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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Trevor Noah Hosts Kids and Adults on Understanding Childhood
- Trevor Noah argues that nobody is truly an expert on childhood, and says he wanted to hear from kids directly rather than from experts or adults.
- Adults on the show share memories of discovering their parents were fallible, of being understood or misunderstood, and of how a child's temperament seems partly innate.
- Several speakers say modern parenting has lost the communal village, leaving parents defensive and feeling solely responsible for how their children turn out.
- Kids on the panel say adults are boring, over-focused on the future, and often fail to understand their feelings, yet they offered serious answers about hunger, homelessness and money when asked what they would change about the world.
- Noah closes by encouraging parents to ask their kids for honest feedback, such as end-of-year reviews, because kids are perceptive and can be generous.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasChildren live in their own world with their own priorities.
Noah compares a parent pulling a child away from a cardboard box to a giant lifting an office worker from their desk, suggesting adults dismiss what kids see as important work.
Realizing parents are fallible is a milestone of childhood.
Noah says he saw his mom's limits from around age five or six, and the car accident story sealed it, while another speaker only saw her parents as people in her early twenties.
No parenting approach avoids leaving some gap.
Citing a conversation with Esther Perel, Noah notes some people are in therapy for too much freedom and others for too much structure, and one speaker likens parenting to a dice game.
The village has shrunk, making parents defensive.
Speakers say that in nuclear families a child's misbehavior feels like one parent's personal failure, whereas in communal cultures it was shared, and strangers' correction was once welcomed.
Misbehavior can often be redirected rather than suppressed.
Noah argues that fighting or dismantling things become fine once given structure like wrestling or an electronics class, because kids are usually curious rather than malicious.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesI don't think there is anything that a child is doing that is wrong. It's just we have not created the space for it in their lives.
— Trevor Noah
I think kids tell you who you are whether you like it or not.
— Trevor Noah
Your job is to raise this child, and yet you never ask the child who you are raising how they think you're doing.
— Trevor Noah
Life is a game and there's no way to win it, but you can survive in it.
— Unattributed
I think you'd be surprised at how lenient children are in a way that parents aren't.
— Trevor Noah
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Trevor Noah
hostComedian and TV host who hosts the podcast "What Now? With Trevor Noah".
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