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Stoicism: How To Think Like A Roman Emperor - Donald Robertson | Modern Wisdom Podcast 274

Donald Robertson is a Psychotherapist and an author. People are getting tattoos of Marcus Aurelius, copies of his Meditations sold out at the beginning of the pandemic and yet he was just some bloke two thousand years ago. What made his Stoicism so special and what is there to learn from his Stoic life? Expect to learn how stoicism and cognitive behavioural therapy are intrinsically linked, why an existential crisis can be useful, how Marcus Aurelius dealt with his anger, why Donald thinks we lost the wisdom of ancient Greece and much more... Sponsors: Get 83% discount & 3 months free from Surfshark VPN at https://surfshark.deals/MODERNWISDOM (use code MODERNWISDOM) Extra Stuff: Buy How To Think Like A Roman Emperor - https://amzn.to/39JzkgS Follow Donald on Twitter - https://twitter.com/DonJRobertson Get my free Ultimate Life Hacks List to 10x your daily productivity → https://chriswillx.com/lifehacks/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom #stoicism #marcusaurelius #psychology - Listen to all episodes online. Search "Modern Wisdom" on any Podcast App or click here: iTunes: https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/modern-wisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: modernwisdompodcast@gmail.com

Donald RobertsonguestChris Williamsonhost
Jan 25, 20211h 32mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 2:08

    From CBT to Stoicism: why Marcus Aurelius became Robertson’s focus

    Robertson explains that he originally searched for a practical philosophy of life, didn’t find it in a typical university philosophy track, and later “rediscovered” Stoicism. He also highlights Stoicism’s direct influence on cognitive therapy, which helped fuse his interests as a therapist and writer.

    • Philosophy as a tool for coping with adversity
    • Stoicism overlooked in many undergraduate curricula
    • Stoicism as an inspiration for CBT/cognitive therapy
    • Writing on an initially “nerdy” topic that later became mainstream
  2. 2:08 – 3:50

    Why Stoicism is trending now: social media, fear, and the need for a secular framework

    They discuss why Stoicism has found a modern audience—especially among rationalist, tech-oriented Millennials. Robertson argues that constant exposure to alarmist media drives anxiety about uncontrollable events, and Stoicism offers a reason-based, secular “whole way of life.”

    • Overwhelm from social/news media and perceived fearmongering
    • Loss of shared religion/tradition creates meaning gaps
    • Stoicism as a secular alternative to Christianity and a “bigger than CBT” system
    • Modern desire for a structured life philosophy (‘Western yoga’)
  3. 3:50 – 6:22

    Anomie, riots, and the psychology of anger in society

    Using the Capitol riots as a reference point, Robertson connects social instability to lost values and unmanaged anger. He emphasizes that anger biases judgment and that media systems amplify anger and fear, creating fertile ground for rigid dogmatism and prejudice.

    • Anomie (normlessness) and disillusionment as societal drivers
    • Confusion about values can produce rigid, dogmatic behavior
    • Anger’s role in political/racial/religious prejudice
    • Need for societal-level anger management and values reflection
  4. 6:22 – 9:07

    Marcus Aurelius and anger: private journaling vs public reputation

    Chris asks about Marcus’ anger; Robertson contrasts Marcus’ private admissions in Meditations with historical accounts describing him as calm. They explore how self-scrutiny can coexist with outward restraint, plus a few illustrative stories about impulsive harm and regret.

    • Meditations likely not intended for publication (private self-work)
    • Marcus’ stated fear of losing his temper vs historians’ portrayal
    • Anecdotes about emperors’ impulsive anger (Hadrian story)
    • Anger can cause irreversible harm—hence the need for restraint
  5. 9:07 – 12:07

    Stoic ‘time-out’ and avoiding shock: pausing, predicting, and processing events rationally

    They pivot to practical tactics: creating distance from impulsive reactions and recognizing that anger shifts cognition into a biased mode. Robertson adds a Stoic reframing—avoid calling events “unbelievable,” notice warning signs, and ask why we missed them.

    • Anger changes thinking: underestimating risk, jumping to conclusions
    • Therapeutic ‘time-out’ parallels Stoic practice
    • ‘Don’t be shocked’—replace surprise with analysis and preparedness
    • Cassandra metaphor: signals often existed but were ignored
  6. 12:07 – 15:02

    Do we still have new things to learn about Marcus? biography, spies, and hidden context

    Robertson argues Marcus isn’t ‘exhausted’ as a subject: new historical angles and interpretations keep emerging. He shares a “sneak peek” about Hadrian’s surveillance culture and how it may illuminate certain lines in Meditations.

    • Robertson writing both a graphic novel and a new biography
    • Importance of historical context for interpreting Meditations
    • Hadrian’s paranoia, secret police, informers in Roman elite villas
    • Meditations lines (‘no walls or curtains’) read differently under surveillance context
  7. 15:02 – 18:31

    Walking through Athens: Stoic geography, the Agora, and archaeology as “confirmation”

    A travel interlude becomes a lesson in philosophical geography: the true location of the Stoa Poikile and the cultural setting of Greek philosophy. Robertson also explains how archaeological finds (like a Socrates statuette in a prison area) can validate or reshape what we think we know from texts.

