The Trades You Make to Live Your Dreams - I Prevail

The Trades You Make to Live Your Dreams - I Prevail

Modern WisdomNov 22, 20252h 43m

Chris Williamson (host), Eric Vanlerberghe (guest), Gabe Helguera (guest), Guest (guest), Narrator, Narrator, Narrator

Resurgence of rock and modern metal touring vs. other genresLive show dynamics: risk, audience engagement, and uniquenessBlending pop structures and melody with heavy musicMetal as emotional catharsis and connection for fans and artistsTouring life: burnout, grief, relationships, and growing older in a bandAI-generated music, ethics, and the future of the industryBand business realities, creative control, and internal dynamics

In this episode of Modern Wisdom, featuring Chris Williamson and Eric Vanlerberghe, The Trades You Make to Live Your Dreams - I Prevail explores modern Metal’s Emotional Cost: I Prevail On Success, Sacrifice, And AI Chris Williamson sits down with members of I Prevail to explore the current boom in modern rock and metal, contrasting its visceral, high‑risk live experience with heavily produced pop shows.

Modern Metal’s Emotional Cost: I Prevail On Success, Sacrifice, And AI

Chris Williamson sits down with members of I Prevail to explore the current boom in modern rock and metal, contrasting its visceral, high‑risk live experience with heavily produced pop shows.

They dig into how nostalgia, audience participation, and pop‑level melody are driving growth in heavy music, while also unpacking the emotional themes that give metal its cathartic power.

The band discusses the hidden costs of touring life—burnout, relationships, grief, and missed life events—and how these struggles both fuel their songwriting and strain their personal lives.

They also tackle AI’s impact on music, the business realities behind bands, and how obsession, perfectionism, and constant reinvention shape their identity and longevity as artists.

Key Takeaways

Rock and metal thrive on visceral, participatory live experiences.

Unlike many pop shows that lean heavily on backing tracks and spectacle, modern metal offers real instruments, risk of mistakes, mosh pits, and crowd surfing—creating a physical, communal energy fans can’t get from screen-based lives.

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Nostalgia plus new talent is fueling a modern metal boom.

Older fans now have disposable income to attend anniversary tours and festivals featuring legacy acts alongside rising bands, often bringing younger generations with them and turning shows into multigenerational events.

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Pop songwriting tools are supercharging heavy music’s reach.

Bands like Sleep Token and Bad Omens blend heavy breakdowns with ultra-catchy, pop-style melodic choruses and verse-chorus structures, making songs both emotionally powerful and radio‑friendly enough to stick in listeners’ heads.

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Metal provides a healthy outlet for dark, complex emotions.

Aggressive lyrics and intense music let both fans and artists process anger, grief, alienation, and life’s pressures in a controlled space—especially in small clubs or pits where “ass beater” breakdowns become collective catharsis.

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Touring success demands steep personal and relational tradeoffs.

Long stretches on the road mean missing funerals, births, weddings, and everyday life, juggling grief with performance, and navigating marriages and potential kids around tour schedules—often while living in cramped buses into their 30s and 40s.

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AI in music is both a tool and an existential threat.

The band worries less about fans preferring AI artists and more about AI tracks being quietly fed into playlists by platforms or labels, undercutting already thin artist revenues, while also acknowledging AI’s potential as a discovery and songwriting aid.

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Obsession and perfectionism drive greatness but carry psychological costs.

Extreme attention to detail—from live set construction to visual content and songwriting—helps bands like Bring Me The Horizon stand out, yet this same obsessive drive is tightly linked to self‑doubt, anxiety, and difficulty switching off in normal life.

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Notable Quotes

People are desperate for experiences. Metal and rock are more visceral—you might get punched in the face and scream your favorite songs. It makes you feel alive.

Gabe (I Prevail)

It’s not the fear that someone’s going to choose an AI band over a real band—it’s that AI tracks will just be slipped into playlists until there’s no real musicians left.

Eric (I Prevail)

If you can be defeated by AI or a robot, I don’t know what leg you have to stand on. It’s on you to be better.

Chris Williamson

Our whole career feels balanced on, ‘We release one bad song and everyone rejects us and hates us.’ It’s not true—but that’s the insecurity.

Gabe (I Prevail)

All this doesn’t matter if we take a shot and it flops. There’ll be more chances. You realize what’s important when you lose someone and still have to press ‘go’ on a release.

