you go back, and I think a lot of the, the greatest creators, they're creating something that they would love.
- LHLewis Howes
Uh-huh.
- JCJesse Cole
And so, you know, I, I played baseball my whole life, just like you, an athlete, and you know, there's a difference when you're playing the game, you know, when you're in the action, when you're in the arena. You know, I was on the mound, and you could control the game and impact the game, and you know, every pitch mattered. And then I tore my shoulder when I was in college, and that dream, you know. And I was talking to professional teams, and I was, I was like, "It's gonna happen. Like, just believe." Just like you. You're, "This is gonna happen. I'm gonna have this dream fulfilled." And then it was gone, right like that. And I had no idea what I was gonna do and, you know, everyone said go into coaching and, you know, I tried coaching. But when I was coaching I realized something. You know, I'm sitting in the dugout and, you know, I have an idea of what's going on in the game. I know the players. I know a little bit of strategy. I know what we're trying to do. And I realize, wow, I am bored out of my mind.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
And because, you know-
- LHLewis Howes
You're not in the game
- JCJesse Cole
... I'm not in the game. I'm not playing, and I'm just sitting there and I'm like... And I even know what's gonna happen. I know, all right, we're gonna hit a run here. All right, we're putting in our closer. All right, in the eighth inning, early, we're gonna do this. We're gonna move our outfielders. We... I, I know what's happening, but I'm still not in the game and even on board. And I'm thinking, I remember looking around. This is in the Cape Cod League and, you know, one of the old historic college summer baseball leagues, but one of the best ones. And people are all sitting on these, you know, wooden bleachers and-
- LHLewis Howes
This is, this is not even semi-pro, or is this like-
- JCJesse Cole
Well, it, it's the same what we ended up going into, college summer baseball. Um, but it was-
- LHLewis Howes
No one's getting paid or what?
- JCJesse Cole
No, you can't. It's, it was-
- LHLewis Howes
Okay. Yeah
- JCJesse Cole
... ball back then. Hence the [laughs] it's changed a lot.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
But yeah, it was just, it was college players-
- LHLewis Howes
College ball
- JCJesse Cole
... played during the summer. And I'm just sitting there and I'm like-
- LHLewis Howes
Everyone's bored
- JCJesse Cole
... everyone's bor- Well, it, you know, baseball traditionalists, they're fine. But I'm like, there's not a lot of families. People are sitting. Kids are trying to play catch up 'cause they're, they're not watching the game. Kids are running around trying to do things, and the actual game isn't as exciting. Now, baseball traditionalists say, "You're kidding me," y- you know. And that's fine. But for me, I was bored and I was like, "Why isn't there nonstop action? Why isn't there entertainment?"
- LHLewis Howes
Yes.
- JCJesse Cole
"Why aren't there things happening? Why isn't there music playing nonstop? Why isn't all this?" And you know, maybe it's my crazy ADHD, you know, mind, but I was like, I needed more. And so I was very fortunate. You know, I got offered an opportunity to be a GM at 23 years old, um, and it was the worst team in the entire country.
- 8:24 – 11:42
Testing Banana Ball During Covid
- JCJesse Cole
We started testing. We did a one city world tour. Mindset, start small, dream big.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
You know, I love that. Just that's what, how we do everything. Start small, dream big. So we called it a one city world tour, which is ridiculous, but... And we still call it a world tour today.
- LHLewis Howes
So it was an experiment, one game.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. But world tour because that's where we're going.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
It'll be all over the world. We believe it. No, no doubt about it. So we're, we're setting that mindset of where we're going, but we're starting small. And we did a one city world tour, but we also at that same point still had the college summer baseball team. So we started creating all this attention. People saying, "What are they doing with this game, Banana Ball? Fans catching foul balls for outs? What is happening? This game is crazy."
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
And then we did seven cities, and we started playing around the country, and we started to get a lot more national attention. We had the first ESPN show. But we were still playing traditional baseball.
- LHLewis Howes
This is-- Okay, so this is when you took over Savannah Bananas, right?
- JCJesse Cole
Yes. This is later with Savannah Bananas, and so good context. And so you were asking what happened-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, so you're still playing wooden bat league.
- JCJesse Cole
We're still playing wooden bat league.
- LHLewis Howes
Normal baseball.
- JCJesse Cole
Yes. So-
- LHLewis Howes
But then you're like, "All right, let's do this one night only."
