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Meet Khaya Dlanga – One of My Favorite People | What Now? with Trevor Noah Podcast

We’ve got a new type of episode for you. In this premiere “My Favorite People” ep, I chats with my longtime friend (indeed one of my favorite people), Khaya Dlanga. Khaya’s a South African writer, commentator, and Youtube OG.

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Feb 27, 20252h 4mWatch on YouTube

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Trevor Noah and Khaya Dlanga on Village Roots, Loss, Faith

  1. The conversation opens with Uber-driver anecdotes and Khaya's car accidents, which lead into a critique of how Silicon Valley-style companies and insurers prioritize profit and shareholders over service.
  2. Khaya explains how his village childhood, his grandfather's role as keeper of the cattle registry, and plural greetings like sanibonani shaped his habit of talking to everyone and his writing.
  3. Khaya traces his fascination with American politics to reading newspapers and Time and Newsweek as a 13-year-old, then the two discuss Trump's stagecraft, his need to be liked, and judging one's own era.
  4. Khaya speaks openly about losing his brother to suicide after a gambling addiction and losing his mother, and says his faith, his friends, and the idea that hardship is guaranteed carried him through; Trevor then argues that gambling companies push 'responsible' use onto individuals while profiting from those who go bankrupt.
  5. Khaya describes his five books as capturing how ordinary people lived while history unfolded, and both stress that personal stories make political realities human, with Khaya noting that white South African book buyers rarely buy books by Black writers.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Companies drift from mission to profit once they scale

Trevor argues that Silicon Valley firms like Uber underprice competitors, then raise prices and squeeze drivers, and that public listing shifts loyalty from customers to shareholders.

The village shaped Khaya's openness to strangers

Khaya links his habit of chatting with everyone to growing up in a busy home where his grandfather registered cattle and everyone in the village talked to each other. He says it also explains why he keeps writing about the village.

South African greetings are plural and affirm seeing people

Khaya explains that sanibonani carries the sense of 'we see you', including his ancestors, and Trevor notes that people greeting even homeless strangers is something he has not found elsewhere.

Politeness and substance can be separated in judging leaders

Trevor recounts a man in Qatar who preferred a rude president who did not bomb the Middle East over a polite one who did, which made him question whether presentation or action matters more.

Friends and faith helped Khaya endure repeated loss

After his brother's suicide and his mother's death, Khaya says scriptural assurances that hard times are guaranteed and friends who would not let him wallow kept him going, and he describes his glow in the dark as coming from people who love him.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

The small conversations are the ones where you go, "Where's your uncle?"

— Trevor Noah

It's friends, honestly, sincerely.

— Khaya Dlanga

I think that the glowing in the dark is caused by people around you who love you.

— Khaya Dlanga

And I realize that's the thing that limits our ability oftentimes to care for somebody else, is that we don't know their story.

— Trevor Noah

You are such a village child that you've carried the village with you everywhere you've gone in the most beautiful way.

— Trevor Noah

Read the available transcript
Uber drivers and corporate profit motivesVillage life and plural greetingsKhaya's grandfather and father's storiesEarly fascination with American politicsTrump, stagecraft and being likedGrief, faith and friendshipGambling addiction and regulation

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  • Trevor Noah

    host

    Comedian and TV host; creator/host of the podcast “What Now? With Trevor Noah.”

  • Khaya Dlanga

    guest

    South African author and storyteller, discussing his books and personal experiences.

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