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Feeling Lost in Your 20s? You Need to Hear This

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — These 6 pieces of advice are exactly what you need to hear. And buckle up, because today, Mel is not holding back. If you’re feeling lost in your 20s, this episode is your roadmap to making this decade better than you ever imagined. Whether you’re in your 20s, love someone who is, or just feel behind in life, this episode is for you. Mel is pulling back the curtain on what nobody tells you about your 20s. It’s normal to feel lost. You are not alone. And in this episode, she’s giving you the truths, mindset shifts, and tools you need to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and self-compassion. You’ll learn: -The 3 massive identity shifts that hit in your 20s (and why you feel so lost) -Why you're stuck in the paradox of choice, and how to break through it -What “the great scattering” is and why it explains everything about your 20s -The truth about decision-making (hint: there are no wrong choices) -A one-month challenge to help you get unstuck and build momentum, fast No matter your age, this episode will reframe how you think about your timeline, your purpose, and your next move. The truth is that no matter what decade of your life you are in, you can make it the best one, and this advice will help you do it. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-303/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 0:00 Welcome 6:31 The Great Scattering 15:49 Why it’s So Hard to Make a Decision in Your 20’s 23:19 How to Support The 20 Somethings in Your Life 26:28 The Pressure to Do Everything at Once 33:37 You Don’t Need to Do It All in Your 20s 37:32 How to Be a Better Decision Maker 44:45 Here’s Your Next Step to Get Unstuck in Your 20s — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

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June 30, 2025
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53m
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The Mel Robbins Podcast
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Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — These 6 pieces of advice are exactly what you need to hear. And buckle up, because today, Mel is not holding back. If you’re feeling lost in your 20s, this episode is your roadmap to making this decade better than you ever imagined. Whether you’re in your 20s, love someone who is, or just feel behind in life, this episode is for you. Mel is pulling back the curtain on what nobody tells you about your 20s. It’s normal to feel lost. You are not alone. And in this episode, she’s giving you the truths, mindset shifts, and tools you need to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and self-compassion. You’ll learn: -The 3 massive identity shifts that hit in your 20s (and why you feel so lost) -Why you're stuck in the paradox of choice, and how to break through it -What “the great scattering” is and why it explains everything about your 20s -The truth about decision-making (hint: there are no wrong choices) -A one-month challenge to help you get unstuck and build momentum, fast No matter your age, this episode will reframe how you think about your timeline, your purpose, and your next move. The truth is that no matter what decade of your life you are in, you can make it the best one, and this advice will help you do it. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-303/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 0:00 Welcome 6:31 The Great Scattering 15:49 Why it’s So Hard to Make a Decision in Your 20’s 23:19 How to Support The 20 Somethings in Your Life 26:28 The Pressure to Do Everything at Once 33:37 You Don’t Need to Do It All in Your 20s 37:32 How to Be a Better Decision Maker 44:45 Here’s Your Next Step to Get Unstuck in Your 20s — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

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EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, featuring Mel Robbins, Feeling Lost in Your 20s? You Need to Hear This explores mel Robbins Redefines Your Twenties: From Lost and Lonely To Intentional Mel Robbins explains why feeling lost in your twenties is normal and rooted in three big forces: the “Great Scattering” of friends and timelines, the paralysis of endless choices, and crushing pressure to “do it all” before 30.

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