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, one night only, and do it, and then-
- LHLewis Howes
And we'll do this-
- JCJesse Cole
Try this whole thing
- LHLewis Howes
... with always-
- JCJesse Cole
This lab, this experiment.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
We tested it all.
- LHLewis Howes
So that was when it first start-
- JCJesse Cole
That was-
- LHLewis Howes
When was that first night?
- JCJesse Cole
That was 2021. So yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. The-- Yeah. The first, the first game of actual Banana Ball was 2020 during Covid in our, in Savannah. We had the, the Bananas play the Bananas. We actually had-
- LHLewis Howes
Right, right, right
- 11:42 – 16:25
Going $1 Million in Debt
- JCJesse Cole
for my wife and I to get married and then go into over a million dollars in debt.
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs] Yeah, yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
We thought that was a very good decision. Um, yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Not on the wedding itself.
- JCJesse Cole
No, no.
- LHLewis Howes
On the team.
- JCJesse Cole
The wedding was, the wedding was the wedding. But, uh, uh, yeah, no, we had to-- We had bought the team from the league, and we had to make payments over many years to buy that. Then we had to put money in to start up and all that. I mean, it was, it was a lot. And it was, uh, myself, my wife, our 24-year-old team president, uh, Jared, who's still our president today and leading us, and three 22-year-olds straight out of college. And, um, yeah, we showed up. The phone lines were cut. The internet lines were cut. The former team took everything out of the stadium. Uh, there was nothing left.
- LHLewis Howes
What year was this?
- JCJesse Cole
This was in, uh, October of 2015 when we came.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
So-
- LHLewis Howes
So really six years after that- You, you did the one night only
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. So, so three years later, I first started writing down the ideas. 'Cause we, you know, we went from, we sold two tickets in our first few months. January 15th, 2016, we got the call, we ran out of money, and Emily turned to me and said, "Jess, we have, we have to sell our house." So we sold our house, emptied our savings account, put that money in, go in more debt. [laughs] And, uh, we had to get people excited to coming to a college summer baseball game.
- LHLewis Howes
Did you think about this, what you're doing now, back then in 2015, where you're like, "Oh, I'm gonna do this. This is what-"
- JCJesse Cole
No. Banana Ball wasn't even a... It wasn't even a thought.
- LHLewis Howes
It-
- JCJesse Cole
What I thought was, "What if we could start from scratch and create a whole entertainment product that's not just the Gastonia Grizzlies that we had seven years and all this built-in thoughts. What if we could build a new team, a new identity-
- LHLewis Howes
Uh-huh
- JCJesse Cole
... a new story, a new circus, a new show, all of that?"
- LHLewis Howes
But a new sport also?
- JCJesse Cole
No.
- LHLewis Howes
But within baseball.
- JCJesse Cole
Yes. You know, and that's why, so-
- LHLewis Howes
That, that's what you did for five years, essentially.
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. Because y- y- we did that, and then by watching our fans. So, you know, we sold a couple tickets, and then we said, "All right, we gotta get our fans excited." So we said, we made every ticket all-inclusive. So we said, "You come to Savannah, our games, all your burgers, hotdogs, chicken sandwiches-
- LHLewis Howes
Wow
- JCJesse Cole
... soda, water, popcorn, dessert, everything, $15 total."
- LHLewis Howes
What?
- 16:25 – 21:02
Eliminating Boring Parts of Baseball
- JCJesse Cole
So we started taking pictures and videotaping every 30 minutes. First 5:30 when they get in, 6:00, 6:30, 7:00, 7:30. And I realized something. At 9:00, you have your first influx of fans. No matter what. Even if we had a fireworks show or something at the end of the night, 9:00, two hours in, fans would start leaving. Then 9:15, 9:30, you'd have a lot more. By 10:00 o'clock you'd have 50% of your crowd no matter what. That told me right there there's a fundamental problem with the game of baseball.
- LHLewis Howes
It needs to be two hours.
- JCJesse Cole
I always say this before, it's like, you know, you go to a movie and it's like, how... You know, you go, "Oh, the movie was great. Yeah, I left in the middle."
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs]
- JCJesse Cole
No one leaves a great movie in the middle. But baseball is, "Yeah. Hey, I had a good time. Left in the sixth inning or so, you know. Got out early." You should never create something where people wanna leave early. So how do you create something that's so good they want more? And so I said, "All right, let's look at all the parts of a baseball game that are too long, too slow, too boring." So I remember I wrote down and, um-
- LHLewis Howes
That's most of the game. [laughs] Most of the game is too long, too slow, too boring.
