Modern WisdomControlling The World's Social Media | Dominic McGregor
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Inside Social Chain’s “meme factory”: what the company actually does
- CWChris Williamson
(wind blowing) So Dominic McGregor, welcome to Modern Wisdom. How are you?
- DMDominic McGregor
Good, thank you. How are you?
- CWChris Williamson
Very good, thank you.
- DMDominic McGregor
Good drive?
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah, yeah (laughs) , good drive down from Newcastle to Manchester in the rain. Just typical British weather.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Um, so, (sighs) it's c- it's crazy to come into this office, which is several thousand square feet and looks like a labyrinth, um, with sleeping pods and a bar and a fully functioning kitchen-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... with a chef in, and all the rest of it. And this is where memes are made-
- DMDominic McGregor
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
... that, that run around the UK, right?
- DMDominic McGregor
It's, it's the meme factory, yeah. We, uh, I don't, I don't, I didn't like that title, um, but-
- CWChris Williamson
I saw in that article, like-
- DMDominic McGregor
(laughs) .
- CWChris Williamson
Was it on the, was it on The Guardian?
- DMDominic McGregor
It was The Guardian, yeah. Um, and it just called us the meme factory, which we are. You know, we, uh, we make a lot of, a lot of content here. But, um, yeah, a little bit about us. So we started, um, in the room next door with, like, a white table. It's like the same one that we're on here.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
There was, the only thing is there was four of them, one for every single person. And we were sat, and I think these are, like, very similar to the white tables we had.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
We, we got them as a li- little bit of a memory. Um, and we, um, were working in the room, starting Social Chain, which is a marketing agency.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- 1:18 – 2:40
Owning the audience: 400 million reach and why communities matter
- DMDominic McGregor
And it took us, you know, three or four months to really find out that we were actually in, on to something. And what was different between us and any other marketing agency, is we own big communities.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
So we own big social media pages from Student Problems, SPARF, Love Food, uh, BFIT Motivation, uh, and we went and worked with brands on them communities.
- CWChris Williamson
So I'm right in saying that you guys have got access to about 400 million people, is that right?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
The total combined reach-
- DMDominic McGregor
Across Facebook and-
- CWChris Williamson
... is about 400 million people?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Across the world.
- CWChris Williamson
Which is-
- DMDominic McGregor
We have followers in, like, Taiwan-
- CWChris Williamson
Fucking stupid.
- DMDominic McGregor
... everywhere.
- CWChris Williamson
Like, what? Like, who's got 400 million of anything?
- DMDominic McGregor
I know.
- CWChris Williamson
Like (laughs) it's just crazy.
- DMDominic McGregor
When you put it into a graphic, it's, like, ridiculous. Like-
- CWChris Williamson
It's terrifying.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
But f- so, uh, I found out about you guys about two years ago from one of my best mates who actually works for you.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
And what he explained to me about Social Chain at the time, felt absolutely ground-breaking, that you guys have access to the network.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
You understand the platform.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
And then you do the creative?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
And for me, I was like, "How has no one come up with this before?" Because influencers have been around for, what, like, five, ten years? Or-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... I guess five years kind of really prevalently.
- 2:40 – 3:38
How Student Problems started (toilet paper, Twitter, and rapid traction)
- CWChris Williamson
What was the first page that you started off with?
- DMDominic McGregor
Student Problems.
- CWChris Williamson
Was it really?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
And who started that?
- DMDominic McGregor
Me.
- CWChris Williamson
You started-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... Student Problems?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
No way.
- DMDominic McGregor
So I was, I was at university in Edinburgh.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, and I went out one night. I don't know why. I honestly, it was like a really heavy night. It was like half-past five. Actually, do you know what? I think it's exactly five years ago today.
- CWChris Williamson
No way.
- DMDominic McGregor
I think, I think. I'll double check, but I think it was the 7th of February.
- CWChris Williamson
That's fantastic.
- DMDominic McGregor
So I think it is. Um, went out. And woke up the next day, and had no toilet paper in my toilet.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
So instead of, you know, and literally the, the shop was down the bottom of the s- the street. I coulda walked and bought it. So instead of going and getting it, I decided to start a Twitter page and tweet about my life.
- CWChris Williamson
'Cause you didn't have any toilet paper?
- DMDominic McGregor
The fact I had no toilet paper.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
And then for the next couple of weeks, just tweeting everything that I was doing.
- CWChris Williamson
Uh-huh.
