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I Asked a Child Behavior Expert How to Be a Good Parent

What if protecting your kids from struggle is actually making life harder for them later?

Jefferson FisherhostDr. Becky Kennedyguest
Sep 18, 20261h 19mWatch on YouTube ↗

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EPISODE INFO

Released
September 18, 2026
Duration
1h 19m
Channel
The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

What if protecting your kids from struggle is actually making life harder for them later? Dr. Becky Kennedy joins me to talk about what it really takes to raise confident, resilient kids who can handle frustration, failure, boundaries, and hearing “no.” We get into when to help versus when to let your child struggle, the right way to set boundaries, how to avoid raising entitled kids, and why being a great parent has nothing to do with getting it right all the time. We also talk about one of the most important skills in any relationship—knowing how to repair when you mess up. Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/newsletter Thank you to our Sponsors: Factor. Head to https://factormeals.com/jefferson50off and use code JEFFERSON50OFF to get 50% off and 1 free breakfast item per box for 1 year. Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 20% off at https://cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/topic Join my School of Communication. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/membership Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@justaskjefferson?lang=en Follow me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffersonfisher/

SPEAKERS

  • Jefferson Fisher

    host

    Host of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast.

  • Dr. Becky Kennedy

    guest

    Clinical psychologist and parenting expert.

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast, featuring Jefferson Fisher and Dr. Becky Kennedy, I Asked a Child Behavior Expert How to Be a Good Parent explores Raise resilient kids by setting sturdy boundaries and preserving frustration tolerance Dr. Becky Kennedy argues that resilience is built through “supported struggle,” pairing empathy for difficulty (“I believe you”) with a firm message of capability (“I believe in you”).

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