- JCJesse Cole
Other than, you know, if you ask baseball traditionalists-
- LHLewis Howes
Unless you're watching the playoffs or something, yeah
- JCJesse Cole
... 100%. And so I started writing down, and what I'm so blown away by right now, so I, I started an idea book in 2018, and I realized if you want to have good ideas, you gotta come up with more ideas. Um, I mentioned to you earlier about the great podcast episode you had with, uh, Andy Grammer and about how many songs he wrote. He was just constantly writing songs and performing them out in the streets over and over and over again. Quantity leads to quality. So I was like, "I gotta have more ideas." So I started writing down all these ideas, and in 2018, um, you know, I was like, "All right, what are all the boring parts of baseball?" Mound visits, stepping out of the box.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
Walks. Bunting's boring. I just-
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs]
- JCJesse Cole
All these things. I started just writing all these down. And then one of our big i- premises of everything is whatever's normal, do the exact opposite.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
No one gets excited about normal. When we first started in Savannah, we were doing normal social media, normal ads, normal radio, normal all that. We were getting terrible results. So I wrote down all these ideas and, um, I said, "Why don't we just try them? Just see what happens." And so the first time we went to a college, we went to my old school, Wofford College, and, uh- The coach said, "Yeah, we'll try this in practice. No one's there. We'll try it." So we got rained out. So the first ever intentional Banana Ball game got rained out on.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
Um, as I learned at my wedding, they say the rain is good luck.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
So I'll take that as good luck. So I went to my ol- other former coach at Lander and, uh, so we played with these guys. I said, "Guys, hey, we're playing a crazy game today. The goal is we just want you to have fun. Have fun, enjoy it, let us know how it is."
- LHLewis Howes
But this was not inner squad.
- JCJesse Cole
With-
- LHLewis Howes
This is a different team.
- JCJesse Cole
This is a different team. We're testing it at a college.
- LHLewis Howes
And they're thinking, "We're trying to just play baseball."
- JCJesse Cole
What are we doing? What are we doing? Yes. We went to it. Played nine innings in 99 minutes, and the guys at the end said it was the most fun they've ever had playing.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
And there was, there actually, there were a few girlfriends that, like, came in and they were doing their homework as they were practicing, and they put their homework down and they were at the seat watching.
- LHLewis Howes
This is the fun-
- JCJesse Cole
'Cause it was just boom. There were walk-off hits, you know. You could walk off every inning. There was outs, there was bats, the pitcher's to throw in every six seconds. It was just exciting. I was like, "We got something here." And so yeah, in 2020, in the middle of COVID-
- LHLewis Howes
This was like a scrimmage game.
- 21:02 – 26:39
Building a Billion Dollar Brand
- LHLewis Howes
million wooden bat league to a billion dollar brand. Now do you think-
- JCJesse Cole
That makes me uncomfortable when you say that, so I, I hear that. You saw how I look away. I just, I, I don't, I don't like thinking either. That's not how I think.
- LHLewis Howes
Well, you, you could say, okay, 3 to 4 million to a billion dollar brand that impacts, you know, however many people.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. I, I, I'm proud we play in front of 3.4 million fans this year.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
And, uh, you know, we're impacting so many more online and social, millions of people and billions. I, I love that. I wanna bring joy to billions of people. That fires me up.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
That's, that's the difference.
- LHLewis Howes
Do you think Walt Disney was intimidated by the numbers of how much they were making?
- JCJesse Cole
Um, Wal- Walt, Walt hated talking about money. He hated it. He was, "Roy, you handle all the money."