- DMDominic McGregor
Literally the, my life through my eyes.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah, yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
So, like, realizing how expensive cheese was, for example.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
Which is very expensive when you s-
- 3:38 – 7:15
From WallPark to Social Chain: cutting out the website middleman
- DMDominic McGregor
... when you've, when you move out. Um, I love cheese. And then just little things like that, and then it got to, like, 20,000 followers in the space of two weeks. And then, um, Steve got in touch with me 'cause he was running a website which was like Coventry for Students.
- CWChris Williamson
Okay.
- DMDominic McGregor
It was called WallPark.
- CWChris Williamson
Right.
- DMDominic McGregor
And, um, he was kind of just doing the traditional mark- traditional marketing methods by leaflets and nightclubs and, uh-
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
... everything else people do to try and reach students. And, um, took a step back of it and actually realized that so- that social is where students were spending their attention.
- CWChris Williamson
Absolutely.
- DMDominic McGregor
Looked on Twitter for students. Student Problems came up, emailed me. We met in Vodka Revs in York for about an hour, had a chat. And then after that conversation, I'd, I dropped out university, moved to Manchester, started working at WallPark with him. And then we just built, built more and more social media pages till the point where we got about 10 million driving, traffic to WallPark. Realized that, you know what? One day we're gonna have to get money from advertisers.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
We could drive a million people to WallPark, but we've got 10 million people on social. Why would advertisers wanna be on a website when they can just be on the social media pages?
- CWChris Williamson
You can build a directing cut out the middle man.
- DMDominic McGregor
Exactly. So we started putting brands on social, got rid of the website, traveled the world, found more people who ran big social pages, like Hannah who ran Hogwarts Logic, which is the biggest Harry Potter page.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
Got them all together, put them in the warehouse here, um, and just, we've just tried to see if this was something, and it was.
- CWChris Williamson
It definitely feels like it is, doesn't it?
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
It's, it's cra- it's absolutely mad that you guys are at the forefront of a wave of s- social media, not in terms of adoption but more in terms of how it's, how the use from marketing is being delivered to people.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Um, I think that, that organic, genuinely creative adding value kind of content.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah. I think, I think it's, um, meaningful.
- CWChris Williamson
Yes.
- DMDominic McGregor
People, people we, us generation, I'm pretty sure everyone's got ad, ad blockers-
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
... on their laptop, they're, they're sick of telling, being told what to do by brands. Um, you know, our, our whole f- thing is now about how brands can actually form a connection-
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
... and care about their consumers. And, and we know as people, individuals ourselves, what we purchase now actually depends much more on what the brand says about us-
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
... rather than anything, rather than quality, rather than, um, cost in some instances.
- CWChris Williamson
We self-brand with everything.
- 7:15 – 8:57
Naming and launching Social Chain: travel, consulting, and the first investment
- CWChris Williamson
And, is that, where do you, when did you begin the actual, um, brand of Social Chain? When did that start?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. So we were at Wall Park for about, Steve was, Steve started it when he was, um, 18, so he was doing it for about three years, I was there for about a year.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, and then when we sold that back to the investors, we had a bit of time out, where we went traveling the world.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, we had, there was this kind of talk of Social Chain, we came up with the name pretty early on when we still at Wall Park, but-
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
... it didn't mean anything.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, we were like, this is like Social Chain, so there's a chain of pages, you know, this, this is what it is, it's our social chain, it's what's driving people to Wall Park. And then we went to Thailand, uh, went to Brazil, New York, did a, you know, a bit of living.
- CWChris Williamson
Not bad fact-finding, that.
- DMDominic McGregor
No, not bad, no, we were, we were doing up our market research. (laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
21, 20, we did actually spend some time in Silicon Valley doing some consulting-
- CWChris Williamson
Actually did do some work.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, we did do some work, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
Uh, we went to the World Cup in Brazil, which was cool.
- CWChris Williamson
That's sick.
- DMDominic McGregor
That was really good, yeah. Um, but I thought it was gonna be full of girls, but it was the World Cup and it was just men-
- CWChris Williamson
Full of blokes.
- DMDominic McGregor
... full of blokes everywhere.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
Argentinians everywhere.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
Which was cool, but-
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah. Nice for a while, but-
- DMDominic McGregor
... was when you're 20, when you're 21 and you go to Brazil for the first time, you're expecting like-
- CWChris Williamson
Something different.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- 8:57 – 11:09
Signature campaigns and engineered virality (billboards, stunts, Facebook Live)
- CWChris Williamson
That's crazy. And to get from there to now, accessing 400 million people, um, can you think of a top three favorite campaigns that you guys have done?