Eric (I Prevail)

Questions Answered in This Episode

How should artists balance fan expectations for an older sound with their own need to evolve creatively and personally?

Chris Williamson sits down with members of I Prevail to explore the current boom in modern rock and metal, contrasting its visceral, high‑risk live experience with heavily produced pop shows.

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In a world where AI can generate convincing songs, what specific qualities will make human-created music feel indispensable to listeners?

They dig into how nostalgia, audience participation, and pop‑level melody are driving growth in heavy music, while also unpacking the emotional themes that give metal its cathartic power.

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What’s a healthy way for ambitious people to harness obsession and perfectionism without burning out or destroying relationships?

The band discusses the hidden costs of touring life—burnout, relationships, grief, and missed life events—and how these struggles both fuel their songwriting and strain their personal lives.

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How can fans better understand and support the emotional and personal costs artists pay to tour and release music?

They also tackle AI’s impact on music, the business realities behind bands, and how obsession, perfectionism, and constant reinvention shape their identity and longevity as artists.

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Should streaming platforms be required to clearly disclose AI-generated tracks and their use of artist catalogs in training datasets?

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Transcript Preview

Chris Williamson

Why did you get deep-throated by Confetti?

Eric Vanlerberghe

Oh, my God. (laughs)

Gabe Helguera

(laughs) That is up-to-date research right there.

Eric Vanlerberghe

Yeah, wow.

Gabe Helguera

I respect that.

Eric Vanlerberghe

Yeah. So, um, yeah, Gabe, uh, really crushes it with our content and comes up with some awesome ideas, and we kinda pitch some and throw it into a pot and, and, uh, he ca- we came in for a content day and wrote this whole script up, and it was for this giveaway we were doing, and he had written in the script that he was gonna get pied in the face. And then Dylan shows up, and, I don't know, he just changed his mind on the spot and was like, "Yeah, Dylan's gonna get pied."

Gabe Helguera

I gotta be the guy behind the camera, so someone else has gotta take the pie, so we pil- we, we pied Dylan in the face quite a bit.

Eric Vanlerberghe

Mm-hmm.

Gabe Helguera

And, uh, from, from that night, Dylan plotted his revenge for pie and confetti in Eric's face.

Eric Vanlerberghe

Yeah.

Chris Williamson

Okay.

Eric Vanlerberghe

And I got to, you know, shout out We Came as Romans, 'cause they went along with it. We get into their trailer and I get a text, and they have this ritual before their show, it's whiskey time, and they go, you know, we have this little ritual and, like, "Get to the trailer now. Whiskey time." So I'm walking in going, "Whiskey time! Whiskey time!" Pie. Pied again, and now I can't see, and my mouth's open, and I'm just like, "Whiskey time!" And as soon as I said "time", I couldn't see anything and I just got a mouthful of I didn't know what, and then, uh, yeah, I couldn't breathe for a little bit and the uvula in the back of my throat turned into a disco ball. It was like, it was pretty great.

Gabe Helguera

Title of your, uh, autobiography.

Eric Vanlerberghe

(laughs)

Chris Williamson

The uvula in my throat.

Gabe Helguera

A Mouthful of I Don't Know What.

Eric Vanlerberghe

Yeah (laughs)

Gabe Helguera

(laughs)

Chris Williamson

(laughs)

Eric Vanlerberghe

I trademarked that. I'm taking that.

Chris Williamson

Yeah. Yeah. Uh, well, I don't know, man. I feel like having a confetti bukkake is a good way to start a show.

Gabe Helguera

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

Eric Vanlerberghe

Yeah. Yeah. I think it might have to be a ritual, just not on me this time, you know? Dylan's, Dylan, you, you're owed one.

Gabe Helguera

There's gonna be some-

Eric Vanlerberghe

Payback.

Gabe Helguera

... behind the scenes warfare, for sure. This will, this will start a two-year war.

Chris Williamson

Okay. This is the beginning of a, a vicious retributive cycle.

Gabe Helguera

Yes. Definitely.

Eric Vanlerberghe

Wow.

Chris Williamson

Um, I wanna know what you guys make of what's happening with the rock and metal scene at the moment. Because a lot of artists are rethinking touring. There's some reports that have come out recently that I've read. Uh, pop, hip hop, country, uh, little touch and go, some in decline, and certainly if you aggregate it, a lot in decline. But rock touring seems to be bigger than ever. So give me your thoughts. Like you guys been around for a minute.

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