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Psychologist REVEALS The Key Tricks To Instantly Reduce STRESS & ANXIETY | Julie Smith

Social media has its flaws – but it can also be a force for good, creating communities and offering help to people who might not otherwise receive it. And my guest today is someone who uses her platform to do just that.

Julie SmithguestDr. Rangan Chatterjeehost
Apr 27, 20221h 34mWatch on YouTube

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Practical psychology tools for stress: urges, mindfulness, values, and self-soothing

  1. Julie Smith distinguishes stress, fear, and anxiety as context-dependent versions of a single threat response that increases alertness to help you deal with situations.
  2. She explains her mission to make psychological education broadly accessible, emphasizing that daily practice of many small skills can meaningfully improve life.
  3. She describes practical tools for emotional regulation including mindfulness, metacognition (creating distance from thoughts), and separating urges from actions by choosing value-based behavior.
  4. She discusses how values-based check-ins can help people restore balance when life pressures pull them away from what matters, and why values can legitimately change over time.
  5. She highlights coping supports such as journaling for clarity and self-soothing strategies (including scent-based tools) drawn from dialectical behavior therapy for distress tolerance.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Stress, fear, and anxiety are different labels for one threat response.

She frames stress, fear, and anxiety as variations of a single threat response that shows up differently depending on context, such as everyday time-pressure versus perceived danger.

A common problem is underestimating your ability to manage your mental health.

She says many clients begin therapy believing the therapist will “fix” them, and that a key early theme is rebuilding confidence in their own ability to manage their mental health.

You can notice urges without obeying them—and train that skill.

She describes using “acting opposite to the urge” as a learnable skill (taught in dialectical behavior therapy), and emphasizes practicing it in low-stakes moments so it’s available in high-stakes ones.

Mindfulness is attention training, not perfect concentration or instant calm.

She explains mindfulness as repeatedly noticing attention has wandered and guiding it back, using a “spotlight in a theater” metaphor where thoughts appear like actors but attention is what you control.

Gaining distance from thoughts makes them less controlling.

She describes metacognition as the mind’s ability to think about its own thoughts, creating distance from them; she uses a “mask” analogy to show how perspective reduces a thought’s power.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Why should people have to pay to come see me to find out this stuff?

— Julie Smith

You know, we have that one threat response, but we conceptualize it differently in different types of situations.

— Julie Smith

You can have this urge to do something, and you can... And sometimes it's excruciating not to go with it.

— Julie Smith

You don't have to not have negative thoughts. You just have to give yourself a bit of perspective on them and hold them back and see them for what they are.

— Julie Smith

I've seen people pull themselves from places you imagine people could never come back from, and they have.

— Julie Smith

Read the available transcript
Threat response (stress, fear, anxiety)Self-empowerment and mental health educationUrge vs. action (DBT skill)Mindfulness as attention “spotlight”Metacognition and thought distanceValues vs. goals (ACT)Journaling and expressive writing

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  • Julie Smith

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    Clinical psychologist and author who shares practical tools for managing stress, anxiety, and wellbeing.

  • Dr. Rangan Chatterjee

    host

    Medical doctor, wellbeing author, and host of the podcast “Feel Better, Live More.”

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