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Coping with Change - The One Mindset Shift you Need

There's no doubt that as humanity we are dealing with the most significant global change in recent history. And for millions this has been a time of great difficulty. When this keynote was recorded in February 2020, I had no idea of what we would all be facing in just a matter of months. I hope this helps you in some small way. Best wishes and blessings, Shadé x **** What are you telling yourself during this time of change? Are you unintentionally sabotaging by repeating beliefs like: • “Change is hard” • “I can’t do this” • “My business won’t succeed” Of course, there’s a huge amount of change and uncertainty. And humans are hard wired to see change as a threat. It threatens our preference for control. But succumbing to pessimistic thinking during times of change isn’t going to help you. In this video I share the one mindset shift to reframe how you perceive change which unlocks your ability to not only cope but to grow and be creative. Let me know in the comments what your best method to cope with change. 👇 Recorded at: Success Resources Australia event, Sydney - February 2020 Stock footage: pexels.com Produced by: Influenceo Global Inc. ============================== Free training for professional women: https://www.shadezahrai.com/audio-training To find out more about Shadé, visit the website: https://www.shadezahrai.com Follow her on: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shadezahrai/ • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shadezahrai • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shadezahraispeaker • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadezahrai/ Join her private FB group for professional women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/neurofemina/

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At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Reframe change as opportunity to unlock clearer thinking and energy

  1. People often claim “change is hard,” yet our everyday adoption of technology shows humans are highly adaptable to change.
  2. When change is appraised as a threat, negative self-talk and fear-based mental imagery prime the subconscious and body for a stress response.
  3. Threat appraisal increases self-doubt and reduces clear thinking due to noradrenaline-driven vasoconstriction, limiting oxygenated blood flow to the prefrontal cortex.
  4. Opportunity appraisal shifts chemistry toward higher adrenaline and lower cortisol, improving clarity, motivation, and performance via greater blood flow and oxygenation.
  5. This “cognitive appraisal” validates the idea that what you believe about your capability becomes self-fulfilling through biology, not just mindset slogans.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Stop treating “change is hard” as a fact; treat it as a story.

The talk challenges the blanket belief by pointing out how readily we’ve adapted to major technological shifts, suggesting the issue is often perception rather than ability.

Threat framing triggers a biology that undermines performance.

When you interpret change as danger, noradrenaline and vasoconstriction reduce oxygen to the prefrontal cortex, which impairs clear thinking and amplifies self-doubt.

Your inner dialogue creates mental images your body prepares to match.

Statements like “I can’t do this” or “my business won’t survive” generate vivid internal scenarios that your subconscious adopts, priming stress responses and avoidance.

Opportunity framing improves clarity and drive by changing neurochemistry.

Reappraising change as an opportunity boosts adrenaline, lowers cortisol, and supports better blood flow, helping you feel more capable, motivated, and decisive.

Cognitive appraisal is the key lever you can control in uncertain situations.

You may not control the change itself, but you can control how you explain it to yourself—and that appraisal directly affects your physiological readiness to perform.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Whenever a professional comes to me and says, "Change is hard," I say, "Okay, show me your, your cellphone." And unless they show me a Nokia 6110, I call BS.

Dr. Shadé Zahrai

So when we say change is hard, we're actually denying that we're inherently very good at managing change.

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When you perceive change as a threat, what are some of the things that you start telling yourself? "I can't do this. I don't have what it takes. My business will never survive. All of my competitors are going to outrun me."

Dr. Shadé Zahrai

But what's more, when we look at the neurochemistry, when you perceive something as a threat, it increases your self-doubt.

Dr. Shadé Zahrai

This is called cognitive appraisal, how you appraise a situation, how you explain a situation, and it starts here.

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Humans’ adaptability to changeTechnology as proof of embraced changeThreat vs opportunity framingSelf-talk and subconscious primingNoradrenaline, vasoconstriction, and cognitionAdrenaline, cortisol reduction, and performanceCognitive appraisal (mindset)

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