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Divorce Lawyer Reveals Harsh Truths About Love & Marriage - James Sexton

James Sexton is a New York-based divorce attorney and author, known for his expertise in family law and insights on marriage and divorce. There are speakers, leaders, and coaches that offer guidance on living and maintaining happy relationships. However, it’s rare to find those who advocate for the opposite perspective. Why pursuing a divorce might be the smartest path for you and your significant other. Expect to learn why so many marriages are failing today, if prenups actually work, wether men or women who struggle the most during and after the divorce, what the most common disagreements are during the divorce proceedings, wether marriage is a useful institution still, the best predictors of a declining relationship and much more… - 00:00 Why Are So Many Marriages Failing? 06:31 Most Common Reasons for Divorce 13:17 Should Couples Stay Together for the Kids? 21:44 Are Prenups Worth it? 32:13 How People Have a More Difficult Divorce Than Needed 39:35 James’s Most Outrageous Cases 47:21 Protecting a Positive View on Romance 50:55 Defending Someone You Morally Disagree With 56:37 The Problems in American Divorce Law 1:03:03 Dramatised Court Scenarios Vs Reality 1:08:49 James’s Issue with the Manosphere 1:13:17 Where to Find James - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Chris WilliamsonhostJames Sextonguest
Mar 14, 20241h 14mWatch on YouTube ↗

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Released
March 14, 2024
Duration
1h 14m
Channel
Modern Wisdom
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

James Sexton is a New York-based divorce attorney and author, known for his expertise in family law and insights on marriage and divorce. There are speakers, leaders, and coaches that offer guidance on living and maintaining happy relationships. However, it’s rare to find those who advocate for the opposite perspective. Why pursuing a divorce might be the smartest path for you and your significant other. Expect to learn why so many marriages are failing today, if prenups actually work, wether men or women who struggle the most during and after the divorce, what the most common disagreements are during the divorce proceedings, wether marriage is a useful institution still, the best predictors of a declining relationship and much more… - 00:00 Why Are So Many Marriages Failing? 06:31 Most Common Reasons for Divorce 13:17 Should Couples Stay Together for the Kids? 21:44 Are Prenups Worth it? 32:13 How People Have a More Difficult Divorce Than Needed 39:35 James’s Most Outrageous Cases 47:21 Protecting a Positive View on Romance 50:55 Defending Someone You Morally Disagree With 56:37 The Problems in American Divorce Law 1:03:03 Dramatised Court Scenarios Vs Reality 1:08:49 James’s Issue with the Manosphere 1:13:17 Where to Find James - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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  • Chris Williamson

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  • James Sexton

    guest
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EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Modern Wisdom, featuring Chris Williamson and James Sexton, Divorce Lawyer Reveals Harsh Truths About Love & Marriage - James Sexton explores divorce Lawyer Exposes Hidden Patterns Behind Failing Modern Marriages Today Divorce attorney James Sexton distills decades of high-conflict cases into core lessons on why marriages fail, focusing on gradual disconnection, avoidance of hard conversations, and the ease of modern infidelity. He argues that the "right" thing in relationships is usually the hard thing: addressing small issues early, telling uncomfortable truths, and intentionally training relational weaknesses. Sexton details how social media, gender norms, legal biases, and poor co‑parenting behaviors inflame conflict, especially around cheating, children, and divorce proceedings. He also defends prenups as both practical protection and a framework for honest, even romantic, conversations about fairness, while insisting that love remains worth the risk despite seeing its ugliest endings daily.

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