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
I mean, he, he didn't want any. He said, "Money doesn't excite me. My ideas excite me." He was fascinated and, like, he was terrible with money. He was like, "Ah, this, this movie, uh, Snow White, this'll cost a couple hundred thousand." It's cost millions. Or, or, uh, you know, Disneyland, "It's gonna be a couple million." It's 17 million. Like he was... Because he, he told, he told his team, he's like, "You know, hey, I'll let you know when I'm done. Like, I'll let you know when I'm done how much it's gonna cost. W- we're innovating here. We're innovating." You know, the multi-plane camera, which was never invented and, and sound, and the first, you know, animated with color. The first full, full-length animated in Snow White. In Disneyland. I mean, he was constantly doing things that never happened before. The animatronics, are you kidding me? He was so far ahead of his time. How can you put a price tag on something that's never been done before? And luckily, Roy, which deserves so much more credit than he, than he, he got, you know, he said, "Okay, we're gonna keep going. We're gonna keep going." And he found a way to keep the business stable enough. When they were ups and downs, I mean, they were almost out of business numerous times. I mean, there were strikes, there was... It was... But Walt said, "We're gonna keep going because it's best. It's best." He believed in it.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
So when you ask me how do I believe in it when I'm sleeping on an air bed, you know, I saw some- we bring joy. We bring fun, and we can see, we create something that people have never seen before, never experienced before. Every single night-
- LHLewis Howes
Wow
- JCJesse Cole
... it'll work. And I just, uh, W- Walt has built in me this trait. It's in my DNA. I will never doubt anything. It doesn't mean we don't fail. We fail every step [laughs] of the way, but we're gonna keep getting up and go to the next step.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow. So if COVID doesn't happen, where would you be? Do you think you would have eventually done this?
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, yeah, because in 2018 we, we tested it before. Oh, I was, I was ready. It was how do we get out of the league? How do we, you know... Our people in Savannah, at first, you know, they were, they hated our name, they hated who we were, they hated what we were about-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- JCJesse Cole
... until we actually delivered and we brought joy. They didn't want this. As Steve Jobs says, "No one knows what they want until you show it to them."
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
We hadn't shown them anything. When at first that's what... No, no reason why we sold two tickets. We're talking about there's gonna be dancing players and there's gonna be entertainment and Banana Ananas. They hadn't seen it. They had every right not to believe in it. And so when I'm talking about this new game where fans are catching foul balls for outs and, you know, there's nonstop-
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs]
- JCJesse Cole
... celebrating and nonstop entertainment, and there's trick plays and guys catching back flips, they're like, "I don't get it. What are you talking about?" As, as Bezos said, uh, Jeff Bezos, "You need, you need to be willing to be misunderstood." Anybody that innovated or truly invented something that's never been done before, they are misunderstood in the beginning. They are always misunderstood.
- LHLewis Howes
What's the thing you misunderstand about yourself still?
- JCJesse Cole
Hmm, that's a good question. Misunderstand about myself. I don't know. I, I, I wanna cut that back at you. Like, what, what are some of you think that I misunderstand?
- LHLewis Howes
Well, I'd say that you're, you're so passionate about the brand, the mission, fans first, not caring about the money, you know? And the experience of bringing joy to millions of people around the world.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
And you've been going nonstop for what it seems like five, six years-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- 26:39 – 32:46
Preparing for MLB Stadiums
- JCJesse Cole
a, uh, you know, misunderstanding or, you know, people that look at me and, you know, "It can't always just be about the fans. He has to be about money." I mean, yeah, I wanna make sure we have a healthy business 'cause I wanna take care of our people.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
But when I was sitting on the air bed, it was like, "Yeah, we gotta get out of this." But like, I learned, and my wife, how to be okay with not having a lot.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
And so, you know, I think the people that get to the point where they have so much, you were asking me before, "When are you gonna fly private?" I'm like, "I don't know. I have my 2018 Honda Accord. I drive it. I'm fine with it." Like-
- LHLewis Howes
Right
- JCJesse Cole
... it is what it is.
- LHLewis Howes
Uh.
- JCJesse Cole
Um, so it's tough for me to ask that question 'cause I guess I know I, um, I heard someone say on a podcast recently, they're like, "Some of the greatest entrepreneurs, they aren't introspective." And which was really interesting to me.
- LHLewis Howes
I saw that too.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. And I, I, I, I don't remember the whole thesis behind that.
- LHLewis Howes
But introspection's more of like a modern-day thing.
- JCJesse Cole
Yes.
- LHLewis Howes
It was-
- JCJesse Cole
Back then you talk about Henry Ford back in the day, and Rockefeller. It's not like Walt Disney was thinking, "Oh, I wonder how I'm being right now."
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
He was just trying to create-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- JCJesse Cole
... something that he loved and that gave him energy. I think everyone should just chase things that give them energy.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
What fires you up every day?
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
And yeah, I think it's important to know who you are and what you stand for, but if you focus so much, focus internally, and not actually just focusing on actually doing things and doing things that fire you up, you might get stuck holding yourself back.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
And I don't ever wanna hold myself back.