- DMDominic McGregor
Hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
Anything that springs to mind that people might not...
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. We did, um, the one, the one most people know is we did a campaign, um, where we hijacked a billboard in Manchester and put Welcome to Zlatan when Zlatan Ibrahimović signed for Man United.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
That was pretty well known. Uh, but we've done some really cool things in, um, the stuff I like that we've done is a little bit more underground.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
So we've done some really cool campaigns with Sky Bet, um, where we filmed two grands doing, taking part in Super 6, which was pretty cool.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
And it's kind of shown the e- use case of the app. Um, and then I think, you know, go back to the crazy side of things, we blew up a VW Beetle, super dry, on Halloween.
- CWChris Williamson
Right.
- DMDominic McGregor
Which was pretty fun.
- CWChris Williamson
Was that on Facebook Live or something?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, Facebook Live, yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Was that one of the ones where press fire to do it?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah, press fire.
- CWChris Williamson
Okay.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. Did you see it?
- CWChris Williamson
Um, I saw, I th- did you guys do the one, was it Pretty Little Thing?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah. Which was like a, was that maybe a balloon?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah, we did a balloon. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Um-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... so I've seen, I saw the one for that.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, we blew, we've blown a couple of things up.
- CWChris Williamson
And that's like one of the most highly engaged-
- DMDominic McGregor
Engaged live streams, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... ever.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, 2.5 million views, about a million comments.
- 11:09 – 13:09
Personal branding and “audit your social”: using platforms intentionally
- CWChris Williamson
So everyone that's listening will use social media to some extent.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
And a lot of people will use it by, in one form or another, to either raise their profile, which is, uh, brings them some sort of equity back.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
Um, or, like myself, it becomes kind of a little bit more of a brand and is directly associated with what your company's doing.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
Are there any, are there any principles that you think that you've found out that people should be using on social media? Because it's very easy to get caught up-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... and we'll go into this in a second, it's very easy to get caught up and distracted on social media 'cause that's the purpose of it.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
But in terms of trying to use it effectively, I mean, I'm gonna guess adding, uh, producing content that adds value, whether it's personally or commercially?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. I think, I think, um, what you touched on there in terms of like personal branding.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
Everyone's really got to understand where social fits into their life. Um, it's like a shop window for who you are as a person, so you really need to, um, if you want to, some people don't want to do this, but if you want to, like, use it to your advantage-
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
... um, and really like showcase you as an individual or, you know, what you're trying to achieve in your life and your journey, you've got to just think about what you want it to, how you want it to come across.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
And I think, uh, some people are on the other side of the coin, they just wanna use it to-
- CWChris Williamson
... in touch with our friends and stuff like that.
- DMDominic McGregor
Keeping, keeping friends, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
But yeah, my, my, my mum does it. She's got one friend on Facebook and it's me.
- DMDominic McGregor
Is it? Oh.
- CWChris Williamson
And she, she, like, um, will message backwards and forwards and send videos.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
And the usage of it'll be really heavy-
- DMDominic McGregor
But it's-
- CWChris Williamson
... but incredibly narrow. (laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. My gran's the same, she's got 30, like, 30 friends and it's just all her family.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
But every time I post anything, I get like 10 likes because I've got my mum, my dad, my gran, my grandad, my aunt. It's like...
