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Matthew Hussey: The Secret To Attracting True Love That Lasts

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Matthew HusseyguestAli Abdaalhost
Dec 15, 20221h 54mWatch on YouTube

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EPISODE INFO

Released
December 15, 2022
Duration
1h 54m
Channel
Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal
Watch on YouTube
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

[Free 3-hour course] Turn your expertise into a $100k/year income stream β†’ https://go.lifestylebusiness.com/lbafound Subscribe to LifeNotes πŸ‘‰ https://go.aliabdaal.com/lifenotes_deepdive Go to https://www.yourheights.com and use the code Ali15 to get an extra 15% off your first quarterly subscription. Go to https://www.shortform.com/deepdive to get 20% off the annual premium subscription. Go to https://www.skillshare.com/deepdive to get your 1 month FREE trial. πŸ“š Check Out My New York Times Bestselling Book Feel-Good Productivity! πŸ‘‰ https://go.feelgoodproductivity.com/podcast πŸ“§ Sign up for LifeNotes - my weekly newsletter where I share actionable productivity tips, practical life advice, and high-quality insights from across the web directly to your inbox.Β πŸ‘‰https://go.aliabdaal.com/lifenotes/podcast 00:00 Intro 01:39 Becoming a dating coach 05:51 Your breakthrough at the Tony Robbins event 13:13 Getting into public speaking 19:59 Stealing like an artist, fears and taking risks 32:31 Rewriting myths about dating & the handkerchief metaphor 40:49 Modern day handkerchiefs 44:33 Two hit theory 53:06 Stages of deep and lasting attraction 01:02:55 The importance of compatibility 01:08:21 Is there a difference between dating advice for men and women? 01:21:55 Your advantages can become your weaknesses 01:34:10 How much is attraction a choice? 01:44:21 Long term relationships & the honeymoon phase Season 4 Episode 12 Now more than ever dating apps seem to be the sole focus of people’s attention as far as finding relationships are concerned. But mostly it’s because it feels like there’s no alternative. So how do you actually break through the two dimensional world of online dating (with it’s ghosting, red flags, icks and all) and start attracting real-life long lasting relationships? In this episode I sit down for a conversation with Matthew Hussey, one of the worlds leading dating experts and New York Times Bestselling author who has helped over 10 million people get the love life of their dreams. In the episode we start by discussing how Matthew found himself in the world of dating and relationships before uncovering his formulas for getting over the fear of approaching someone in-person, understanding the components of deep and lasting attraction and attracting true love that lasts well beyond the honeymoon phase. Enjoy! πŸ”— CONNECT WITH MATTHEW πŸŽ₯ YouTube Channel - @thematthewhussey πŸ’» Website - https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ πŸ“Έ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ 🐦 Twitter - https://twitter.com/matthewhussey πŸ’Œ Find Your Dating Solution Here - https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ask-matthew/ πŸ’ͺ Discover How To Move On After Heartbreak - https://landing.howtogettheguy.com/move-on-strong/ πŸ”— CONNECT WITH ALI πŸ“š Download my FREE 100 Books To Live Your Best Life Reading List - https://bit.ly/3UZ85nY πŸŽ₯ YouTube Channel - @aliabdaal 🐦 Twitter - https://twitter.com/aliabdaal πŸ“Έ Instagram - https://instagram.com/aliabdaal πŸ’» Website - https://aliabdaal.com πŸ‘₯ Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ali-abdaal/ πŸ“š RESOURCES MENTIONED Get The Guy By Matthew Hussey - https://geni.us/3Z1oAO8 How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie - https://geni.us/JyR5e Awaken The Giant Within: How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Life by Tony Robbins - https://geni.us/l8p1g31 The Game by Neil Strauss - https://geni.us/oPWZfbg Lewis Howes - https://lewishowes.com/ Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson - https://geni.us/IRYqd Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brene Brown - https://geni.us/ymrd Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel - https://geni.us/LRSMIOO πŸ“„SHOW NOTES & TRANSCRIPT Visit the website for the transcript and highlights from the conversation - https://aliabdaal.com/podcast/ πŸŽ™ ABOUT THE PODCAST Deep Dive is the podcast that delves into the minds of entrepreneurs, creators and other inspiring people to uncover the philosophies, strategies and tools that help us live happier, healthier and more productive lives. Want to start your own podcast? We use Transistor! https://go.aliabdaal.com/transistor 🎧 LISTEN FOR FREE Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7gZkflC... RSS - https://feeds.transistor.fm/deep-dive πŸ™ LEAVE A REVIEW If you enjoyed listening to the podcast, we'd love for you to leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts to help others discover the show :) https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... πŸ‘‹πŸΌ GET IN TOUCH You can also Tweet @AliAbdaal with any feedback, ideas or thoughts about the lessons you've learnt from the episodes and we can thank you personally for tuning in πŸ™ PS: Some of the links in this description are affiliate links that I get a kickback from 😜

SPEAKERS

  • Matthew Hussey

    guest

    Dating and relationship coach and author of "Get The Guy."

  • Ali Abdaal

    host

    YouTuber, podcaster, and creator-education entrepreneur behind "Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal."

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal, featuring Matthew Hussey and Ali Abdaal, Matthew Hussey: The Secret To Attracting True Love That Lasts explores Matthew Hussey on Lasting Attraction, Compatibility, and Building Healthy Long-Term Love Hussey traces his career from reading How to Win Friends and Influence People as a kid, through seeing Tony Robbins at 14, to volunteering at small men's workshops where he cut his teeth as a speaker.

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