- LHLewis Howes
So you were 15 years then working in teams, smaller teams, until this kind of took off, right? Maybe, maybe you're playing in front of 3, 4,000 people.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. 4,000. Great night. It was a great night back in the day.
- LHLewis Howes
So what is it like going from 4,000 to 100,000 within a couple of years?
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
And what shifted within you energetically to be able to take on that energy-
- 32:46 – 37:01
The Pre-Show Is the Main Event
- JCJesse Cole
year was this?
- LHLewis Howes
Probably '20.
- JCJesse Cole
Okay.
- LHLewis Howes
20- uh, 2009 probably.
- JCJesse Cole
Was it Vegas or?
- LHLewis Howes
Vegas.
- JCJesse Cole
Okay.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah. I can't remember which one I saw-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... but I saw, I saw a bunch of them.
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
But I remember getting there, I don't know, 30, 60 minutes early or something-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... and the cast being out-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... in the lobby.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
And even out of the tickets area too.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
And I was like... And it made me apply what I learned from Cirque du Soleil into webinars, into online marketing, into live events.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Where I was like, "Oh." And i- into the podcast as well, where I was like, "Oh, it's not about the show. The pre-show is the show." The pre... You know, it's just like the pre-show is the show. Like, our conversation out there for 30 whatever minutes-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... that is the show-
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... in my mind. And it's not... Obviously, you gotta make a great show too.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
But the show can be a thousand times better based on what happens before the show.
- JCJesse Cole
100%.
- LHLewis Howes
You know what I mean?
- 37:01 – 41:49
Overcoming Childhood Trauma
- JCJesse Cole
Ugh. Geez. You wanna get... It's... Now we're gonna go deep. This is right up your alley.
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs]
- JCJesse Cole
Uh.
- LHLewis Howes
Why do you, why do you have a fear of being-
- JCJesse Cole
Uh
- LHLewis Howes
... irrelevant or-
- JCJesse Cole
Well, I do
- LHLewis Howes
... being s- being bored or sitting still?
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, I mean, yeah. Well, the bored is just kinda I, I just enjoy b- feeling alive.
- LHLewis Howes
Of course.
- JCJesse Cole
I love feeling alive. But, but the, uh, you know, irrelevance, I was an only child when I grew up and, um, you know, I, I didn't have a lot of friends when I was really young. And I remember, I mean, you know, my dad would come home from work, and we'd play and stuff and play baseball, but, you know, he'd say, "Jess," you know, during the summer, "What'd you do today?" I'd say, you know, "I rode my bike to Alex's and then I went to Bobby's and..." And I didn't, I didn't do that.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. It was... I, I didn't have a lot of... I, I, you know, again, I was, uh, you know, there's... I'm not gonna make excuses. I just didn't have a lot of friends growing-
- LHLewis Howes
You just kinda like a quirky kid, or you just didn't fit in?
- JCJesse Cole
I think I was... And so what I learned was, uh, when I had opportunities around people to try to make the most of them. And so when I was around my, the, my teammates, I would try to, try to get like, "Hey, let's have fun. Let's do this." And I started... So I started building friends. But like when I was young, I was just, you know, I just wasn't around a lot of people. I, I was in a neighborhood, there were no kids that in, and I just, I didn't... I don't know. I wasn't great at it. But I learned 'cause I was... I didn't wanna feel like I didn't matter, you know? Like, I was just... So I started really working hard to create attention, to get excitement. I mean, I-
- LHLewis Howes
Of course
- JCJesse Cole
... I think I got 26 detentions in seventh grade, you know. I did, I did, I would did anything to try to-
- LHLewis Howes
Were you like the joker kid then? Getting detentions.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, I joked. I was trying to have fun. I was just always trying to have fun.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
And so I, I think what I realized is I felt alive when I felt seen, heard, and that I mattered. And so what the opposite of that is feeling irrelevant. And so when I think about, uh, now what we create, I want every single fan, everyone to feel loved, to feel seen, to feel heard. Um, you know, my dad, who I have the closest relationship in the world with, and, um, you know, he didn't use the word love when I was a kid, so I never really received that.
- LHLewis Howes
He didn't say, "I love you"?
