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The Mel Robbins PodcastThe #1 Journal Exercise to Become the Person You’ve Always Wanted to Be
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At a glance
WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Unlock Happiness: Mel Robbins’ Simple Journaling Portal To Past Joy
- Mel Robbins introduces a deceptively simple journaling exercise that uses memories of past happiness as a “portal” to design a happier present life. By dividing a page into “happy me” and “current me,” you identify concrete daily habits, environments, and relationships that made you feel more alive before. The method emphasizes finding just one small, actionable “clue” from that happier time and reintroducing it now, instead of chasing dramatic life-overhauls. Robbins also addresses people with traumatic or unhappy pasts, explaining how their memories can still offer powerful clues about what *not* to repeat and what to heal.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasUse your past as a map, not a place to live.
Close your eyes, recall a period when you felt happier, and treat that memory as a reference point to identify what worked for you—rather than something you can never get back.
Do the ‘Happy Me vs. Current Me’ split-page exercise.
On one side, describe in detail a typical week from a happier time; on the other, describe your current week. Comparing the two reveals clear, practical behaviors and routines you can reintroduce now.
Look for just one small clue to act on today.
Instead of overwhelming yourself with total reinvention, identify a single element—like walking daily, dancing, journaling in a café, or time with friends—and add that back into your life to spark momentum.
Happiness is built from small, repeated daily actions.
Robbins stresses that joy usually comes from little things—sleep patterns, movement, creative outlets, social contact, time outdoors—not dramatic moves like quitting your job or moving cities.
If your past wasn’t happy, mine it for ‘never again’ lessons.
Even if your memories are dominated by trauma, they still reveal patterns—like people-pleasing or living in constant survival mode—that you must actively heal and change to create future happiness.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesYou do know how to be happy. That’s why you miss feeling it.
— Mel Robbins
There’s the world that you’re in right now and another world that you can access when you close your eyes and you ask yourself, ‘When do I remember being happier?’
— Mel Robbins
You think you need to permanently escape your life in order to be happier… No, you don’t.
— Mel Robbins
Even if the world that you travel back to is one where you don’t see yourself being happy, there are still clues.
— Mel Robbins
Stop over-complicating big words like ‘happiness.’ Happiness is the smallest things.
— Mel Robbins
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