How Men Can Survive The Modern Dating World - Hamza

Your competition right now, for the average guy who's watching this, who jacks off five times a week and he plays video games for, like, one hour a day, but it's more like four, the thing is, if you do a push-up today, you have literally beaten 500 million men. How can that not blow your mind? And that if you go and do, like, a good structured program, you're beating pretty much every single guy.

(wind blowing) I think that the dating YouTube space at the moment is totally fascinating, and it's fragmenting into loads of little sub-groups at the moment. How would you categorize the content that you make? What's the purpose of the stuff that you put out on YouTube?

I'd say holistic self-improvement. I love that term more than, like ... I've, I've taken a bit from everywhere, right? And I've done the full, like, hardcore red pill type of stuff. I've ventured into the black pill, so (laughs) o- other people, though, have to go and look at their content. But I found that there's, there's never really, like, a healthy mix between them. A lot of them will just focus ex- like, just solely on women, seeing them as the enemy, trying to be sexist towards them or aggressive towards them. A lot of them just focus on, like, nihilism and, like, this sense of, like, hopelessness. And I don't think any one pill or space online really combines anything together to give, like, a younger man the, the framework for, like, a healthy life going forward revolving around good relationships. And I love the term holistic self-improvement, which is just, okay, let's ... why not ... why don't we all just improve as much as we can? So of course we'll try and up our SMV, we'll try and, like, attract more women and everything, but why not w- do that alongside things like healthy mental health practices, gratitude, mindfulness, learning things about, like, our childhood trauma and how that shapes our day in life?

You're right. W- there's no one pill that's got all of the answers within it. And you can learn bits by bouncing between them, but it seems-

Mm-hmm.

... like the, the most toxic communities are the ones where someone's got into it and then never, ever left.

Oh, that was me being the red pill for, like, seven years. You can, like ... I, I think you've, you've taken it as well. Like, you can really, really go s- deep inside one of these, and when you stop questioning the reliability, the accuracy of what, like, you know, the information that you consume, you can sow ... you can put, like, such a hinderance on your growth.

Well, that's how cults work.

Yeah.

That is precisely how cults work, that you have this leader. The leader's word cannot be questioned. All of the followers th- that, that get co-opted in, they all just believe because you're supposed to believe. And nobody questions anybody's words. And that lack of critical thinking causes ... uh, think about what cults do. They wrap people around. It's a geographical location, but also an ideological location, and they don't permit them to grow.