“I Lost My Son… Then Trained My Mind to Be Happy Again” | Mo Gawdat

ℹ️ EPISODE INFO

Released

November 19, 2025

Duration

2h 28m

Channel

Dr Rangan Chatterjee

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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

This episode is brought to you by: BON CHARGE: Save 25% off with code LIVEMORE https://boncharge.com/livemore BETTER HELP: Get 10% off your first month https://betterhelp.com/livemore VIVOBAREFOOT: Get 25% off your first order https://links.drchatterjee.com/4nWFP51 We all want to be happy. Yet the harder we chase it, the more elusive happiness it can seem. This week’s returning guest podcast believes the answer does not lie in changing our circumstances, but in changing how we see them. Mo Gawdat is the former Chief Business Officer of Google [X] and the author of multiple bestselling books, including Solve for Happy and That Little Voice in Your Head. Following the tragic death of his son Ali, Mo has made happiness his primary topic of research, diving deeply into literature and conversing on the topic with some of the wisest people in the world. Mo actually came on my podcast to talk about relationships and how he believes technology and AI can help us transform them, but when we started chatting our conversation went off in a completely different direction. We ended up having a wonderfully deep and thought provoking conversation that ended up being almost 3 hours. Mo shares what he’s learned about happiness, suffering and the true nature of life and death. We explore what it really means to say that “happiness is a choice,” and why that perspective can coexist with deep compassion for pain and loss. During our conversation, we discuss: ● Why happiness isn’t dependent on external circumstances – and how it’s possible to find peace even in difficult times. ● How reframing our thoughts and expectations can shift our emotional experience of life. ● What Mo learned about happiness growing up in Egypt, and how seeing suffering around him shaped his sense of gratitude. ● The powerful lessons he drew from losing his son, Ali, and how grief can open a path to love and meaning. ● Why suffering can be one of our greatest teachers, showing us what truly matters. ● How our thoughts can keep pain alive – and why letting go of the mental replay of past events is an act of wisdom. ● Mo’s belief that death is not the end, and how physics and spirituality can point to the same truth about consciousness. Mo helps us all to see that happiness isn’t fragile or fleeting; it’s a state of being we can nurture, even when life feels hard. His story is a testament to the strength of the human heart and our endless capacity to find meaning in love. #feelbetterlivemore Connect with Mo Gawdat: http://www.mogawdat.com/ https://www.instagram.com/mo_gawdat/ https://twitter.com/mgawdat https://www.facebook.com/Mo.Gawdat.Official/ Mo’s books: Solve For Happy: An original, insightful guide to finding joy UK https://amzn.to/3sTz09z US That Little Voice In Your Head: Adjust the Code that Runs Your Brain UK https://amzn.to/3yVeSIi US Mo’s relationship app: http://emma.love/ #feelbetterlivemore #feelbetterlivemorepodcast ------- Order MAKE CHANGE THAT LASTS. US & Canada version https://amzn.to/3RyO3SL, UK version https://amzn.to/3Kt5rUK ----- Follow Dr Chatterjee at: Website: https://drchatterjee.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drchatterjee Twitter: https://twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drchatterjee/ Newsletter: https://drchatterjee.com/subscription DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

🎤 SPEAKERS

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee

  host

  UK-based physician and health author/podcaster who hosts the interview show.

• Mo Gawdat

  guest

  Author of "Solve for Happy" and former Google/X executive focused on happiness and wellbeing.

🧾 EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Dr Rangan Chatterjee, featuring Dr. Rangan Chatterjee and Mo Gawdat, “I Lost My Son… Then Trained My Mind to Be Happy Again” | Mo Gawdat explores mo Gawdat on choosing happiness, death beyond life, solitude, and AI love Gawdat argues happiness is not constant bliss but a learnable skill: you can choose to become relatively happier by reframing events and adjusting expectations.

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