- 13:09 – 16:47
The ethics of attention: dopamine design, addiction, and youth vulnerability
- CWChris Williamson
No, I, I, I agree. Um, so I think one of the things that I wanna talk about today is the ethical use of time on social media.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
Um, it's, as far as I'm concerned, an emerging topic at the moment.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
I wouldn't say that it's been tremendously widespread yet. Um, but Sam Harris and a guy called Tristan Harris who was product philosopher at Google did a really famous podcast about three months ago. You can find it on Sam Harris's podcast, Waking Up, on iTunes, if you wanna have a listen yourself, and timewellspent.com is Tristan Harris's website. And on that, what he discusses is the cognitive biases that are being leveraged by apps and-
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
... by, um, developers in order to keep people's time on site.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
And they say that there's only so many hours in the day and that YouTube is competing with Facebook, is competing with Netflix, is competing with everything-
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
... to try and maximize the time on site. So, I wanted to ask yourself, as someone who is driving engaging content online, which means that people's time on site and time on screen will be increased, do you... have you got any concerns about this?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, I think taking a step back also is we are, um, very, as, is it humans or animals? So we are very influenced by, like, social and you can see it on games like Candy Crush, the way they reward the kind of dopamine levels with their hits and their, like, re- you know. All that is designed towards keeping people addicted. Um, I am under the strong belief that, um, from two sides of the coin really. As a publisher, people always consume content. It's always been the same. We've had the same issues with, with TV to an extent. Not more of the, um, addiction side of things but with the kind of, um... I guess you have got small population with TV, you know, you do find people who are very sedimentary because they're always on watching TV.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, but I think with what is the important thing about social is, um, it's the age of people again. The younger generation, these people are a lot more highly influenced. They're not as developed, they're not as, um, assured of themselves let alone th- their surroundings. So yes, I do feel kind of, um, responsible in that instance and I think more can be done to educate young people. But again, it's very difficult because they're in... they're young.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
They've got a lot of things on the plate already.
- CWChris Williamson
It's interesting because you guys have got, you've got the access.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Which is, from knowing what the company is about, I'd definitely say that everybody here, as far as I'm aware, in the company culture is an altruistic one.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
Now, if that, um, sense of genuinely caring about people's wellbeing is to the contrary of what advertisers want, I guess therein may lie a little bit more of a difficulty. But certainly for me, it doesn't feel like coming into... the guys who make global trends and social media's office, it doesn't feel like I'm stepping into some underworld cabal-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... of like people trying to desperately claw at young kids' time-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... and make them feel incredibly self-conscious online and, like, desperate for likes and things like that. There's definitely an argument to be made I think that, you know, Student Problems was born of a genuine care or a genuine interest in the topic.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
Could you argue now that that's been monetized and is being used as a commercial vehicle? But the argument is that you're still making content that's even better and is still providing the same, the same end result for users.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Do you know what I mean?
- 16:47 – 19:38
Mental health responsibility and the damage of highlight-reel culture
- DMDominic McGregor
Completely. And I think, um, with that comes massive responsibilities on the other side for us to be able to educate people. So we've recently done a, um, documentary around mental health on Student Problems where we've been... gone to Bristol University-
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
... where last year there was eight suicides.
- CWChris Williamson
Wow.
- DMDominic McGregor
Like an ap-... yeah, like, a very high number of suicides.
- CWChris Williamson
It's the number one, number one killer of men under 40.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep. It's-
- CWChris Williamson
Which is an, an absolutely terrifying topic.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
But yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
So, and you go to university, it's meant to be the best four years of your life and, you know, a lot of people, a lot of, you know, students are wanting to commit suicide. So we, we have a responsibility from that side of the fence to, yes, provide content which is entertaining and relevant but also to act as the voice of that generation, where we educate them on life, on the topics that they really need to know about as well.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
So, um, yeah, we feel like we've... I've, I've started to feel that responsibility a lot more. Um-
- CWChris Williamson
I think the, the fact is that it's emerging, right?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
You don't know... it's like when a new drug comes out onto the market, we don't know the side effects of it until it's been in circulation for a while.
- DMDominic McGregor
Sure, yep.
- CWChris Williamson
And the same thing with social media that we only realized what it was and we st- it's still emerging is what actually social media is and how all of the different platforms work, before you then move on to tech addictions.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
And...
- DMDominic McGregor
And everyone's different though as well, everyone has a different relationship with it.
- CWChris Williamson
Absolutely.
- DMDominic McGregor
So it's very difficult to, um, diagnose anyone.
- CWChris Williamson
For sure.
- DMDominic McGregor
So it's like-... and I guess if you ask someone what their relationship is, then they're always gonna tell you it's healthy. They're not gonna really, like... Because the thing is, you know, Instagram is a highlight reel. You know, you go on Instagram and you've got all your friends posting about being on holidays, so you get the feeling that you're, um, sat there at work not doing anything, so that, that... Yes, it's social media, but it has a bigger impact on your life than just the actual addiction to the phone or to the, the, you know, that side of things. It has a longer lasting effect, so.
- CWChris Williamson
It's interesting because especially with Instagram, I read this quote online which I thought was really timely, and it basically said that Instagram specifically, you compare the best of everyone else's life with the worst of yours.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Because you view your own life through a lens of, uh, complete understanding of all of your failings.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
You see, you see the blooper reel and that's what sticks.
