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The New Science Of Female Attraction - Psychology Roundtable

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Rob HendersonguestMacken MurphyguestChris Williamsonhost
Aug 6, 20262h 6mWatch on YouTube ↗

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EPISODE INFO

Released
August 6, 2026
Duration
2h 6m
Channel
Modern Wisdom
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

In this evolutionary psychology roundtable, we explore:

  • If 20% of the men actually get 80% of the attention.
  • The biggest red and green flags to look out for in the dating pool.
  • Why women's sexual desire fades faster than men's.
  • and much more…

Guests:

  • Macken Murphy is an evolutionary biologist at the University of Melbourne, a writer and a podcaster.
  • Steve Stewart-Williams is an evolutionary psychologist, a professor, and an author.
  • Rob Henderson holds a PhD in psychology from the University of Cambridge and is a Senior Fellow at the Manhattan Institute.

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SPEAKERS

  • Rob Henderson

    guest

    Writer and social scientist known for commentary on dating and social class dynamics.

  • Macken Murphy

    guest

    Evolutionary-psychology researcher (PhD-level) focusing on sex differences and human mating dynamics.

  • Chris Williamson

    host

    Host of the Modern Wisdom podcast.

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Modern Wisdom, featuring Rob Henderson and Macken Murphy, The New Science Of Female Attraction - Psychology Roundtable explores Science debates female attraction, mating markets, and modern dating myths The group argues that extreme male “looksmaxxing” can backfire by signaling vanity, deception, and short-term intent, even if appearance enhancement still yields some net attractiveness benefits when detected.

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