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The Mel Robbins PodcastOne Powerful Hack to Live a Meaningful Life | The Mel Robbins Podcast
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Mel Robbins Reveals Tattoo Story And Mantra Hack For Meaningful Living
- Mel Robbins and her husband Chris share the personal stories behind their tattoos—Mel’s “It shall be” and Chris’s “One gate”—and how these phrases became lifelong anchors during years of debt, addiction recovery, career change, and family upheaval.
- Using these stories, Mel introduces the concept of “meaningful mantras” and environmental triggers—simple visual cues like tattoos, Post-it notes, or photos—that help you access courage, optimism, and resilience in hard moments.
- She emphasizes that mantras only work if you genuinely believe them, suggesting people choose phrases they can authentically get behind rather than forced, overly positive affirmations.
- The episode culminates in a practical assignment: identify a personal mantra that reflects who you’re becoming, write it somewhere visible, and use it as a daily lifeline rather than just passive inspiration.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasChoose a mantra you genuinely believe, not one you wish you believed.
Overly positive affirmations like “I love my body” can backfire if your lived thoughts and behavior contradict them; instead, pick phrases like “I’m trying my best” or “I deserve kindness” that your brain doesn’t argue with.
Use environmental triggers to keep your mantra in sight and in mind.
Visual cues—tattoos, Post-it notes, a photo with a caption on your bulletin board—act as “environmental triggers” that automatically prompt supportive thoughts and behaviors when you see them.
Let your mantra reflect process, not perfection or the end result.
Phrases like Chris’s “One gate” or “One day at a time” shift your focus from anxiety about outcomes to taking the next small step, which is especially helpful when you’re scared or overwhelmed.
Create a phrase as if it’s spoken by your future self to you now.
Imagining the person you’re becoming reassuring the current you—saying things like “I believe in you” or “Keep going, it’s worth it”—can make the mantra feel more trustworthy and motivating.
Test-drive any potential mantra before making it ‘permanent.’
Treat your phrase like a piece of clothing: write it on a Post-it, your mirror, or even your skin with a Sharpie and live with it for a while to see if it still feels true and supportive over time.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesA mantra is only gonna work if you believe intrinsically in what the mantra means.
— Mel Robbins
My dad helped me see the race differently by constantly suggesting that I just take it one gate at a time.
— Chris Robbins
These three words, ‘It shall be,’ reminded me that this is just a moment, and like all moments, this will pass.
— Mel Robbins
Think about the future you, the person that you want to become, and let the future you give the present you that assurance and that advice.
— Mel Robbins
I am perfect the way I am… who I am is who I am.
— Chris Robbins
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