- 19:38 – 22:56
Influencer ethics: livelihoods vs accountability and unrealistic expectations
- DMDominic McGregor
And it is funny, in, in this space, I think that influencers need to be more accountable because they're creating an unrealistic expectation of life.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
Which is more detrimental than us posting videos of cheese-
- CWChris Williamson
No. I agree.
- DMDominic McGregor
... on our page. So I think that's, that's where I think a bigger issue lies, is the responsibility of ad- of influencers to, to really, like, you know ... They're the, they're the ones that are damaging it because they're, they're showing an unrealistic lifestyle.
- CWChris Williamson
Well, theirs is more, if you're an influencer, it's a lot more of a surreptitious delivery of the brand message.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
Because it, it comes about irrelevant of whether which brand is tagged in your outfits, or what supplement's at the front of your training session, or who it is that's paid for the video production or the photo to be taken.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
People don't see that. They see, "Look at the condition of this particular guy, look at the arse on this particular girl, look at how exciting the holiday is," or, "She's on a boat again," or ...
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. And they, and they always all say, um, through their experiences and that they've had hard times when a lot of them probably haven't. They may, I'm maybe doing an injustice but some of them probably have, but they're ... I think working influencers have got quite an easy life.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
They don't know what stress is, they don't know what strain is, and they, they're painting an unrealistic expectation to young people.
- CWChris Williamson
So there's maybe ... there needs to be a code of ethics that influencers should be thinking about using when they're putting stuff online?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. I think, I think so, yeah. I think, um, it would be interesting to see the difference between someone who does follow influencers and someone who doesn't follow any influencers.
- CWChris Williamson
Absolutely.
- DMDominic McGregor
And let them judge things like a meal out, or a holiday, or like an outfit. Because if a girl ... I know it's a lot more in the female space because they are the ones that, um ... Not to sound sexist or anything, but they are, uh, more of users of social media for certain types of things.
- CWChris Williamson
I'm gonna guess you're, you're exactly in the position to know what the stats are on that as well.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. I don't have them to hand but they're much more avid users and then, uh, if you compared a girl who doesn't follow any influencers versus someone who does follow influencers, and you ask them their 10 favorite brands, you'd probably get very different answers.
- CWChris Williamson
I agree. And then probably satisfaction and, um, like you say, you're going out for a meal.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
And if you've previously in the day seen that someone was at Blue Marlin Dubai-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... one of your favorite influencers at Blue Marlin Dubai having teriyaki salmon and black cod and surrounded by million pound yachts, and then you've gone out f- on Valentine's Day to somewhere that doesn't fulfill that expectation, you're right, it's, um-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... it's not, not a tremendously positive environment at times, is it?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. And these are people you will never meet. You'll never meet.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
And that's th- what they're making you feel. It's ruining relationships, it's ruining friendships, it's ruining everything.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- 22:56 – 27:57
Dominic’s substance spiral: success, stress, masking, and losing control
- CWChris Williamson
So moving on to another topic that both of us are really passionate about.
- DMDominic McGregor
(clears throat)
- CWChris Williamson
Um, I want to talk about your problem with substances that you've had over the years.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
Could you give us a bit of background on that please?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. It's always a fun story to remember. (laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, yeah. I, I guess, I guess my life started like, same as anyone elses. You know, you go to university, you spend three nights a week drunk, it's life. Um-
- CWChris Williamson
Edinburgh's a good night, aren't they? Why, why, why not to really, really-
- DMDominic McGregor
It's really a good night. Why Not Monday. That was my mon-
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
I used to finish football training at 10:00 and go straight to Why Not.
- CWChris Williamson
Shout out Jay Glass.
- DMDominic McGregor
(laughs) And, um, the Mack twins.
- CWChris Williamson
Yep.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Never mind.
- DMDominic McGregor
They'll, they'll be watching.
- CWChris Williamson
They're still, they're still doing it, still killing it. Like, uh, Why Not. If anyone's going to Edinburgh, Why Not Nightclub. What, eight years in a row I think it's won like Best Pub in Edinburgh.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
It kills it.
- DMDominic McGregor
Monday nights.
- CWChris Williamson
It's the one.
- DMDominic McGregor
It's got, um, they were telling me it's a complete redesign.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah. It's got an LED, th- room two's LED-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... ceiling, LED walls, it's fantastic.
- DMDominic McGregor
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs) Anyway, so.
