Skip to content
Dr. Shadé ZahraiDr. Shadé Zahrai

Coping with Change - The One Mindset Shift you Need

There's no doubt that as humanity we are dealing with the most significant global change in recent history. And for millions this has been a time of great difficulty. When this keynote was recorded in February 2020, I had no idea of what we would all be facing in just a matter of months. I hope this helps you in some small way. Best wishes and blessings, Shadé x **** What are you telling yourself during this time of change? Are you unintentionally sabotaging by repeating beliefs like: • “Change is hard” • “I can’t do this” • “My business won’t succeed” Of course, there’s a huge amount of change and uncertainty. And humans are hard wired to see change as a threat. It threatens our preference for control. But succumbing to pessimistic thinking during times of change isn’t going to help you. In this video I share the one mindset shift to reframe how you perceive change which unlocks your ability to not only cope but to grow and be creative. Let me know in the comments what your best method to cope with change. 👇 Recorded at: Success Resources Australia event, Sydney - February 2020 Stock footage: pexels.com Produced by: Influenceo Global Inc. ============================== Free training for professional women: https://www.shadezahrai.com/audio-training To find out more about Shadé, visit the website: https://www.shadezahrai.com Follow her on: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shadezahrai/ • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shadezahrai • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shadezahraispeaker • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadezahrai/ Join her private FB group for professional women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/neurofemina/

Dr. Shadé Zahraihost
Sep 7, 20203mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 0:30

    Calling out the “change is hard” myth (and the cellphone test)

    Dr. Shadé challenges the common claim that people struggle with change by pointing out how readily we’ve adopted rapid technological shifts. The provocative “show me your cellphone” example reframes change as something humans already do well.

    • Uses the cellphone example to question blanket statements like “change is hard”
    • Highlights how much technology and daily life have changed in 10–15 years
    • Suggests people selectively resist change depending on context
  2. 0:30 – 1:01

    Humans are built to adapt—so why denial happens

    She argues that adaptability is a core human trait, and saying “change is hard” ignores our evolutionary capacity to adjust. At the same time, she acknowledges that some changes genuinely feel difficult.

    • Humans have evolved to be adaptable and resilient amid change
    • The “change is hard” story can contradict lived evidence of adaptation
    • Acknowledges the nuance: not all change feels easy or welcome
  3. 1:01 – 1:31

    Threat framing: the inner narrative that sabotages you

    When change is interpreted as a threat, people generate catastrophic self-talk and mental imagery about failure. That narrative is absorbed by the subconscious and primes the body to respond defensively.

    • Common threat-based thoughts: “I can’t do this,” “I don’t have what it takes”
    • Fear-based forecasting about business survival and competitors
    • Mental images shape subconscious expectations and bodily readiness
  4. 1:31 – 2:01

    The neurochemistry of threat: noradrenaline, narrowed blood flow, worse thinking

    She connects threat perception to a physiological chain reaction that undermines performance. Noradrenaline contributes to vasoconstriction, reducing oxygenated blood flow—especially to the prefrontal cortex—making clear thinking harder.

    • Threat perception increases self-doubt and drains energy
    • Noradrenaline production is linked to reduced cognitive clarity
    • Vasoconstriction decreases blood flow and oxygen delivery
    • Less oxygen to the prefrontal cortex impairs decision-making and focus
  5. 2:01 – 2:31

    Opportunity framing: adrenaline, lower cortisol, better performance

    If the same change is appraised as an opportunity, the body shifts into a more enabling state. Adrenaline rises, cortisol drops, blood vessels dilate, and people gain clarity, motivation, and determination.

    • Opportunity framing triggers adrenaline rather than noradrenaline dominance
    • Cortisol decreases, supporting calmer, clearer cognition
    • Vasodilation increases blood flow and oxygen to needed tissues
    • Improved motivation, determination, and capacity to perform
  6. 2:31 – 3:01

    Cognitive appraisal: the mindset switch that changes biology

    She names the mechanism—cognitive appraisal—as how we explain and interpret events, which drives our physiological response. The core takeaway is that interpretation isn’t just motivational; it’s biological.

    • Cognitive appraisal = how you interpret and explain a situation
    • Your story about change shapes your body’s stress/performance response
    • Mindset operates as a lever for both emotion and execution
  7. 3:01 – 3:11

    Henry Ford’s quote—now backed by brain science

    She closes by linking a classic mindset quote to modern neuroscience. The point: believing you can or can’t becomes self-fulfilling because it changes your biology and cognitive capacity in the moment.

    • “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.”
    • Beliefs influence performance through neurological and biological pathways
    • Mindset isn’t abstract—it directly affects how well you function under change

Get more out of YouTube videos.

High quality summaries for YouTube videos. Accurate transcripts to search & find moments. Powered by ChatGPT & Claude AI.