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Giving up Alcohol May Change Your Life with Andy Ramage | FBLM Podcast

How does alcohol fit into your life? Have you ever given it any thought? My guest on this week’s podcast is Andy Ramage, a performance coach and author.

Dr. Rangan ChatterjeehostAndy Ramageguest
Nov 27, 20191h 48mWatch on YouTube

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  1. Meeting Again and Andy's Mission for Middle Lane Drinkers

    Rangan and Andy swap stories about their first meeting at the Edinburgh Wellness Festival and the book-signing queue. Andy explains that his work is about presenting a fresh message on alcohol: take a break and see what happens.

    • •Andy walked an hour to the studio after listening to the walking episode
    • •The Edinburgh book-signing story and Andy's "queue envy"
    • •Andy's work is helping people understand their relationship with alcohol
    • •The message is about gaining an advantage, not giving up or finger-pointing
  2. From Feeling "Meh" as a Broker to Questioning Alcohol

    Andy describes reaching his mid-30s with outward success but feeling average, then leaving his job to pursue wellness. He realized his inconsistency came from alcohol, the last thing he had questioned. Rangan calls it the elephant in the room.

    • •Andy felt a five out of ten despite the car, job and family
    • •He took nine months off and studied wellness with various teachers
    • •Inconsistency in exercise and work pointed to alcohol
    • •Alcohol is rarely questioned in industries like broking, media and insurance
  3. The Middle Lane Drinker and the Case for a 28-Day Test

    Andy explains why everyone should run an experiment, and defines the middle lane drinker on an alcohol gradient. Rangan describes the ripple effect of nightly drinking on sleep and stress, and Andy lays out his split-test approach of 28 to 90 days.

    • •Alcohol is a spectrum, not a binary of problem or no problem
    • •Rangan describes a vicious cycle of poor sleep, caffeine, sugar and stress
    • •Andy says one or two drinks a week can cost days of underperformance
    • •Run an A/B test on yourself by tracking physical and subjective stats
    • •90 days is about 0.49% of an average drinking career
  4. Early Attempts and the Pull of Social Pressure

    Andy recounts announcing his first break to colleagues and failing, then traces his drinking history from football to the city. A survey with Stirling University is cited showing how strongly social pressure shapes drinking.

    • •A colleague predicted Andy wouldn't last a month, and he didn't
    • •Andy went back to study the brain to help people change behavior under pressure
    • •He had to make an announcement because he needed an excuse
    • •A survey of 2,000 people found 97% cited social pressure as the main reason they don't take breaks
    • •The instinct to stay part of the tribe drives this
  5. Rangan's Own Story and Finding Your Authentic Self

    Rangan shares how his relationship with alcohol formed at Edinburgh medical school and later shifted as he found meaning and purpose. Andy says alcohol masks your authentic self and that taking a break is a gateway to the good stuff.

    • •Rangan's freshers week and the learned taste for lager
    • •His drinking dropped as he found meaning after his father's death
    • •Andy says alcohol masks your authentic self
    • •Rangan says this is not really about alcohol
    • •Taking a break is a gateway to movement, sleep and vitality
  6. Workplace Drinking Culture and Alcohol's Effect on Mental Health and Sleep

    Andy describes companies investing in wellness while holding weekly drinks nights, and how hierarchy transmits pressure. Rangan stresses that culture change must come from leaders, and both discuss alcohol's effects on anxiety and sleep.

    • •Wellness pods sit alongside weekly drinks nights
    • •Pressure to drink filters down from the CEO
    • •Rangan says leaders modelling behavior, like napping, shapes culture
    • •Alcohol suppresses symptoms of anxiety temporarily but worsens them the next day
    • •Sedation is not sleep and REM sleep is hit
  7. Caving to Pressure, Wedding Dancing and Alcohol-Free Alternatives

    Andy recalls his first attempt, his fears about losing his wife and friends and dancing at weddings, and caving after two weeks when clients called him boring. He explains how retraining to be social without alcohol took time, helped by alcohol-free alternatives.

