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Zen Master: If Life Feels Off, DON’T Ignore It!— You Might Be Living the Wrong Life | Henry Shukman

This episode is brought to you by: AG1: Get 10 FREE Travel Packs and Welcome Kit worth $80 visit: https://bit.ly/43FwxQl BON CHARGE: Save 20% off with code LIVEMORE https://boncharge.com/livemore VIVOBAREFOOT: Get 20% off your first order https://links.drchatterjee.com/4nqvRI3 Do you ever feel as if you’re too busy to meditate, or that you’re simply not very good at it? This is something that so many people experience, yet today’s guest believes that this is ONLY because of a fundamental misunderstanding about what meditation really is. Henry Shukman is an authorised Zen Master and Spiritual Director of the Mountain Cloud Zen Center in Santa Fe, New Mexico. Over the years, Henry has taught meditation at organisations including Google, Harvard Business School and the Esalen Institute, AND he is also the co-founder of ‘The Way’ meditation app, which offers a unique pathway of training designed to help people deepen their practice. Henry is ALSO an award-winning poet and the author of several books, including his latest ‘Original Love: The Four Inns on the Path of Awakening’, which explores meditation as a path to compassion, healing and presence. In our conversation, we explore how meditation can reconnect us with kindness, compassion and a deeper sense of being alive, including: - Why meditation isn’t about achieving something new, but about rediscovering love – whether that’s compassion for ourselves, care for others or a deeper sense of connection with life itself - How even just five minutes each day can begin to calm the nervous system, ease stress and help us feel more present - Why kindness and compassion sit at the heart of health and happiness, and how practices like meditation help us embody them more fully - Henry’s personal story of living with severe eczema, and how meditation helped him transform both his physical health and his relationship with himself - The “four inns” of meditation – mindfulness, support, absorption and awakening – and how they offer a clear and practical roadmap for practice - Practical, accessible ways to bring meditation into life, from stacking it with other habits to finding moments of stillness amid a busy day This episode is a great reminder that meditation isn’t about adding another chore to your list or trying to empty your mind of all thoughts. Many people find it difficult at first and assume they’re not cut out for it, but as Henry explains, there’s no such thing as a bad meditation – the only one that doesn’t count is the one you don’t do. It’s about pausing, being still and coming back to the peace and presence that are part of being human. In a world that constantly pushes us to do more, Henry’s message is a reassuring one: that peace, kindness and love are not rewards to be earned, but parts of who we already are. Reading Henry’s most recent book had a profound impact on me, and I hope that this conversation brings you some of the same insight and inspiration. #feelbetterlivemore Connect with Henry: https://henryshukman.com/ https://www.instagram.com/henryshukman https://www.tiktok.com/@henry.shukman https://www.youtube.com/@ShukmanHenry Henry’s books: Original Love: The Four Inns on the Path of Awakening US https://amzn.to/49bQUug UK https://amzn.to/4oyCOYp One Blade of Grass: A Zen Memoir US https://amzn.to/48BzPtw UK https://amzn.to/4qmTrrJ The Way App https://links.drchatterjee.com/3L9S2Vi Henry’s events & retreats https://henryshukman.com/events #feelbetterlivemore #feelbetterlivemorepodcast ------- Order MAKE CHANGE THAT LASTS. US & Canada version https://amzn.to/3RyO3SL, UK version https://amzn.to/3Kt5rUK ----- Follow Dr Chatterjee at: Website: https://drchatterjee.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drchatterjee Twitter: https://twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drchatterjee/ Newsletter: https://drchatterjee.com/subscription DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

Dr. Rangan ChatterjeehostHenry Shukmanguest
Oct 28, 20251h 54mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Meditation as homecoming: from mindfulness to awakening and love

  1. Shukman argues meditation’s deeper purpose is to experience love—self-compassion, love for others, and an unconditional sense of being alive.
  2. They make a practical case for skeptics: even five minutes daily of “not doing” builds awareness, reduces reactivity, and can regulate the nervous system.
  3. Shukman’s “Four Inns” map (mindfulness, support, absorption, awakening) frames meditation as both skill-building and a shift in identity and perspective.
  4. The discussion contrasts outcome-chasing with process-orientation, suggesting consistent practice naturally leads to calm, flow states, and deeper wellbeing.
  5. Awakening/non-duality is described as a direct experiential realization of non-separation that can reduce existential fear and transform how one relates to suffering and death.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Meditation is less about performance and more about returning to yourself.

Shukman emphasizes meditation’s foundation is simply being with what’s present—restlessness included—so you’re less dominated by moods and impulses.

Start small: consistency beats duration.

A daily five minutes (or even one) builds the habit and the inner “checking in” capacity far more reliably than sporadic long sessions.

Treat meditation as “not doing,” not another task to optimize.

Reframing practice away from achievement reduces resistance and opens the possibility of discovering an already-present sense of okayness.

Mindfulness creates a crucial ‘gap’ that defuses harm.

Noticing agitation or itch/pain as an experience—rather than an identity—reduces automatic reactions and supports healthier choices.

Support is a missing ingredient for many who ‘fall off’ meditation.

Even minimal connection—one friend, a class, remote community, or guided practice—can outperform sheer willpower by reducing isolation and shame.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

If really everybody got this capacity to be still and quiet with themselves... it opens up a state of peace.

— Henry Shukman

Most of what we say about meditation is mindfulness... but why become more mindful? ...it’s always about some kind of taste of love.

— Henry Shukman

Everybody can find five minutes... five minutes for you, not for ‘I gotta do this thing called meditation.’

— Henry Shukman

There’s no bad meditation—the only bad meditation is the one you didn’t do.

— Henry Shukman

We never knew we needed so little to be happy.

— Dr. Rangan Chatterjee (quoting Shukman’s book)

Dalai Lama claim and violence reductionMeditation as love, compassion, and kindnessFive-minute daily practice and habit stackingNervous system regulation: sympathetic vs parasympatheticFour Inns: mindfulness, support, absorption (samadhi), awakening (non-duality)Support via community, teachers, ancestors, and interdependenceBeauty, awe, and nature as gateways to deeper statesIntegration challenges after spontaneous awakeningFear of death and “bringing no fear”

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