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, so yeah, I, I lived a normal life. Um, and I would describe myself, the reason I think Student Problems was successful is because I was just your average student. I was completely straight middle of the line, you know, I've not got a privileged background, I'm not, I'm not from ... I've got a very middle, middle of the road, you know, I can relate.
- 27:57 – 41:19
Rock bottom moments and the decision to quit drinking for good
- DMDominic McGregor
my reward for a hard day. I'd have a glass of wine and it got to a point where the minute alcohol passed my lips, it would be a bottle, it'd be two bottles, it wouldn't stop. Yep. And that would be on a weekday. And I'd get up and I'd go... And a couple of things happened that really hit me hard. Um, so it was Thursday night, we went to a neighborhood opening here. Mm-hmm. It was a good night. Yeah. Um, I got absolutely off my head. Um, and it was a Thursday. And I go home and I fall down the hill at my house and break my ankle. And so Wednesday, Wednes- then it's a Friday morning and I'm in hospital, sat, sat there in A&E, shit's going on at work, I'm like, "What the hell am I doing this?" Yep. "What the fuck am I doing this for?" Um, that's, that was like strike one. Strike... And then, like, strike two, um, well, it was my birthday. Right. So I'm 23. Mm-hmm. My birthday, I go out, uh, with everyone, it's great. It's gonna be a heavy one. Heavy one, obviously. Yep. But the day afterwards, which is my actual birthday, that's when I out. I spent my, my 23rd birthday locked in a dark room watching a movie. Hating life. Hating life. Everyone was like, "Let's go for a meal, it's your birthday. Come on, let's go." I'm just, "No, I'm gonna stay here." I spent a whole day in a dark room on my birthday. Yep. And I'm thinking about everything, thinking about my life. And that's when I gave up substances. I was like, "Okay, it's drugs. It has to be drugs, you know. I'm... I can't, I can't be like this on weekends. This is ruining my... This is ru-" So I think, "You know, I'll be fine." So I do, I do six month- six weeks without any, any drugs. And then, uh- But still drinking? Still drinking, yeah, yeah. Yeah. And then I go to the races and have a great day, honestly, a really good day. I'm a little bit more happy, um, but I come back home at like 6:00 PM, you know, o- off my head. Yep. I'd been invited there by a friend in a sponsor's box, so I've got limited alcohol. All day. All day. (laughs) And it's a nice day, and I've still got the problem where if I, I touch alcohol, I won't stop drinking. I'll always- Yep. I'll always have one in my hand. And, um, I... My behavior that day was, um, I got thrown out of Piccolinos in Old Village for stealing a bottle of wine from someone's table and shouting abuse at people. Wow. It was... It was a, a different person. Yeah. And, um, I said some mean things to, some ha- some bad things to a good friend of mine. Yep. And it was the first time I'd ever hurt somebody else. Yep. And the minute I hurt somebody else, I knew I needed to stop because I'm... That's not me. Yep. I could deal with hurting myself. I was beating myself up- Mm-hmm. ... and that I enjoyed that a little bit because it was punishing myself. A catharsis almost? Yeah. But I couldn't deal with that hurting somebody else.... I would, I would, I only got run over by a car once, you know, a couple of other things, and I really, really jumped when I was drunk. But I could deal with that because it was me.
- CWChris Williamson
It's you.
- DMDominic McGregor
It was me. But the minute it moved into me doing damage to someone I cared about, um, I knew I had to stop. And then I woke up that day, had a very, very frank conversation with Steve, who wasn't there that day, but heard about it, and I said that "I'm gonna stop. I'm not gonna drink again."
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- DMDominic McGregor
"Never gonna drink again."
- CWChris Williamson
So how long sober are you now?
- DMDominic McGregor
Um, 20 months.
- CWChris Williamson
20 months?
- DMDominic McGregor
20 months, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
From that day?
- DMDominic McGregor
From that day. Never gone back.
- CWChris Williamson
Cold turkey?
- DMDominic McGregor
Cold turkey.
- CWChris Williamson
And what was it like the first couple of weeks?
- DMDominic McGregor
It's tough, because you change your life. It's not, it's not because of the alcohol. The first ... I always think this is funny, the first weekend I woke up hungover.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
I didn't go out ... My body, my body would take, needs to recover is ... So it was, it's the problem with binge drinking, your body gets used to this shock in its system every five days.
- CWChris Williamson
Yup.
