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ADHD Chatter PodcastNo. 1 AuDHD Expert Reveals 5 Hidden Signs of AuDHD | Dr Khurram Sadiq
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Dr Khurram Sadiq Explains AuDHD, Its Contradictions, Stigma, Education and Addiction
- Dr Khurram Sadiq describes AuDHD as order and anarchy living in one person, with autism acting like a parent that restrains ADHD and ADHD acting like a friend that keeps autism from becoming too reclusive.
- He says AuDHD is often missed or delayed in diagnosis because each condition masks the other, and that professionals often aren't trained to see the two together.
- He criticises the education system for failing to look at children's strengths, and he links exclusion, ridicule and neglect to anxiety, low self-esteem and even biological effects on brain development.
- He distinguishes dopamine-driven ADHD hyperfocus from autistic sustained attention and preoccupation, and says addiction links strongly to ADHD, with purpose and replacing stimulation more useful than forcing change.
- He discusses gender differences in ADHD presentation, common misdiagnoses, stigma including 'TikTok diagnosis', and what neurodivergent people want: to be listened to, understood and embraced.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasAuDHD is a balance of opposing traits, not just overlap
Sadiq says autism acts as a parent to ADHD and ADHD as a friend to autism, and he describes three presentations: autism-prominent, ADHD-prominent and variable. He gets annoyed when people say the two can't be told apart, arguing that inattention, for example, has different components.
Each condition can mask the other, delaying assessment
He describes a woman who waited three decades because she felt too organised for ADHD and too disorganised for autism. He adds that professionals struggle to see what they haven't been trained to recognise.
Ridicule and exclusion have biological consequences
Using the Romanian orphans example, Sadiq argues that neglect and exclusion affect brain development. He says milder versions raise cortisol, lower stress thresholds and hamper frontal lobe development.
Hyperfocus and autistic sustained attention are different
He says ADHD hyperfocus is driven by dopamine and norepinephrine, often under deadline pressure, which is why interruption causes frustration. Autistic preoccupation is done for enjoyment and peace and can be paused and resumed.
Panic attacks in the classroom may point to sensory overload
Asked about an eight-year-old who keeps leaving class, Sadiq says to ask the child what is happening, since sensory overload feels physical. He suggests adjustments such as loop earplugs or seating changes.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesI see autism as a parent to ADHD, like it does not let it be too anarchic or too disorganized, whereas ADHD is like a friend to autism that does not let it become too recluse.
— Dr. Khurram Sadiq
Eyes can't see what the mind does not know. You have to educate people in order for them to see that.
— Dr. Khurram Sadiq
If you do not care about the child- If you exclude them, if you don't understand them, you ridicule them, it has consequences. Not just emotional, just not behavioral. It's, it is biological as well.
— Dr. Khurram Sadiq
I think from the world, they want, they need, they need to be listened to. They need not to be shut up every time that they open their mouth.
— Dr. Khurram Sadiq
We need a purpose to live. Especially neurodivergent, you need to have a reason to live, a reason that you enjoy at the same time.
— Dr. Khurram Sadiq
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SPEAKERS
Alex Partridge
hostHost of the podcast ADHD Chatter.
Dr. Khurram Sadiq
guestNeurodevelopmental psychiatrist and AuDHD expert.
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