Inside the Mind of a Hostage Negotiator - Scott Walker

Scott Walker is a former Scotland Yard detective, world renowned hostage negotiator and an author. Having successfully resolved over 300 cases, from hostage negotiations to piracy, ransom and cyber extortion attacks, Scott has gained deep insights into how human communication works and today we get to find out his wildest stories and best tips. Expect to learn how the science of negotiating actually works, the questions should you ask at the beginning of a negotiation to set the tone, how you can deal with overwhelm and nerves in high pressure situations, Scott’s advice for negotiating with difficult people, how to avoid the most common negotiation mistakes and much more... Sponsors: Get 15% discount on Mud/Wtr at https://mudwtr.com/mw (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 15% discount on your first order from Collars&Co at https://collarsandco.com/ (use code: MW15) Get 20% discount on House Of Macadamias’ nuts at https://houseofmacadamias.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Extra Stuff: Buy Order Out of Chaos - https://amzn.eu/d/4pEGClo Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom #communication #negotiation #hostage - 00:00 Scott’s Unique Background 03:46 The Reality of Kidnap Response 07:21 A Negotiator’s View of Human Nature 15:36 Differences Between Extortion Vs Human Kidnapping 18:20 Reacting to Apple TV’s ‘Hijack’ 22:16 Core Components of Successful Negotiating 28:50 Strategies to Build Rapport 31:03 How to Prepare for Negotiation 39:02 Balancing Empathy & Rationality 46:13 The Don’ts of Negotiation 51:43 Where to Find Scott - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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Aug 19, 202352mWatch on YouTube ↗

EPISODE INFO

Released: August 19, 2023
Duration: 52m
Channel: Modern Wisdom
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Scott Walker is a former Scotland Yard detective, world renowned hostage negotiator and an author. Having successfully resolved over 300 cases, from hostage negotiations to piracy, ransom and cyber extortion attacks, Scott has gained deep insights into how human communication works and today we get to find out his wildest stories and best tips. Expect to learn how the science of negotiating actually works, the questions should you ask at the beginning of a negotiation to set the tone, how you can deal with overwhelm and nerves in high pressure situations, Scott’s advice for negotiating with difficult people, how to avoid the most common negotiation mistakes and much more... Sponsors: Get 15% discount on Mud/Wtr at https://mudwtr.com/mw (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 15% discount on your first order from Collars&Co at https://collarsandco.com/ (use code: MW15) Get 20% discount on House Of Macadamias’ nuts at https://houseofmacadamias.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Extra Stuff: Buy Order Out of Chaos - https://amzn.eu/d/4pEGClo Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom #communication #negotiation #hostage - 00:00 Scott’s Unique Background 03:46 The Reality of Kidnap Response 07:21 A Negotiator’s View of Human Nature 15:36 Differences Between Extortion Vs Human Kidnapping 18:20 Reacting to Apple TV’s ‘Hijack’ 22:16 Core Components of Successful Negotiating 28:50 Strategies to Build Rapport 31:03 How to Prepare for Negotiation 39:02 Balancing Empathy & Rationality 46:13 The Don’ts of Negotiation 51:43 Where to Find Scott - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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Chris Williamson
host
Scott Walker
guest

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Modern Wisdom, featuring Chris Williamson and Scott Walker, Inside the Mind of a Hostage Negotiator - Scott Walker explores hostage Negotiator Reveals High-Stakes Psychology, Persuasion, And Calm Under Fire Scott Walker, a former Scotland Yard detective turned kidnap-for-ransom negotiator, explains how real hostage and extortion cases are fundamentally business negotiations layered with intense human emotion and internal politics. He describes why dealing with kidnappers is often simpler than managing stressed families, corporate stakeholders, and ego-driven leaders. Walker breaks down the core skills of high-stakes negotiation—deep listening, emotional regulation, empathy without over-identification, and meticulous preparation—and shows how they map directly onto everyday business and personal conflicts. Throughout, he shares vivid case stories, from gang kidnappings in London to pirate hijackings and cyber extortion, to illustrate practical techniques for staying calm, building rapport, and creating “order out of chaos.”

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