- DMDominic McGregor
You know, it's, um, it's a functioning organism. It's used to repetitiveness.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- DMDominic McGregor
It, I woke up, I woke up hungover because my body was, it goes dehydrated because it was probably producing more, um, things in the liver, pancreas, to break down the alcohol, and it-
- CWChris Williamson
It wasn't there.
- DMDominic McGregor
... it wasn't there.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
It's just like, "What? You all right, Dom?"
- CWChris Williamson
"What's going on?"
- DMDominic McGregor
"What's going on?"
- CWChris Williamson
"Yeah, we need some wine."
- DMDominic McGregor
"Yeah, we need some wine." Um, so that was weird. So the first weekend I felt hungover. So you don't, I didn't feel the benefits. It wasn't until ... And this is my problem with dry, dry January, you don't feel the benefits until like Week 6.
- CWChris Williamson
Yup.
- 41:19 – 1:00:44
What sobriety changed: time, weight loss, running, and rebuilding identity
- DMDominic McGregor
God, what hasn't it done? Um, lot, I've lost about three and a half stone.
- CWChris Williamson
Oh (laughs) .
- DMDominic McGregor
Have you seen a picture? Have you seen a picture?
- CWChris Williamson
No (laughs) .
- DMDominic McGregor
I'll show you one. I got up.
- CWChris Williamson
I'll put it up on the screen.
- DMDominic McGregor
I'll put it up on the screen but this is, this is old.
- CWChris Williamson
Three and a half stone, so that's like, what, like, 18 kilos? 15 kilos? Something like that.
- DMDominic McGregor
21.
- CWChris Williamson
21 kilos?
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah. I was, uh, so that, that's me.
- CWChris Williamson
Uh-huh.
- DMDominic McGregor
That's me.
- CWChris Williamson
Oh wow, that photo looks like it's been stretched.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
That photo looks like it's been stretched in widescreen.
- DMDominic McGregor
And then-
- CWChris Williamson
But it's not, you're just massive.
- DMDominic McGregor
Just massive.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
And I'll show you, I'll show you from side profile.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- DMDominic McGregor
So this was me.
- CWChris Williamson
You're completely spherical.
- DMDominic McGregor
I know. I know. Bad, isn't it?
- CWChris Williamson
It's crazy. Absolutely crazy.
- DMDominic McGregor
And that one there.
- CWChris Williamson
Oh, wow. Yeah, that's, um, that's a different guy to the one that I'm looking at at the moment. Yeah. (laughs) That's a different shaped face.
- DMDominic McGregor
Different shaped face.
- CWChris Williamson
You've got a completely round face.
- 1:00:44 – 1:04:49
Long-term thinking: values, social norms, and why alcohol doesn’t fit anymore
- CWChris Williamson
That's a calling bell. So here's the- here's the next point, um, we did this discussion once I completed the six months sober-
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
... um, with a guy called James Bailey who is from Basel.And he brought up this really, really interesting point, I'd love to hear your thoughts on it.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
He said that curing an addiction doesn't involve going cold turkey, it involves the reintroduction of the substance on your terms.
- DMDominic McGregor
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
So, can you ever see yourself in the either short, medium or long-term, reintroducing or attempting to reintroduce alcohol?
- DMDominic McGregor
If you can tell me one reason- reason why. If anyone can tell me the one reason why-
- CWChris Williamson
Be-
- DMDominic McGregor
... I should have it in my body.
- CWChris Williamson
Okay. So, because alcohol and other substances-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
... are as much of a part of the experience of life as anything else is.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
Now, you could say, as I do to people when they ask about why am I not drinking as much, "M- my main reason is, I've served my time."
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Like, the same way you do-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
... you- you- you, um, military service.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
I'm like, "I've served my time partying, I did a decade of partying-
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
... and right now I don't need to." But you could argue that by not reintroducing alcohol, or by not using alcohol, that again, you're now living in limit- a limited "limited" life.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yep.
- CWChris Williamson
On one side, 'cause, don't get it wrong, like, I've had some fucking wicked nights absolutely out of my tree. Like, I have had some really, really fun times.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
And that's not to, i- i- I absolutely would not have been able to achieve those nights out sober.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
There's an element of the night, like we can sing the praises of sobriety all we want, but there's some nights out that just get going because everyone's blitzed.
- DMDominic McGregor
Yeah, yeah, com- completely. And I think, um, definitely, definitely not for the very foreseeable future.
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