    • Stoa of Attalus vs the original Stoa Poikile (Painted Porch)
    • Agora as the lived setting of Socrates and early philosophy
    • Archaeology vs biased/unreliable written histories
    • Socrates statuette near prison suggests post-execution remorse/commemoration
  8. 18:31 – 20:54

    Why Roman emperors adopted Greek philosophy: cultural prestige and Stoicism’s ‘toughness’

    They explore how a Greek-born philosophy became central to Rome’s elite culture. Robertson explains Rome’s admiration (and guilt) toward Greece, why Stoicism fit Roman self-image, and how emperors like Augustus set precedents for philosophical interest.

    • Romans admired Greek culture while also dominating it militarily
    • Stoicism perceived as the ‘tough-minded’ Greek school compatible with Roman values
    • Augustus’ Stoic tutors and lost philosophical writings
    • Marcus as the first ‘card-carrying’ Stoic emperor amid Greek cultural fashion
  9. 20:54 – 26:05

    Where did the ‘philosopher kings’ go? Christianity’s rise and Stoicism’s hidden influence

    Chris asks why elite philosophical leadership faded; Robertson discusses the common narrative that Christianity supplanted Greek schools while also emphasizing deep Stoic influence on early Christianity. He gives examples from Dante, the New Testament, and cultural parallels like cosmopolitan “brotherly love.”

    • Debate: Christianity closing schools vs continuity and integration
    • Stoic echoes/allusions in the New Testament and Church Fathers
    • Dante’s Cato as a ‘near-saint’ pagan exemplar
    • Acts of the Apostles: Paul addressing Stoics/Epicureans, quoting Stoic poet Aratus
  10. 26:05 – 28:48

    Purpose and values: the Socratic-Stoic claim that the examined life is the meaning of life

    They shift to purpose: Robertson frames Stoicism as a Socratic tradition centered on deep moral self-examination. Wisdom is treated as an endless pursuit—being a “lover of wisdom” rather than claiming to possess it.

    • Socrates: ‘the unexamined life is not worth living’
    • Stoics as a ‘Socratic sect’ focused on virtue/arete
    • Purpose as ongoing values inquiry, not a final destination
    • Craving wisdom as a life-defining orientation
  11. 28:48 – 34:04

    The dark side of self-help: avoidance, rumination, and neglecting anger

    Robertson critiques modern self-help as often counterproductive—fueling rumination, suppression, and dependence on authority. He argues anger is under-addressed despite being central to social harm and a powerful leverage point for personal change.

    • Self-help can become rumination instead of behavior change
    • Common strategies function as emotional suppression/avoidance
    • Over-focus on anxiety/depression while anger is ignored
    • Anger as ‘royal road’ to improvement with major societal impact
  12. 34:04 – 41:19

    Objective representation & cognitive distancing: Stoicism as anti-rhetoric for the algorithmic age

    Chris asks about ‘objective representation’; Robertson explains the Stoic practice of describing events without loaded value judgments to reduce emotional escalation. He frames modern social media as ‘digital Sophists’ optimized to provoke reactions, making Stoic counter-rhetoric newly urgent.

    • Phantasia kataleptike: reality-grounded impressions
    • Redescribing events in neutral, specific language to suspend emotive rhetoric
    • Stoicism as counter-rhetoric against manipulation
    • Social media algorithms as ‘digital Sophists’ amplifying anger
  13. 41:19 – 45:45

    Broadening perspective: attention narrowing under stress, social media “thin slices,” and compassion

    Robertson connects Stoic techniques to modern psychology: distress narrows attention and intensifies threat monitoring. Broadening context—seeing the fuller story of people and situations—dilutes emotional reactions and supports more balanced judgment.

    • Stress narrows attention and increases threat monitoring
    • Perspective-broadening reduces emotional intensity
    • Online interactions encourage ‘thin slicing’ and misjudgment
    • Socrates on Xanthippe: judging people as whole persons, not moments
  14. 45:45 – 1:14:10

    Adversity, pandemics, and voluntary hardship: meaning through challenge and mortality reflection

    They discuss Stoic views on adversity, including pandemic relevance, lifestyle simplification, and confronting mortality to clarify values. Robertson distinguishes pleasure from meaning, argues that avoidance-driven living worsens wellbeing, and presents voluntary hardship as training for life’s inevitable trials.

    • Stoics engage the ‘fray’ rather than withdraw (contrast with Epicureans)
    • Pandemic parallels Stoic writings on exile and restriction
    • Meaningful activity (not merely pleasurable activity) combats depression
    • Voluntary hardship: choose challenges that stretch but don’t overwhelm; mortality contemplation as a powerful tool
  15. 1:14:10 – 1:32:37

    Humor, favorite Stoic lines, tattoos, and Robertson’s “rebuild Plato’s Academy” project

    They debunk the idea that Stoics were humorless, citing Socrates, Stoic satires, and Chrysippus’ legendary death-by-laughter. The conversation closes with memorable quotes, Stoic tattoo culture, and Robertson’s plan to revitalize Plato’s Academy Park as a center for practical philosophy.

    • Stoic/Cynic humor traditions; satire as philosophical method
    • Socrates’ wit vs the ‘Spock’ stereotype
    • Favorite quotes: learning to die, being a good person, ‘universe is change; life is opinion’
    • Secret project: initiatives to revive Plato’s Academy Park; where to find Robertson’s work

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