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Stanford Graduate School of BusinessSheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook, on Using Your Voice For Good
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Sandberg on rocket-ship careers, resilience, and using voice for good
- Sheryl Sandberg described her career decisions as choosing mission-driven “rocket ships,” even when the role title or level looked like a step down, and warned against trying to plan a straight-line career.
- She explained how she evaluated working with a founder by focusing on relationship process—how disagreements get resolved—alongside shared values, and gave concrete routines she established with Mark Zuckerberg.
- She recounted how public sharing after Dave Goldberg’s death reduced isolation caused by others’ silence, shaping her emphasis on acknowledging hardship and “kicking elephants out of the room.”
- She outlined practical ways to support others in crisis—showing up with specific help and reinforcing real contributions—rather than relying on vague offers or lowering expectations.
- She challenged common career advice about personal mentoring and branding, arguing that success comes from reciprocal relationships, meaningful contribution, and teams rather than self-packaging or inward focus.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasChoose mission-driven “rocket ships” over optimizing title and level.
She described turning down more “perfect on paper” roles to join Google and later Facebook in more junior positions because she believed in their missions and saw them as high-growth opportunities.
Don’t try to draw a straight-line career; focus short-term on learning and contribution.
She said career planning shouldn’t assume a predictable path because “all the good stuff hasn’t been invented yet,” and recommended pairing a long-run dream with a short-run plan focused on learning and enabling others.
In founder-led roles, prioritize values alignment and a workable disagreement process.
She said the key to joining a founder-led company wasn’t resolving every substantive disagreement up front, but ensuring you can disagree and work things out, and she cited setting recurring meetings and mutual weekly feedback as the process foundation with Mark Zuckerberg.
Support during hardship should combine compassion with credible affirmation of capability.
She explained that after her husband Dave Goldberg died, well-meaning interactions that assumed she couldn’t perform undermined her confidence, while specific, true reinforcement alongside time off helped rebuild it; she said she now applies that approach when colleagues face hardship.
Open acknowledgment can break the silence that prevents people from helping one another.
She said she posted publicly about grief to counter isolation created when people avoided saying anything for fear of saying the wrong thing, and she framed her goal as “kicking the elephants out of the room” so people can acknowledge pain and show up for each other.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesAnyone who thinks you know exactly what you're gonna do for the next 30 years, here's what I promise, or 40 years. It's gonna be boring, and you're gonna miss all the good stuff, because all the good stuff hasn't been invented yet.
— Sheryl Sandberg
When you get offered a seat on the rocket ship, you don't ask what seat.
— Sheryl Sandberg
When I came back to work and people said to me, those kind of things, I said to them, "Oh, don't worry. You know, of course you can't concentrate with all you're going through," that really undermined my- self-confidence 'cause it made me feel like, "Oh, my God, that's exactly right."
— Sheryl Sandberg
When we offer to help, that's actually the most common thing we do, right? That's what I used to do. The problem is when you're on the other side of that, it kinda shifts the burden to the person who's be- needs the help to come up with something, and most of the time you have no idea what to say.
— Sheryl Sandberg
People don't have brands. Colgate has a brand.
— Sheryl Sandberg
SPEAKERS
Sheryl Sandberg
guestCOO of Facebook; founder of Lean In and Option B; author and former Google executive.
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