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World’s No.1 Matchmaker: How To FIND And KEEP Real Love!: Paul Brunson | E187

Paul Brunson is the host of Married At First Sight, and a world-renowned expert on relationships and human connection. Paul spent many years wondering how to get people to love and accept each other, before realising he had to get them to love and accept themselves. Topics: 0:00 Intro 02:58 Early years 08:34 Why match making? 12:49 The influence your parents had on your work 15:37 Attachment styles 22:44 Men not being honest 26:04 The science of dating 34:59 How do we have important, tough conversations? 40:47 Oprah reached out to you for a tv show? 49:06 What did you learn from Oprah? 55:49 Out of all your clients who struggles with being alone the most? 01:09:06 Hugging 01:11:17 The importance of compatibly 01:17:48 Sex 01:23:12 Do we know what we want? 01:28:22 How hard do we have to work to find love? 01:33:05 How honest should we be on the first date? 01:38:47 What are you struggling with in your relationship? 01:42:11 What re you working on now 01:46:32 The last guest question Paul: Instagram - https://bit.ly/3D2kyBA Twitter - https://bit.ly/3SbRfkl Wait list for The Diary - Add your name here: https://bit.ly/3fUcF8q Join this channel to get access to perks: https://bit.ly/3Dpmgx5 Listen on: Apple podcast - https://apple.co/3TTvxDf Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3VX3yEw Follow: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3CXkF0d Twitter: https://bit.ly/3ss7pM0 Linkedin: https://bit.ly/3z3CSYM Telegram: https://g2ul0.app.link/SBExclusiveCommunity Sponsors: Huel - https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Intel - https://g2ul0.app.link/Yh8T9b2KNtb BlueJeans - https://g2ul0.app.link/NCgpGjVNKsb

Paul C. BrunsonguestSteven Bartletthost
Oct 17, 20221h 53mWatch on YouTube ↗

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October 17, 2022
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1h 53m
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The Diary of a CEO
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Paul Brunson is the host of Married At First Sight, and a world-renowned expert on relationships and human connection. Paul spent many years wondering how to get people to love and accept each other, before realising he had to get them to love and accept themselves. Topics: 0:00 Intro 02:58 Early years 08:34 Why match making? 12:49 The influence your parents had on your work 15:37 Attachment styles 22:44 Men not being honest 26:04 The science of dating 34:59 How do we have important, tough conversations? 40:47 Oprah reached out to you for a tv show? 49:06 What did you learn from Oprah? 55:49 Out of all your clients who struggles with being alone the most? 01:09:06 Hugging 01:11:17 The importance of compatibly 01:17:48 Sex 01:23:12 Do we know what we want? 01:28:22 How hard do we have to work to find love? 01:33:05 How honest should we be on the first date? 01:38:47 What are you struggling with in your relationship? 01:42:11 What re you working on now 01:46:32 The last guest question Paul: Instagram - https://bit.ly/3D2kyBA Twitter - https://bit.ly/3SbRfkl Wait list for The Diary - Add your name here: https://bit.ly/3fUcF8q Join this channel to get access to perks: https://bit.ly/3Dpmgx5 Listen on: Apple podcast - https://apple.co/3TTvxDf Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3VX3yEw Follow: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3CXkF0d Twitter: https://bit.ly/3ss7pM0 Linkedin: https://bit.ly/3z3CSYM Telegram: https://g2ul0.app.link/SBExclusiveCommunity Sponsors: Huel - https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Intel - https://g2ul0.app.link/Yh8T9b2KNtb BlueJeans - https://g2ul0.app.link/NCgpGjVNKsb

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  • Steven Bartlett

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EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Diary of a CEO, featuring Paul C. Brunson and Steven Bartlett, World’s No.1 Matchmaker: How To FIND And KEEP Real Love!: Paul Brunson | E187 explores matchmaking Science: Paul Brunson Reveals How Real Love Is Built Paul Brunson, a leading global matchmaker and TV host, explains the science and psychology behind finding and maintaining healthy romantic relationships. Drawing on his background, data, and years of client work, he breaks down attachment styles, communication, compatibility, and why first dates usually fail. He also explores how gendered socialization and feedback loops make women better prepared for relationships than men, and why loneliness is surging among successful middle‑aged men. Throughout, he shares practical tools—from love languages to better conflict and first‑date strategies—while reflecting on his own 21‑year marriage, career pivots, and life lessons from working with Oprah.

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