    • •Fears about losing friends and how to dance at weddings
    • •He drank at two weeks to please clients who called him a lightweight
    • •As an introvert he used alcohol as a gateway to extroversion
    • •It was hard for six months to a year, then he retrained
    • •Alcohol-free beer and gin looked like drinks and bought him space
  8. Slip-Ups, the Change Cycle and the Worst Trade in History

    Rangan describes the moment with his infant son that made him reflect on drinking, and a champagne slip-up at his book launch. Andy argues that failure is part of the process, citing Prochaska's stages of change, and calls trading a weekend for Friday drinks the worst trade in history.

    • •Rangan felt he wasn't present for his baby son after a couple of pints
    • •Conditioning led him to sip champagne on stage without thinking
    • •Prochaska's research on smokers shows it takes four to five times around the loop
    • •Rangan reframes slip-ups as education
    • •Andy calls trading your weekend for Friday drinks the worst trade in history
  9. Friends' Reactions, Being the Change and Social Contagion

    Rangan tells of a golf weekend where he drank under pressure and of friends' comments about his not drinking. Andy says loud protesters often feel uncomfortable about their own drinking, and cites Nicholas Christakis's research on habits spreading through networks.

    • •Rangan's golf weekend and the question of baiting versus projection
    • •A friend's comment about Rangan not drinking
    • •Andy says those who protest loudest are being held up a mirror
    • •One person abstaining at a lunch gives others confidence to do likewise
    • •Christakis's research shows habits spreading through friends of friends
  10. Women, Tribes and Connection as the Root Cause

    Andy says women now drink as much as men and face similar pressure. The conversation turns to the One Year No Beer community and Rangan's view that missing human connection underlies compensatory behaviors, with connection scoring lowest in Andy's master classes.

    • •Women's experiences of pressure resemble men's
    • •Finding a tribe of like-minded people helps behavior change
    • •Rangan says connection gaps drive compensating with sugar, Netflix or alcohol
    • •Connection scores lowest in Andy's master classes
    • •Rangan's Feel Better in 5 puts heart and connection as the most important section
  11. Community Stories and Practical Tips for Social Situations

    Andy shares the benefits he and community members have seen, including time, weight loss and a member whose baby followed a break from alcohol. He then gives short-term tips such as knowing your order, having a backup plan and visualizing success.

    • •Andy lost three stone and his body fat dropped in 90 days
    • •Quitting unlocked extra time in the morning
    • •A member's baby story
    • •Know exactly what you'll order and have a backup
    • •Visualize success like elite athletes do
  12. Dry January, Christmas and Handling Pushback

    Andy says Dry January works with the right mindset and argues Christmas is a great time to go alcohol-free. They discuss tips for the festive season, including taking out the ringleader, using alcohol-free alternatives, and why those who say they don't trust non-drinkers usually have their own issues.

    • •Dry January fails if used as a license to binge afterwards
    • •Use the A/B test to gather data
    • •Call the ringleader and ask for support
    • •Use the challenge as an explanation or alcohol-free lookalikes
    • •People care less about what you drink than you think
  13. Morning Routines, Extra Time and Being Alcohol-Free

    Both discuss how cutting alcohol creates time and energy, and Andy explains how he and his wife shifted bedtime to gain mornings. Andy prefers the label alcohol-free to teetotal, and Rangan questions labels around drinking.

    • •Andy wrote two books and did two degrees in his freed-up mornings
    • •He and his wife traded box sets for earlier bedtimes
    • •Rangan loves a 9pm bedtime and 5am rise
    • •It took about six months to a year before not drinking became effortless
    • •Andy describes his path as an alcohol-free adventure and avoids labels
  14. Let's Do This: Motivation, Momentum and Meaning

    Andy explains his second book on motivation, built from his master classes. He says willpower runs out, motivation changes, and routines should become identity. Both agree meaning and purpose grow out of momentum.

    • •The book applies lessons from alcohol to other goals
    • •Willpower runs out and motivation changes over time
    • •Shift focus from big whys to momentary wins
    • •Make routines part of who you are
    • •Meaning and purpose grow from momentum, as Shawn Achor's research suggests
  15. Book Recommendations, Biggest Learning and Action Tips

    Andy shares favorite books and says his biggest lesson is that consistency is king. He closes with actionable tips and where to find One Year No Beer.

    • •Awaken the Giant Within, The Chimp Paradox and Stoic works are recommended
    • •Consistency is king, not perfection
    • •Start now rather than waiting for a clear diary
    • •Failure is part of the process and motivation changes
    • •Find Andy at oneyearnobeer.com and on social media

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