- JCJesse Cole
He didn't say, "I love you." And now we say it every day. [laughs] Uh, we have a different, uh-
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- JCJesse Cole
But I didn't get that. And so... And, you know, my birth mother wasn't in the picture as well, so I just didn't, I didn't, didn't have that. And so I think I've always searched for feeling that love. And so at the end of the night, being around fans, being around our team, coming back in and having our fans first talk with all of our closest people, I feel alive then, 'cause I feel-
- LHLewis Howes
A lot, a lot of love
- JCJesse Cole
... I feel a lot of love of what we just did and how we did it together.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
And so that feeling of irrelevance or feeling like you didn't do anything that matters, yeah, um, uh, that's, that's gonna be, uh, something that drives me, and I think I've channeled it to be a very positive-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- 41:49 – 49:48
Fostering Children & Marriage
- LHLewis Howes
like with your wife? Because I know she's obviously-
- JCJesse Cole
She's everything
- LHLewis Howes
... owner with you.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
You know, she's been, you know-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... on, uh, the air mattress with you going for this crazy dream.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Baseball wasn't her first love, I'm assuming. It wasn't like-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... "I wanna go start a baseball team when I'm an adult," you know. She's really kind of supported you-
- JCJesse Cole
But-
- LHLewis Howes
... on this journey.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. Well, well, and yeah, she's supported everyone. She's-
- LHLewis Howes
Right, right, right
- JCJesse Cole
... she's the heart of our organization-
- LHLewis Howes
Of course
- JCJesse Cole
... and the core in many ways. Um-
- LHLewis Howes
But what i- what is your... And I know she does a lot of... You guys have foster kids.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
I know every game she's a big part of-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... giving back in a-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... in a big way. Um, how have you fallen in love with her more-
- JCJesse Cole
Mm
- LHLewis Howes
... since you guys have been on this journey-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... from taking over in 2015 to taking over and recreating-
- JCJesse Cole
[laughs]
- 49:48 – 59:22
Balancing Family and the Tour
- JCJesse Cole
and, and there could be, there could be resentment in different ways. Like, I'm like, you know-
- LHLewis Howes
She's out having fun and you're-
- JCJesse Cole
Well, she's right now with the kids in, in Greece experiences, and I was there for the first week, but I had to fly back for the SPs and do all these things, and it's like, and, and then she see me, you know, play, do all these things. And so there can be that, but, but what happens is, um, when you ... It's how you view things is how you do things. I believe that more than anything. And so every night, uh, we send our roses and our, and our buds. So the roses is something great that happened during the day, and a bud is something that, uh, you're looking forward to. And so normally we'll FaceTime or call, but if we're in completely different time, which we are now 10 hours different, um, you know, we'll text it to each other. And we're constantly sharing the good in the day. We're constantly sharing what we're looking forward to. And I believe that so much. So many people talk about all the negative things, and you see it all over social media. Em was, Em's like, "I love social media," 'cause all she gets is positive. That's what we look for.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, me too.
- JCJesse Cole
It's what, it's what you seek out. I love it. I'm not getting negative politics. I'm getting positive stuff.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
And so how do we keep the connection? You know, we really focus on the good. We talk about the joy. We don't hide away from things that are hard. We talk about it. But then when we get together, we really lean in. You know, when I went, was with Greece with the kids, I literally shut down work for a little bit. I was like, "I'm gonna be here. I'm gonna be fully present." Um, and-
- LHLewis Howes
Did you have to miss a game or did you miss any games?
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, I, I, I miss games. We have six teams playing, Lewis. I miss games with every-
- LHLewis Howes
So who's running the production to make sure that your vision is being executed at the highest level-
- JCJesse Cole
We-
- LHLewis Howes
... without you there?
- JCJesse Cole
We have hundreds. I mean, so, so, like, we have show callers for every team.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay.
- JCJesse Cole
We have lead vice pre- marketing. We have video. We have creative. We've, we've had a team that we've been working together, like a core team, for six, seven, eight years. And so yeah, it might not be 100% at the l- level that I would see it, but if you get it 90% and you-
- LHLewis Howes
Can't scale if it's, yeah
- JCJesse Cole
... you gotta keep learning and growing. So yeah, so I, I, I miss a lot of games. I miss, you know, more than sometimes I'd like. But if you're, if you're with your family and you're growing that together, I don't want my kids to ... This is where I get, can get emotional, get tough for me and my kids to feel like, you know, Daddy's just at another game.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
And you know, I remember when we were outside of Greece and, you know, Maverick goes, "Daddy, when are you coming back?"
