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The Mel Robbins PodcastLeaky Bladder, Pelvic Floor, UTIs, & Constipation: Dr. Rena Malik Gives Solutions To Get Control
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Pelvic Floor Secrets: Stop Leaks, UTIs, Constipation, and Take Control
- Mel Robbins and urologist Dr. Rena Malik unpack how the pelvic floor—a core set of muscles supporting bladder, bowel, and sexual function—is central to quality of life but widely misunderstood and ignored.
- They differentiate what’s common versus truly normal in issues like urinary leakage, overactive bladder, constipation, pelvic pain, and recurrent UTIs, emphasizing that these are treatable medical conditions, not personal failures.
- The conversation covers root causes (childbirth, genetics, tight vs. weak muscles, constipation, prostate enlargement, lifestyle factors), practical first-line strategies (pelvic floor physical therapy, Kegels when appropriate, diet, hydration, irritant reduction), and when to seek specialist care.
- Overall, the message is that shame keeps people suffering for years, but early evaluation and simple interventions can often prevent surgery, restore function, and dramatically improve confidence and daily life.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasCommon does not mean normal—and most pelvic floor problems are treatable.
Leaking urine, urgency, constipation, pain with sex, or recurrent UTIs are extremely common but not physiologically “normal.” They usually signal modifiable pelvic floor or related issues that a urologist, urogynecologist, or pelvic floor specialist can address.
Understand your pelvic floor before you try to “strengthen” it.
The pelvic floor is a layered bowl of muscles that support organs, control sphincters, aid stability, orgasm, and lymph flow. Because problems can stem from weakness or excess tightness, self-prescribing Kegels without an evaluation may help, do nothing, or worsen symptoms.
Quality of life is the real threshold for seeking help.
If leaking, urgency, nighttime peeing, pain, or constipation make you avoid activities, alter your social life, or feel ashamed, that alone is reason to see a specialist—even if nothing feels “life-threatening” in the traditional medical sense.
Pelvic floor physical therapy is often the best first-line intervention.
Certified pelvic floor PTs can assess whether your muscles are weak or tight, teach you correct Kegels and relaxation/stretching techniques, and guide safe progressions—often improving symptoms enough to avoid surgery, especially when started early.
Lifestyle tweaks can significantly reduce bladder and UTI problems.
Managing constipation, moderating caffeine and alcohol, quitting smoking, adjusting fluid timing, walking more, increasing fiber, and losing excess weight (around 8% body weight if overweight) can reduce urinary urgency, frequency, leakage, and UTI risk by meaningful margins.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesThese things that we're gonna learn about and talk about today are not necessarily normal. They're very common, but they're not necessarily normal.
— Dr. Rena Malik
You don't have to suffer in silence. You don't have to just live with it.
— Dr. Rena Malik
It is extremely devastating, and we just like, 'Oh, everyone leaks a little.' Like, we just sort of brush it off like it's nothing.
— Dr. Rena Malik
My whole fricking life changed once I finally got the sling.
— Mel Robbins
You're worth it and you deserve to take time for yourself to take care of your body.
— Dr. Rena Malik
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