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The Mel Robbins PodcastThis Life-Changing Conversation Will Help You Make Peace With Who You Are
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At a glance
WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
From War-Torn Childhood To Healing Voice: Embracing You Fully
- Mel Robbins interviews musician Monrovia, whose life spans civil war in Liberia, adoption into an American family, addiction, and eventual healing through music. He shares how journaling and songwriting became a safe place to process trauma, shame, survivor’s guilt, and questions of identity. The conversation centers on the idea that life includes suffering, but none of it cancels your belonging or the meaning of your time here. Monrovia offers a framework of “continuing,” reframing guilt as growth and gifts as something meant to be given, to help listeners make peace with who they are.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasYour life is meant, even when it’s full of suffering.
Monrovia repeatedly emphasizes that pain and hardship do not disqualify you from belonging; your presence here is intentional, and you have an important part to play despite what you’ve endured.
Use memory as fuel for continuation, not proof you should quit.
When you feel like giving up, look back at what you’ve already survived; remembering past resilience can anchor the belief that you can make it through current struggles as well.
Create a safe, quiet space to face your truth.
For him, journaling and music were private, judgment-free places to process war, adoption, and conception by violence; he suggests everyone find their own quiet medium to honestly confront their story.
Transform “I deserve to suffer” into “I get to grow.”
He describes being “in love with his suffering,” believing he deserved pain; the turning point was reframing guilt into opportunities for small, steady growth and choosing better actions day by day.
Notice and accept the hands that are extended toward you.
Healing accelerated when he finally accepted his adoptive father’s invitation to rebuild a house in California; he urges listeners to recognize the people who keep showing up and let them help.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesLife is full of suffering, but it doesn't take away from you belonging in it.
— Monrovia
Talking about my stories and the music, all I do it for is for you to know that your time here is meant.
— Monrovia
If you stop now, you'll never know the groups of people that are waiting to bring you into that fold or the lives that you're going to impact.
— Monrovia
From violence, still beautiful things can come.
— Monrovia
You just deserve to be happy. No matter what has happened, you deserve to be happy.
— Monrovia
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