You Can’t “Solve” Your Relationship - Arthur Brooks

Arthur Brooks is a social scientist, professor at Harvard University, and an author. Can romance and love be decoded? From falling in and out of love to finding “the one,” what does the science say about what makes someone a good partner, best friend, and lifelong companion? Expect to learn if men need marriage more than women do, why women tend to leave bad relationships faster than men, why falling in love makes us do crazy things, what the brain chemistry of love is, if we should be careful about who we let ourselves fall in love with, how you can tell if you’re a compatible romantic partner, but not a compatible best friend, how to overcome contempt and insecurity in a relationship and much more… - 00:00 How Podcasts Are Getting People to Learn More 09:26 The Brain Science of Falling in Love 24:52 Should You Marry Your Best Friend? 30:44 How Dopamine Addicts Fall in Love 37:45 Sex Differences in Jealousy & Desire 46:05 Advice for Insecure Overachievers 51:15 How to Make Long-Distance Relationships Successful 55:58 The Key to Staying in Love 1:06:58 The Environmental Security Hypothesis 1:10:13 Approaching Relationships Like a Business Project 1:14:12 Are Men Becoming Sedated & Useless? 1:21:33 Being a Circuit-Breaker as a Parent 1:26:46 The People Who Get Stuck Overthinking Relationships 1:31:38 Overcoming Contempt in Marriage 1:42:03 What Do You Get Your Energy From? 1:54:37 What You Learn When You Turn Anxiety Into Fear 2:01:38 Where to Find Arthur - Get a 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom Get the best bloodwork analysis in America at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get $350 off the Pod 4 Ultra at https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/