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
Because, you know, I plan once I was going and right when they came back is meet them, so.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
Uh, but they don't know this right now, but I planned-
- LHLewis Howes
You'll go back
- JCJesse Cole
... planned a, planned a surprise trip-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah
- JCJesse Cole
... after that. And so, uh, so they'll surprise trip, and I'm not telling them. I'll turn my location services off for 12 hours and, and show up and because those, those are the moments that really matter.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
And so I will miss more games to go be there for them, and so my kids can know that they do matter most.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow, man.
- 59:22 – 1:12:20
Why He Will Never Sell
- LHLewis Howes
you? Would there ever be a world where you'd sell, go public, or take a minority sale, like let someone buy a piece of it?
- JCJesse Cole
Never.
- LHLewis Howes
Never. What would it, what would have to happen?
- JCJesse Cole
Th- th- th- th- w- th- there, there's nothing. There's nothing. And again, like I, I know that's crazy and, and, uh, people will say that's BS because, well, they're, they're playing on a different system. They're playing a different game.
- LHLewis Howes
They're playing for money.
- JCJesse Cole
They're playing for money. You know, we're fortunate, we, we built our business to be healthy. We're healthy. We're able to take care of our people at a level that I never even imagined. But, like, I love this so much. There's a different purpose. There's a joy. We show up every day. I get to do what I love, and so does hundreds of people. When you see the joy of our staff, you watch some of our-
- LHLewis Howes
Wow
- JCJesse Cole
... our sideline staff, they're dancing throughout the game. They're having fun. Are you ... Do you get to dance in your job and just have fun and be with people that appreciate you? And so we sell it, what happens? All that changes.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
Their goals change. They wanna make money. They will take away all the things that really matter to our team, that matter to our fans, trying to make a little bit more money.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
You'll start adding sponsorships everywhere, doing TV rights, doing, "Hey, Jesse, there's no reason you're doing, you're paying everyone's taxes. Everyone charges taxes. Just w- just do that." No. [laughs] No. "You just charge shipping, Jesse. Everyone charges shipping."
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
"Just do it." No.
- LHLewis Howes
Oh.
- JCJesse Cole
"Ticket fees, convenience fees, just do it. Hey, doesn't matter, people, the fans are used to it. Just do it." They'd keep saying that over and over again 'cause it's hundreds of millions of dollars. But it's no, it's what best for fans.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
You want your people to be fired up every day for who they work for and what they stand for. And our business is fans first entertainment. That's who we are.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
We live by that decision. As soon as you start making decisions that aren't for your fans-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm
- JCJesse Cole
... you lose all that You lose the people that helped build this from nothing, from selling two tickets. And so the-
- LHLewis Howes
You lose the mission. You lose the mission. Yeah
- JCJesse Cole
The mission, the purpose, the drive, everything. And it happens. Look at the amount of companies that have gone private equity and they change.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
An unbelievable book, Incorruptible by Eric Reeves. He shared it. He shared all these companies. It's ... You can just look at it. They were this company, and then they sold, and this is what happened. There's very few. There's very few out there. And so I just, uh, there's not one model in my world. I hope that I can have this till the day I die. I hope our family, I hope the people that understand what matters the most. I wanna put some kinda structure that no matter what you do, you have to do it for the fans. I wanna figure out that I'll probably try to lock it up in a crazy way to keep control, so someone, whoever does try to say, "You know, well, just, hey, there's $100 million here," I don't care.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
Keep us healthy, but if you run a business for the right reasons and do the right th- right things, your fans will repay you. And our fans have taken care of us more than you imagined.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
The merchandise, the tickets. We have a wait list that's now approaching five million.
- 1:12:20 – 1:23:22
Scaling Without Diluting Fans
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... by 2028-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... in one year-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... without raising the price-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... how would you do it?
- JCJesse Cole
I wouldn't do it, and here's why. Because you would, you would, uh, dilute your product. You'd water down. So what, what happens is, so we have six teams now.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- JCJesse Cole
And I'm proud of these shows. They've sold out everywhere, but they're not at the level that the Bananas, we built that for 11 years. And so, you know, they're getting their-
- LHLewis Howes
It's a machine.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, but, but, like, the Party Animals, they're selling out Major League stadiums without the Bananas.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- JCJesse Cole
They have more followers-
- LHLewis Howes
Who do they play against then?
- JCJesse Cole
Well, we've got the Firefighters-
- LHLewis Howes
Oh
- JCJesse Cole
... the Tailgaters-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- JCJesse Cole
... the Coconuts, and the Clowns. We got six teams in a league.
