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You Were Never Taught How to Be a Man - Dry Creek Dewayne (4K)

Dewayne Noel is a wrangler, cowboy, educator, and founder of Dry Creek Wrangler School. Hustle culture often tells us that working harder is the only way to succeed—grinding through 80-hour weeks on 4 hours of sleep per night. But what if the real solution isn’t about working harder, but finding balance? What if true success lies in slowing down, savouring life, smoking a cigar on the porch occasionally and being fully present. How differently might we define success then? Expect to learn who Dry Creek Dewayne’s is, his backstory and upbringing, how to un-harden yourself, how any person can overcome & control their anger, what Dewayne has learned from working with horses, the dangers of being out of balance in work & life, how to have a better relationship with the voice in your head, how to find the right partner & why men need to learn to treat women better, why bad fathers are partly to blame for the downfall of America’s culture, what a day in the life of Dewayne’s life is like and much more… - 00:00 Dewayne’s Work & Background 03:45 How Dewayne Became a Cowboy 09:15 What Settled Dewayne Down? 15:19 The Beauty of Mundane Successes 21:38 The Main Thing Humans Get Wrong 29:30 Learning Important Lessons From Horses 38:08 Dewayne’s Close Shaves With Death 43:20 The Danger of Being Out of Balance 50:57 Men Aren’t Born to Make Money 55:20 How Emotional Should Men Be? 1:05:40 Having a Better Relationship With Yourself 1:16:47 Advice For People Who Struggle Socially 1:22:21 What Are the Problems Men Are Facing? 1:28:41 How Vulnerable Should Men Be in a Relationship? 1:37:01 What Dewayne Did When His Daughters Started Dating 1:41:41 Biggest Lessons Dewayne Taught His Kids 1:50:43 Dewayne’s Ideal Day - Get a Free Gift, 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and more from AG1 at https://drinkag1.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get expert bloodwork analysis and bypass Function’s 300,000-person waitlist at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with any purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get a 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Chris WilliamsonhostDewayne Noelguest
Nov 25, 20241h 55mWatch on YouTube ↗

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Released
November 25, 2024
Duration
1h 55m
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Modern Wisdom
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Dewayne Noel is a wrangler, cowboy, educator, and founder of Dry Creek Wrangler School. Hustle culture often tells us that working harder is the only way to succeed—grinding through 80-hour weeks on 4 hours of sleep per night. But what if the real solution isn’t about working harder, but finding balance? What if true success lies in slowing down, savouring life, smoking a cigar on the porch occasionally and being fully present. How differently might we define success then? Expect to learn who Dry Creek Dewayne’s is, his backstory and upbringing, how to un-harden yourself, how any person can overcome & control their anger, what Dewayne has learned from working with horses, the dangers of being out of balance in work & life, how to have a better relationship with the voice in your head, how to find the right partner & why men need to learn to treat women better, why bad fathers are partly to blame for the downfall of America’s culture, what a day in the life of Dewayne’s life is like and much more… - 00:00 Dewayne’s Work & Background 03:45 How Dewayne Became a Cowboy 09:15 What Settled Dewayne Down? 15:19 The Beauty of Mundane Successes 21:38 The Main Thing Humans Get Wrong 29:30 Learning Important Lessons From Horses 38:08 Dewayne’s Close Shaves With Death 43:20 The Danger of Being Out of Balance 50:57 Men Aren’t Born to Make Money 55:20 How Emotional Should Men Be? 1:05:40 Having a Better Relationship With Yourself 1:16:47 Advice For People Who Struggle Socially 1:22:21 What Are the Problems Men Are Facing? 1:28:41 How Vulnerable Should Men Be in a Relationship? 1:37:01 What Dewayne Did When His Daughters Started Dating 1:41:41 Biggest Lessons Dewayne Taught His Kids 1:50:43 Dewayne’s Ideal Day - Get a Free Gift, 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and more from AG1 at https://drinkag1.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get expert bloodwork analysis and bypass Function’s 300,000-person waitlist at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with any purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get a 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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  • Chris Williamson

    host
  • Dewayne Noel

    guest

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Modern Wisdom, featuring Chris Williamson and Dewayne Noel, You Were Never Taught How to Be a Man - Dry Creek Dewayne (4K) explores cowboy Philosopher Explains Manhood, Anger, Horses, Balance, Service, Fatherhood Dewayne, a horseman and teacher, describes how horsemanship became a vehicle for mentoring young men about life, character, and responsibility. He traces his journey from angry, tightly wound factory worker and stressed father to a calmer, reflective man shaped by health scares, reading, and years with horses. Through stories about marriage, fatherhood, money, work, and communication, he argues that men are born to serve, not to chase status, and that balance—not hustle, not comfort—is the real goal. Horses function as both mirror and teacher, revealing a man's inner state and forcing him to develop patience, self-control, and honest communication.

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