Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked? - Dr David Ley

ℹ️ EPISODE INFO

Released

February 11, 2023

Duration

58m

Channel

Modern Wisdom

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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Dr. David Ley is a clinical psychologist and a board member of the Sexual Health Alliance whose research focuses on issues related to sexuality, pornography and mental health. Your partner being intimate with another guy should evolutionarily be one of the biggest fears of a man's life. Actually encouraging this behaviour seems almost unthinkable, and yet cucking is becoming a much more common pursuit and one of the most popular categories of online porn. Expect to learn the stats around how common cuckolding actually is, whether cuckolding could cover up a husband's desire to be with another man, how often this goes wrong and destroys a relationship, whether sex addiction is an actual thing, some surprising research around porn addiction, how religiosity predicts dysfunction with porn and much more... Sponsors: Get 15% discount on Mud/Wtr at http://mudwtr.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 20% discount on House Of Macadamias’ nuts at https://houseofmacadamias.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Extra Stuff: Check out Dr Ley's website - https://www.davidleyphd.com/ Follow Dr Ley on Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrDavidLey Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom #mating #dating #men - 00:00 Intro 00:26 Why Dr Ley Studied Cuckolding 04:23 How is it Possible for Men to Find Pleasure from Cuckolding? 15:13 Is Cuckolding Repressed Homosexuality? 22:17 The Weird Dynamics of Female Cuckolding 29:00 Wider Implications of Cuckolding & Porn Use on Society 34:24 How Should Children Be Taught About Sexuality? 42:31 Role of Shame in Men’s Relationship with Porn 49:10 How Porn Use Impacts Motivation to Find a Mate 53:43 Advice for People Who Want to Improve their Relationship with Porn 58:18 Where to Find Dr Ley - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

🎤 SPEAKERS

• Dr David Ley

  guest

• Chris Williamson

  host

• Narrator

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🧾 EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Modern Wisdom, featuring Dr David Ley and Chris Williamson, Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked? - Dr David Ley explores Inside Cuckolding, Kinks, And Porn: What Men Really Fantasize About Dr. David Ley discusses cuckolding and related non‑monogamous practices, explaining why some men are erotically drawn to what others see as a core fear: a partner’s infidelity. He challenges moral and evolutionary assumptions about monogamy, jealousy, and male sexual insecurity, highlighting how cultural messaging and rigid masculinity can actually fuel these fantasies.

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