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World Leading Relationship Therapist: Why Your EGO is RUINING Your Relationship! | Esther Perel

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is back. Esther is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships.

Jan 15, 20241h 31mWatch on YouTube

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EPISODE INFO

Released
January 15, 2024
Duration
1h 31m
Channel
Jay Shetty Podcast
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is back. Esther is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. If you've ever wondered when a relationship is worth saving or why we grieve after a breakup, Esther has incredible insights to share that you can apply to your own relationship. Let's discover the power of accountability in relationships and how it can trigger positive change! If you liked this episode, then you’ll enjoy my conversation with world-leading therapist Lori Gottlieb: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3yAuqcjmJk&t=2727s What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:14 Why Do We Grieve After a Breakup? 09:05 How to Turn Conflict Into Connection 16:03 Negative Effects of Losing "Curiosity" 20:58 The Blame Game 26:10 How to Make Your Partner Feel Important 33:11 Doing New Things Together 39:27 Mutual Breakups 47:21 Before & After Betrayal 53:41 The Intersection of Relationships, Technology, and Mental Health 57:28 The False Relationship Narrative that Failed us 01:08:54 Diversifying Long-Term Relationships 01:15:02 Why Passion Doesn't Always Last 01:20:02 The Real Definition of Self Confidence 01:27:03 "Where Should We Begin?" A Game of Stories with Esther Perel Episode Resources: www.estherperel.com https://twitter.com/EstherPerel https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4eN7PS9mi8__4EYxy6VpFw https://www.facebook.com/esther.perel/ Esther's books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Esther-Perel/author/B001IGJWEU?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Esther's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id1237931798 Want to learn to coach like Jay Shetty? Discover how here: https://gtly.to/PMlHc6JZw

SPEAKERS

  • Esther Perel

    guestGreat Minds guide

    Psychotherapist and relationship expert known for decades of clinical work with couples and for relationship education via books, talks, and courses.

  • Jay Shetty

    host

    Host of the On Purpose podcast, author and speaker who draws on his former monk training to interview guests on purpose, well-being, and relationships.

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Jay Shetty Podcast, featuring Esther Perel and Jay Shetty, World Leading Relationship Therapist: Why Your EGO is RUINING Your Relationship! | Esther Perel explores Esther Perel on Conflict, Betrayal, Choice, and Lasting Love Perel argues that deciding whether to stay or leave involves holding contradictions and grief, since every choice carries loss, and that real repair begins with asking what you can do differently rather than demanding your partner change.

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