- LHLewis Howes
They play the, the-
- JCJesse Cole
They play the other teams. They-
- LHLewis Howes
They play you guys too, the Savannah Bananas.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. It, it's a league.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
We play a 60-game schedule. So the question would be if you try to go to 10 million in two years, what you would have to do is you would have to dilute, and you take away your focus, and you would water down. You'd have to add some more teams. You'd have to play at bigger venues.
- LHLewis Howes
The product would be worse.
- JCJesse Cole
I would not do that.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah.
- 1:23:22 – 1:34:26
Bringing Broadway to Baseball
- LHLewis Howes
So you're rehearsing it where? At the stadium?
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, so, so, so every show starts, it's exactly like Saturday Night Live, and I've taken so much inspiration from them.
- LHLewis Howes
So it's all week you're rehearsing.
- JCJesse Cole
You start, you, you lis- you start on Tuesday.
- LHLewis Howes
Tuesday, ideas, Wednesday.
- JCJesse Cole
All the ideas, you start, then you have your table read, then you probably have your-
- LHLewis Howes
And you probably got some set things that you're gonna do. You're like, "All right, we have..." Or is it all new?
- JCJesse Cole
No, you start from scratch.
- LHLewis Howes
It's all new?
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, yeah. So, so you have, so-
- LHLewis Howes
You have, like, guys walk-off songs, right? You have different people.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, you have your regular hits.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
Like, we, we do Hey Baby, It's a Banana, and we do that every game.
- LHLewis Howes
So you have-
- JCJesse Cole
We have some romance, but all of the-
- LHLewis Howes
50% is standard.
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, yeah, but Tuesday is all brand-new.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
And so for instance, we have six shows, and so we're doing-
- LHLewis Howes
Every weekend?
- JCJesse Cole
Uh, yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Every season.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah. So, like, so you, if you have, if you have two games a weekend, you have six shows. If we have three games a weekend, we have nine shows, and you're doing 10 to 15 brand new every night. So we do 100 brand-new things. So Tuesday, all the idea sessions all day, then we start writing the scripts, the blocking, the choreography. Start doing rehearsal in Savannah for maybe that Wednesday, then we fly.
- LHLewis Howes
Everyone's in Savannah?
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, all six teams are in Savannah.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah, we had to figure that one out, too. That was hard.
- LHLewis Howes
So they're all rehearsing and practicing during the week.
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, yeah, we, on one field. We had to figure that one out, yeah.
- 1:34:26 – 1:47:21
Three Truths & Greatness
- LHLewis Howes
Um, this one's called the three truths. Imagine it's your last day on earth many years away.
- JCJesse Cole
Yep.
- LHLewis Howes
And you get to create and manifest everything you want in this life, from personal to-
- JCJesse Cole
Yep
- LHLewis Howes
... to Banana Ball, to everything. It comes true.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Beyond your wildest dreams. Imagine six years ago-
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... when you did your first game to where it is now, how much it's grown, and imagine 50 years from now where it could be.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
But on your last day, you have to take all of your information with you.
- JCJesse Cole
Yep.
- LHLewis Howes
This conversation, your books, anything you ever say.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Video's gone.
- JCJesse Cole
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
But you get to leave behind three lessons to the world.
- JCJesse Cole
Oh, geez. Yeah, yeah. You've asked if I ... Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
You only get to leave behind three lessons that we would get to remember-
- JCJesse Cole
Mm
- LHLewis Howes
... of your content. What would those three truths be for you?
- JCJesse Cole
Hmm. Uh, yeah, I mean, I, I, I go back to, you know, the first thing we ever put on our Fans First playbook. I wrote, "Be patient in what you want for yourself, but be impatient in how much you give to others." And so-
- LHLewis Howes
Hmm. That's good
- JCJesse Cole
... I think that's something that I've, I've really learned that has, uh, been powerful for us. Um, [laughs] again, this isn't, uh, so eloquent, but do what gives you energy.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
You know, I think that's just something that I've, um... And, you know, again, there's lots of all these sayings that I, uh, I think our staff could all say all my sayings. But, you know, I, I don't wanna use those. I just like to keep things simple and, and spread joy.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- JCJesse Cole
Just spread joy, man. And it's, it's, you know, it's how you show up. How you do anything is how you do everything.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- JCJesse Cole
And if you spread joy, you bring energy, and you give to others, I think anything is possible.
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