"I Don't Know What To Say" | Ask Jefferson Fisher

ℹ️ EPISODE INFO

Released

May 5, 2026

Duration

46m

Channel

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

Watch on YouTube

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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Leave me a voicemail! https://jeffersonfisher.com/ask-jefferson In this first-ever call-in episode, I answer voicemails live, no script, no prep, just raw conversation. A wife whose husband can't express emotion. A woman whose apology was refused. A man being paid less than his colleagues for the same work. A mom whose grieving daughter is stealing her credit cards. And a newly promoted leader trying to manage his former friends. If you've ever felt stuck in a conversation you didn't know how to start, this one's for you. Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/newsletter Thank you to our Sponsors: Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 20% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. https://cozyearth.com/pages/jefferson Monarch. Get 50% off your first year at https://www.monarch.com with code JEFFERSON. Timeline. MitoPure now starts at $79. Go to https://www.timeline.com/jefferson. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/topic Join my School of Communication. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/membership Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@justaskjefferson?lang=en Follow me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffersonfisher/

🎤 SPEAKERS

• Jefferson Fisher

  host

  Host of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast, giving listener Q&A communication and relationship advice.

• Unnamed voicemail callers

  cameo

  Listener voicemail caller asking Jefferson Fisher a question.

🧾 EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast, featuring Jefferson Fisher and Unnamed voicemail callers, "I Don't Know What To Say" | Ask Jefferson Fisher explores Practical phrases for emotional, workplace, and family conflict conversations daily He explains that low emotional expressiveness often reflects difficulty emoting—not a lack of feelings—and recommends building emotional vocabulary together to create safety in a marriage.

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